My brother is going to ask a girl he loves to marry him but no body in the family wants him to marry that girl

Demun

My opinion is that it's his life, if that is what makes him happy then you as his family should support his decision

tonalc1

My opinion? Mind your own business. It's his life.

Been There~Done That!

It is your brothers decision not the family's decision.

There is nothing you or your family need to do or can do to change his mind if this is what he wants. It will be up to him to suffer the consequences of his decision or make the best of it.

It is his life, his decision, his need.

GirlinNB

If you don't know her then you and your family should NOT be passing judgement. She could be the PERFECT woman for your brother. Kudos to him for going against his family and marrying someone he loves and adores. Whether or not you have money or an education does not make you less of a person. And from your grammar and some spelling I'd say you are no better than this person you claim is 'wrong' for your brother.

smart_ioana

he's marring her..not ur family...

martino

"no body in our family is approving that girl since she is less Education from him"

LOL. Yep. Sounds like they have plenty of room to talk...

dce1dg

HEY IT IS HIS LIFE,IF HE LOVES HER AND WANTS TO MARRY HER THEN THAT IS HIS LIFE

jwaddles53

I think nobody is forcing a 33 yr old man to marry anyone. I think your family is wrong for feeling that way and that if this is a mistake to marry that girl, he has to learn by hisself the hard way...

dianesomeone

well since he is the one marrying her I guess you should all back off and support his decision...you've never met her but you don't like her because she is poor...what is wrong with you people.....

tyty_loves_matty

It's not your life or your family's life. If she makes him happy then you guys should all be proud and happy about that. If they love each other so much, back off and let them get married. It's their life, their business, not yours or anyone else's.

*RoCKsTaR* mommy of 1!!

you and you fam should mind you own buisness! Not being rude but cmon! Hes 33, cut the apron strings and be happy for him, let him run or ruin his own life.

Keith Python

Your brother is more than old enough to decide whom he marries. As far as her education and financial situation goes that is none of your business. If your family truly loves your brother they will bless him and support him. If they don't then it is none of their business. I hope your brother has sense enough to marry the girl regardless of your objections.

spankypants

lack of education and lack of money mean nothing. your family sounds like a bunch of snooty idiots. besides, it's his decision, not yours.

wingshooter08

Butt Out.....it's his life!

Step

Who is marring her him or his family?

AsianPersuasion :)

He is well grown and it is HIS life. At his age NOone can force him to do anything he doesn't want to do. If he is happy and loves her, all you can do is be happy that he is happy.

brandon

screw what the family thinks and marry who you want to its his life!

Rayne

...In the end, it's what he wants.

nottashygirl

It is not up to the family to decide who someone marries. If you love your brother, you will honor and respect his decision, and try to open your arms to his soon to be wife. You are not the ones who will be spending "forever" with her, he is. It's his choice, and no one elses.

I hate friggin' crybabies

Yeah, that LOVE thing... whew! boy! It can sure make you overlook all that "important" stuff like social status, class, education, etc.

Is your brother really THAT much of a spineless jellyfish that a poor, undereducated woman is FORCING him to marry her?

My advice is don't go to the wedding, because the only people that should be at a wedding are people who love the couple and want them to be happy.

Serenity

I think you should ask your brother to let her come over and meet her. If they been going out for five years that is a long time. If he is happy with her you should just let it be. If she has less education maybe it is a reason for that. I think you and your family have to take your brothers feelings into account. He is 33 years old and he needs to learn from his own mistakes if it does not work out.

pinky

me and my sis think that he should marry her if he really wants too and plus he is marrying her not your family so let him decide not your family

sml

no one can force someone unless there is a shot gun to their head and that isn't the case; it is his life; not yours, he has to learn and do for himself; all you can do is support him and love him unconditionally; you are judging her on monetary ruler; not all wealthy educated people are good choices, Paris Hilton, etc ; she wants contact with him ; if he wanted to cut it off ; he would ; mind your business and just love him and try to love her ; you may be surprised.

PS3 Fanatic

Your brother is the only person who can really answer your question. Does he loves her? If he does, everything is great.
If not, he should dump her and move on. Family approval will be great but he does not really need family approval.

JACK

well i'm that girl! your brother told me your yahoo id, so i did some spying. i am using my friends computer and his id. now i know that you hate me! i don't care what you think, i'm marrying your brother and you can't stop me. i seen you and your actions!

miss_kiki4

i think your awful for not liking her for those reasons, did u ever think theyre might be a good reason for her not having an education? and then holding it against her for not having a well off family> shame on you guys. its none of your business its not you whos marrying her so butt out.

Taz

No one learns by the experiences of others. Let your brother live his life - if that's the person he wants then so be it.

Once upon a time

If you've never met her, how can you disapprove of her? Really, he's an adult. He can do what he wants, including marrying someone of his choosing without the family's consent. You are not going to be able to stop him and trying to do so may distance you from him. Just try to be as nice as you can. Imagine how you would feel if the roles were reversed.

Jersey Boy

How can you have an opinion and never met? If you brother wants to get married to her, why hasn't he introduced her to the family?

My opinion is that your brother needs to introduce his girlfriend to the family and everyone has to keep an open mind. He is 33 years old and can decide who he wants to marry, but it would be much better for the family and girlfriend to know each other and get along.

Court Queen

let him do what he wants! if he really loves this girl enough to marry her they must have something good!

Im_Just_Me73

It is not up to the family to decide who he marrys. Let him follow his heart. If he loves her then let him choose. Your not the one marrying the girl...he his. Shouldn't it be his decision? If you really can't stand the girl then tell him yo maybe think about what he is about to do and tell him how you feel.

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