My ex's new girlfriends stalk me!!?

I'm very annoyed!!! I dated a guy for 2 years about 4 years ago. We were close but he ended up cheating on me so I ditched him. Every girlfriend he has had since me stalks me!! I have no contact with him what so ever. He has tried to be friends with me but I want nothing to do with him. He would contact me through Facebook and I would see that he was in relationships. One of his girlfriends kept harassing me on Facebook. I told him about it and asked him to tell her to leave me alone. He apologized. She then started showing up at my work, walking by and laughing. Now he has a new girlfriend and she is coming in and just staring at me!!! I'm so annoyed! He knows where I work. Is he telling them about me?? And why?? It's been so long?? I want nothing to do with the guy, he cheated on me and I'm being bothered my his new girlfriends!!!!

Stef

That's really weird, and your right to be annoyed and even a little concerned. I think the ex is stilll in love with you, and he's prolly telling the new girls bad things about you. Think about it, when the first girl stalked you, you went to him and asked him to tell her to leave you alone. So out of neccessity you gave him attention (not your fault), so all he has to do now is to get the new girl to do the same as the old girl and maybe he'll get the same result (you coming to him asking for "protection"). I'd approach her next time she strolls by your work and ask her politely what's up. Noticce I said politely, that way you won't have a bunny boiling when you get home (wonder if your old enough to get that)

u8muhrice

Sounds like your boyfriend is immature. You did the right thing and it seems like he is obsessed with you. Be proud that your boyfriend is a sad sob and he can't get rid of you. You're a strong girl and you did the right thing.

As for the stalkers, go to legaladvice.com and see if you have a case. Its a place where you can ask lawyers some questions and they can answer for you. If not, seriously talk to the parent about it. Don't be irrational or angry, but be cool and collective. Make it known that their son is immature

Tricia G

Block him from your Facebook account. And once his new gf's start harassing you on Facebook, block them as well.

My sister harrassed me once on my Facebook page. I deleted her as a friend.

Upside

Tell the Girlfriend to leave you alone or you will get the police involoved. Even if you don't get them invloved at least there is a threat so they know you are serious.

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Well you are gorgeous and they are jealous that is the only thing I can think of.

whatsinaname

Sounds like he is talking about you enough to make them jealous. He probably knows he screwed up and regrets it...and won't let it go. I would tell him that it's over. That he and his girlfriends are just making you think worse of him. Tell him it is time to let go...people make mistakes, he needs to forgive himself and grow up.

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