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My chubby wife doesn't appreciate my kindness and patience, is this normal when the man is better looking ?

My chubby wife doesn't appreciate how lucky she is that I've remained with her even during her weight gain during her pregnancy. I've been nothing but a bundle of joy and patient. I know that in our relationship I'm the good looking one and she should be extremely proud of herself and count her lucky stars, but she doesn't, all I hear is that she has a sore back, her breasts are tender and the likes. My dinner isn't always on the table at 5pm, it's been on the table as late as 5.15, and I didn't even pull her hair or stomp on her toes..nothing, I was patient...Now she's trying to pull the tired card, going to bed before all her housework is done, last night, there was a dish in the sink and she sneaked off to bed at 2:45 am. I'm not sure if she realizes how lucky she is that I remain with her. With me at her side she will always have g/friends ( as they like to be with me ). How can I explain to her how lucky she is without hurting her feelings ?


    




dollynjanie
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It's amazing your wife doesn't appreciate you at all. Of course any woman would be lucky to have you as a husband. Why doesn't she realize that and start doing as you wish is beyond me.


bob b
That is wrong. I love my woman, no matter what her size.
Neither of us take each other for grant it.


twincerelymel
From what you are saying, I think she isn't that lucky at all. You sound like an absolute creep.


Roger
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if this isn't a joke then i think u should consider yourself to be the lucky one because she hasn't told you to go f*** yourself for being such a controlling a**...


winnieme77
Seriously......you need help! What a friggin stupid man!


princess
I'm guessing you're too handsome to have a pic posted or too handsome to have an avatar that looks like you. Maybe they don't make avatars that ugly...i meant handsome.

Why are you so into yourself? You think you'll be good looking throughout your life.

She should put some laxatives in your food and make you release that built up S H I T that's coming outta your mouth.


cyber_music
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Get a divorce. If you're that great you won't have a hard time finding a new wife right? And maybe she'll just end up with some fat loser who does the dishes and lets her sleep all day.


dreamy
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your a D i c k


1heartbrokengirl
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Seriously???..... I think she would be in a great mood (laughing her as* off!!!) if you actually let her READ what you wrote, because it's a real HOOT how frikin' ridiculous you are...
You MUST be spoofing... I can't believe ANYONE would be so shallow to be speaking seriously of this... Seriously?


loserwent
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she is taking out her misery on you! trust me, i have been living that for 10 years. it just gets worse. she will never change.

do not try to explain anything as it will be for nothing buddy.

accept her for who she is and keep telling yourself that you asked her to marry you, no one forced you

man i really feel for you, i get so miserable sometimes, the new thing now is that she thinks she is BI-POLAR!

the blood pressure thing has stopped, thank god

good luck


Dental Hygienist Jess
Oh, please...PLEASE let me know when you finally decide to dump her! I will be waiting in the wings for a catch such as yourself! (I am assuming there will be a LONG line for you, though)

Thanks for the two points


Gin
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Wow! I thought my husband was bad.You take the cake!


waiting for baby
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I hear that you are the lucky one, you p is the length &width of a child pinky yet she still stay with you
so count your blessing
hahaha


ridingis4life
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you should be lucky that she is still with you after reading this message


oldman
My god man you are a saint! How do you put up with this? You must be madly in love with her to tolerate such behavior never mind the weight issue. I think the problem is you have been FAR too patient with all of this...especially the dinner situation. I would tell her....no DEMAND that dinner is on the table...no later than 5 pm...and it better be hot! As for her sore back and being tired tell her that's because you are so out of shape! Being over weight is the number one cause of back pain...get of your chubby butt and do a work out!
Stand up for yourself for gods sake...a good looking stud like yourself does not need....nor should have to put up with this! Be firm...its for her own good and she will be thankful in the end...I only hope you can tolerate this long enough for her to realize what she has in you.
Best of luck and try to hang in there...


xv
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I am amazed that there are women that would tolerate a guy like you.
P.S. I realize this scenario is probably your fantasy ... but I'm sure it exists somewhere.


acbm
have you asked urself that maybe her lousy attitude is beacuse of you? You seem the one who doesnt appreciates her. You are more concerned in the physical part


Crystal
You're such a f*cktard.......thanks for the 2 points though........


spaceman
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...................................... so you are a good looking man ................ go to the real world and see ............... how kind are you friend .......


Lynne B
%$^hole!!


icecreamheadache420
to all the people that answered this:
WHY DID YOU FALL FOR THIS QUESTION....CMON


plumcouch30
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you are a ***.I hope she never feeds you and you starve to death


moma_sha_sha
Maybe she's actually tired of you saying she's so lucky to have you, and is trying to make you leave because she would obviously be much happier without your conceited butt!!


firecracker
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this has got to be a joke right?


cope_acetic
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I saw your "wife" the other day, he has a bigger pecker than yours, and told me you love it up the tailpipe.





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