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Rachel
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He was just using her, she needs to get over him. Hopefully he won't call her anymore, but if he does then SHE needs to tell him that it is over. She needs to find someone who really cares for her...and this is not the man that does. |
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Thallie
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Dude. The guy is a LOSER. I know your friend is having a tough time with that, but drill it into her head. He is not worth her time. Distract her and get her mood up, and get her grades up!
If he calls again, she needs to tell him to go **** himself, because he seems to be trying to do everyone else already. |
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lancearmstrong1313
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uhhh...doesn't sound like he thinks of them as girlfriend/boyfriend. Chances are you friend just thinks they are dating when really they aren't. |
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Emma F
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well first of all hes a creeper if hes 33 and she is 19 she neeeds to forget about him and get a guy her age who treats her right and loves her. she just needs to forget about this guy if he doesnt care about her instaed of getting hurt |
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Kat
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You know the answer to this girlfriend! You have to talk to your friend and get her out of that! He's obviously not being true to her and if she stays with him she will just progress deeper into a hole. If you talking to her one on one won't help, get a group of her friends together and have an intervention, but don't put her down. Instead build her up! She needs love and self esteem in order to realize that she's too good for this guy! She's obviously very smart and beautiful and you need to help her realize that she doesn't need that dirt bag. There are plenty of wonderful guys out there who would be better for her! Good luck!
Kat Ray |
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welsh_chik
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At 33 he should know how to treat a girl, i would say move on and find someone who loves and respects you. |
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@}--->
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He's just not that into you. Forget him, you are young, move on. |
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QWERTY
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First she needs to stop obsessing about this guy he's not worth it. Second if he calls her she should hang up immediately.
She is giving all her POWER to this guy and she's has to take it back RIGHT NOW. Is that how she wants to live her life, following after some guy who no longer wants a relationship?
She has a lot to lose because of this man and she is not smart to allow this to happen. Don't ever give so much of your life to a man. They just aren't worth it.
This is not sour grapes, I'm very happily married. I just know that men should be a compliment to your life NOT your life. She needs to take hers back NOW and never give it away again.
WOMAN POWER! |
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[just keepin it real]
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"he doesn't pick her calls,answer her text messages,he does not reply her emails,does not come and see her"
so basically, there isn't even a relationship. why would she want to be with him? he's too old for her anyway. he probably just wanted the thrill of having a younger girl for a while...then went back to his normal life.
it's obvious that she just needs to ignore him, focus on college, and move on.
eaisier said than done, but she'll need your help to keep her occupied to forget this creep. |
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coolbetcch.
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Thats a big age difference. It does sound like the guy just wants to do his own thing, he sounds like a loser anyway. Your friend is still young she has her whole life ahead of her. Just tell her to move on and she will find the right person, and when she does she will feel dumb for even caring about this guy so much. If he calls her again i wouldn't even answer, he would probably just try to use her for something. Best of luck. |
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roger678
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change ur number hes a waste of space! |
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CieloAzul
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If your friend is 19 and he's 33 she should forget about him and dump him. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is only a few years older than me. Dating older men forces you to grow up faster. A 33 year old isn't going to want to go out every saturday to party, or want to let you do all of the fun things you'd want to with your friends. He may at first, to please you, but eventually he's going to want to put that to an end.
Your friend has a scholarship and a golden opportunity. If her boyfriends is ignoring her, and spending time with his son's mother, then it may be time to dump him and move on. It may be easier said than done, but I doubt he's feeling the same way.
Ask your friend, if she really wants to ruin her entire life over this guy who sounds like a deadbeat boyfriend. If he does ever call her again, I would suggest that she ignore the call, block his number, or just flat out let him know that she's no interested anymore. It sounds that she's really beat up about the whole thing though, so maybe talking to him is a bad idea. If he says he wants her back, she might "forgive and forget."
She's 19. She's got the whole world and the rest of her life in front of her. There will be other men. I can GUARANTEE that. |
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Alex B
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hes to old.. and i dont feel like reading the rest of this... |
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Fucktheworld
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Yes he is cheating and yes he is living with gf or wife whatever.He does not want to answer her because she is reserved as the booty call and he doesnt want to take risks with his living idiot. If i was your friend i would cease all contacts with him and concentrate on my studies which is far more important.
She should not waste one more second on him and chances are he might not even call her again so all she can do is cut ur losses and move on with life.Why settle 19? |
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tony
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sounds like the guy was using her to me. he probably was out doing bad things and that why he wouldn't talk to her. she needs to find someone her age it will work out a lot better. and i would tell her if he calls do not answer most likely all that will come from the phone is sweet talk and lies. |
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chicken soup
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ewww dude he is like so much older than her!!! he's almost double her age!! no offense
he's not into you, i guess, dump him
forget him and move on to someone who replys and doesnt hide stuff and cares about you!! <3 |
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Dub's
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Tell your friend to do her best to move on although it may be difficult right now things will get better. She has too much to lose and a great future ahead of her to be wasting time on that loser. If he calls don't answer, he's just going to hold her back and make things more difficult for her.
