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bailey8554
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Who cares? If you were open minded enough to make the video then it shouldn't really matter what happens to it. |
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janicajayne
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Ask a lawyer what you can do about it legally. And for the future, never tape yourself doing something you don't want your children seeing later. |
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Im awesome & that pisses you off
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dont make a "naughty" video next time |
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Willie J
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You can file a law suit against him. I would see if you can get a free consultation from an attorney. Putting that up with out your consent is against the law. |
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don m
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if you've got a pic of his d ick then photoshop it so it's tiny, print it, photocopy loads of copies then put them through the doors of his neighbours! |
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luisa_mapacha
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Act like you don't care, then he won't want to as much. And while you're pretending not to care, do whatever it takes to get the video from him. |
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Fast & Furious
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Could be a springboard to fame. Look at Abi Titmuss, Paris Hilton etc etc. |
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Darcie Z
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Tell him if he does you will go the police and tell them he is black mailing you. It is illegal. I don't see what else you can do really. |
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♥Katie♥
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call the cops, he can get thrown in jail for doing that, its illegal |
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improperfantasy
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destroy him. what a *insert swear words here* theres a certain trust when you make vids like that, and if he breaks that trust break him. in fact, screw him over just for threatning to do it, stand up for yourself. im sure that you have something you can use against him. revenge is sweet. |
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wondering
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Get a lawyer. |
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miss m
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contact your local police station - this is blackmail and illegal. also contact a lawyer have the lawyeror police contact him informing him of what legal actions you can take. in the mean time do everything you can to get that tape back- though if he really means it he probably has copies...
sorry this happened to you - what a jack*** |
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Mindi
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Charge people to watch.... there is always money to be made.... :) |
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themomof7
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And herein lies a great lesson for all! DON'T in the first place make something or do something you'll regret in future days.
You know, you really ought to tell your ex to go for it. Say something to the effect of "Yeah then everyone can see what a lousy lover you really are!" Or, "OH I would LOVE you to do that! It'll get me LOTS more dates!" Sometimes you have to call the bluff. Sometimes you have to not be afraid of the game they are playing and play at it better than they. Most ex's are just trying to hurt the other because they can't get over the fact that they've lost at love.
Good luck! |
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ilmfs3
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If you can't destroy it first, consult a lawyer to see what rights you have. |
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JOHN M
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tell him if he does that, whenever he moves on and gets a new relationship you'll make it your mission to track his new wife, girlfriend, fiance down and tell her in graphic detail what a low life he is. It's up to him if he's that stupid! |
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Gwyhir
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Tell him you would rather he didnt put anything on the web which made him look such a poor lover. |
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Maddie and Jacobs mom
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Talk to a lawyer about it. There should be something that can be done. |
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star69
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sue him, its not legal. what a giant child |
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Steve
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sell it and put it on the interent first....make all the money for yourself |
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Chelsea John
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I find it strange the way everybody is assuming that the person asking the question is a female and the aggressor threatening to expose the video is a male.
In my experience it is females that resort to this kind of "vengeance" when a guy hurts a girl it is invariably because of being thoughtless or selfish or similar. When a girl hurts a guy it is normally spiteful and in cold blood. |
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daveostrich
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If you've got a copy put out on syndication and make a heap of money from it. Thats if you think he will go through with it!!! |
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borgpicard
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well if they do, ok it`ll be embarrasing for a few days, then after a week or two, old news, everything will have moved on, but you will know that you ex cant stoop any lower, you could try reverse psycology, tell you ex " so what do it, get it over and done with ", ( thats what i`d do at least theres no more blackmail, must be horrid for you, good luck |
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Katziie .x
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ask a lawyer if you can do anything about it |
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justinespencer
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he wouldn't dare as this is a criminal offence. he is bluffing! |
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beliz
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Never take any video with anyone period. Get a restraining order on him and go to court. |
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