A lot of men out there are like predators, they find a young girl and take advantage of them. They don't realize how much of an impact they have on peoples live when they drag them into their world of lies and deciet, they can hurt someone for a lifetime because of their games.
Don't talk to him, try your best to concentrate on your studies and move on.
Best whishes to you. |
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b west
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he is married! dear stay clear of this mess. why would you want to be with a guy who is not about you? if he liked you, he would be calling you, making sure that strong bond stays in tact. please. he is married. thats why she is a some of the time kind of friend. |
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wilderwriter
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If this girl won't listen to you, she sure as **** won't listen to us. Number 1, she had no business getting involved with anyone that much older than she is. Number 2, she is old enough to realize that she has responsibility for her own life. She needs to be prepared to reject ANY further contact from the louse, no matter HOW he approaches her. She can only "forget" about him by filling her mind with other thoughts. She is in a good position, being in school, to have many other things to focus on. Four months is not nearly enough time to get so involved with ANYONE.
But all my opinions mean nothing to her, and no reason why they SHOULD - except for the simple truth that they represent the TRUTH. They are definitely not easy to accept, but she got herself into this position and only SHE can get herself out of it. |
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nuada2000
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Listen I don't want to seem mean but tell your friend to grow up and get back to her studies, that guy is an A**hole and he is F***ing her around, what he is doing is abuse and he wont stop.
she is only 19 and there is a whole world out here tell her move on, I know she thinks her life will end but guess what it wont, and six months from now she will wonder why she was making such a fuss. |
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Arthur B
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OK, First from a guys perspective. He is just using her and she needs to move on and not be bothered with all of his childish games. As far as him calling her? Sure i am pretty positive he will once he gets tired of his new "friend". When he does call again tell him that she is not looking for someone that changes women like a pair of shoes and that she has more important things to do in her life then worry about a 33 year old looser who can't seem to get his life together.Tell her to continue in school and better her future. Remember this is college and she is supposed to have fun! Oh, and try to keep her from hooking up with these older dudes. Hell he is probably married anyways.
With all seriousness she is the one that knows him and she will be the one best suited to come up with what to say to him. All anyone else can do is give advice from the information you give.
Good luck in what ever you choose to do. |
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RuthAnn
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The first RED FLAG is the age difference. If this guy was a REAL man he would be married by now or at least dating someone his own age. Duh?
I am not trying to sound mean or anything but facts are facts. I hope U can help her get over this looser. He is not interested in her at all.
She needs a wake up call about life in general it seems. School is most important for her survival. When love is a one way street it is no fun, and very dangerous to drive down that street. Your girlfriend is hung up on how she is feeling, and is not looking at the world with her eyes wide open. I sure hope you can help her see the truth -- that there is no relationship with this guy -- or any other man who treats her this way! |
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Carl W
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well for starters he is 33 and she is 19 wow big difference i would move on and try finding someone with common interests like age |
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Daisy-flower
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That's a BIG age difference...a Guy 33...well....He can go out and about.
Go too clubs and what ever else
REALLY nothing you can do or SAY ...Just warn her! She will only listen too what she want too and BELIEVE what SHE wants!
You will have too sit back and HOPE she realizes before something serious happens. It's LIKE talking too a drunk...and You CAN'T TALK TOO A drunk! EITHER...She will live and learn!
and it's real HARD too sit back and watch this all happen too someone you care so much about! I'm SORRY too SAY!
LUCK TO YA! |
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wornout
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Yeah she needs to let that zero GO!! He's obviously not that into her and he's made it perfectly clear. She is only 19, she needs to pick herself up, dust herself off and move on with her life and studies. Tell her to get her degree, get a great job, make lots of money and live well. That is the best revenge! He's not sitting around starving himself or wallowing because he used her and neither should she!! If he ever calls again don't anser the phone, better yet tell her to change her # so he can never call again. |
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undone
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She needs to just forget about that a**hole. Come on. He is living with his "ex" and has a baby. He is 33? What?? Is she jumping in line to be the next "ex" of his with a baby, watching him screw around with 19 year olds while she is home with his baby?? Geez. She should be glad he is ignoring her. I say, tell her to give him the ol' "one finger salute", go party and forget his sorry a**. |
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Lily
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She should move on. Concentrate on her studies. A new boy will come along. |
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Miss_Suzy
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She needs to get on with her life, pronto!! Because he got on with his. He is not sitting in some dark room somewhere waiting for her to call.
What makes her think he's going to call? He is obviously avoiding her!! |
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