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chancock01@btinternet.com
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i was in love with a married man we had an affair that lasted nearly 5 years i adored him so much i couldnt let him go now i live with him have his daughter and we are due to get married soon and we are both soooooooooooooo happy sometimes it does work you just need courage from both sides and alot of patience because the going can get really tough trust me |
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Goodspeed
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Take a sharp object and plunge it into her back, that will give her some kind of idea of the pain she and her lover is causing the wife and her family....He wants something on the side and she is it...if he ever left his wife the gf will be the 2nd thing to go. |
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Trillian
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Tell her to stay away from him. Nothing but heartbreak in store for her. |
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fartman
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let it work out on it's own. i'am sure it will |
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mojacko
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tell him to go with what his heart tells..... |
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Lynn
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Tell her to run...far, far, far away. There's nothing but heartbreak in the future for her.... |
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bobo
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please tell her it is nothing but trouble. There are other fish in the sea. |
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skdonweb
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Married men love unmarried females most. Females falling for married men is like - "the grass always looks greener on the other side".
Some person has suggested that she has finally got her married man with her. I think it depends entirely on people if they want to break someone else's marriage. |
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jennydanieltan
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try telling her the bad staff about the guy !
or tell her ''it's nothing but a wrong path! |
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mm-jen@sbcglobal.net
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remind her that what goes around comes around |
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samshel1
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give it up he will not leave his wife for her. and if she tells the wife he will leave her not the wife. or worse he could hurt her... |
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Dr. Phil-lys
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He doesn't like her, he's escaping his own misery and lack of being able to deal with his issues at home and within himself.
She is a coward for condoning it and he is a coward for not stepping up to the plate and dealing with the issues at home.
Why people can't see this, I don't know. Why they think, "oh, i'll get him to divorce, he'll love me, marry me and we'll live happily ever after". Uh, NO YOU WON'T because neither one of you (them) has learned to cope maturely and rationally. Affairs are irrational. It's that 15 year old mentality that never developed into an adult mentality. Far too common unfortunately. Most parents are not equipped to help their children deal with things and emotionally develop properly. Children learn through example and the examples of relationships and marriages out there aren't too pretty. Hence you have the perpetuating cycle of affairs and failed marriages. |
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5646
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umm.. you know that what she is doing is wrong. so you should lie to her.HOW??
make up a story which is about a woman who committed suicide when she learned her husband is cheating on her.(i made it up rigth now) in short, make her realize how bad she can ruin someone else's life and tell her that she could be in that womans place.im sure she will regret a lot in the future if she does something to hurt that mans marriage |
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Ray
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He likes everyone very much. Tell her to leave him alone. |
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asmoothrider
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If she is willing to do this,then nothing you say or do will stop her.
He has got her under his spell and only he,or his wife will breaking it.
If you try,then be prepared to finish your friendship. |
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jjbeard926
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If he's willing to leave his wife for your friend, he'll do it again to her. This is a bad path to take. She'll never be able to trust him and she'll being doing something truely evil to this woman she doesn't know. |
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♥Miss X♥
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That is so wrong! My man did that to me and I was so torn. But luckily I have God and I forgave both of them. But ask her how would she feel if her man did that to her and she was married. Obviously the couple is lacking something, but she shouldn't make herself his remedy. When things aren't good at home, he'll run to your friend. Does she want to be that kind of girl for him. If he really wanted to be with her, doesn't she think he would have left his wife already. What kind of woman would want a man who can't make up his mind about who he wants to be with. If he could do that to his wife, then he could do it to her. Most importantly, GOD sees all and those people will be judged! They'll get whats coming to them. |
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Verwirrte
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Bad move!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... If he cheats on HIS wife he will cheat on HER.
Would you like for her to take YOUR man. Think of that one.
BUT LOVE IS BLIND. Tell her to find her own man and not be a homewrecker. Good luck with that. |
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curious
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Tell her to be prepared to spend every major holiday sitting alone picturing him with his real family. Tell her to get used to being second all the time, having to deal with life on her own because he will be too busy devoting himself first and foremost to his wife. |
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valkyries78
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Advise her adultery is a sin, and not to be a homewrecking tramp.
Advise her that she can't trust this guy will be faithful to her, if he's not to his real wife.
Advise her you're getting a better class of friends if she persists in this. |
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Swaygirl27
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I am in the same situation! My best friend is seeing a married man and is head over heels..and he has strong feelings for her as well..but is still married! It drives me nuts b/c I don't know what I should tell her...but what I have been telling her is to give it a few months and if he doesn't make an effort to leave his wife..then leave him because it'll never happen. Still, in my eyes, I think it is wrong that she's doing anything with a married man..but that is her..not me, so oh well. What can you do? |
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kja63
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Tell her to RUN as fast as she can. She has absolutely NO business being anywhere near a married man! |
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peanut
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If he really cared for her, he would leave her alone. You cant start a relationship if you are already in one. It isnt fair to anyone. People amaze me. Marriage isnt a part time job. You are in it forever and completely. The guy is in it (with your friend) for thrills. It feels good to have somebody new paying attention to you but what kind of person would do that to somebody they have sworn to love forever(meaning his wife)? He will do that to your friend too when he needs an ego boost. Tell her to run and dont look back. |
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Jody B.
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She needs to stay away from him. If this guy cheats on his present wife, he'll most likely cheat on your friend eventually if they were to start a relationship at some point.
I can understand there being an attraction and all...but if he's already married then he's off limits! Who needs the complications of a relationship with a person who is tied to someone else anyway? There are plenty more fish in the sea! |
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Talithakoum
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Yes he likes her but for how long, just for the heck of it tell her to ask him to leave his wife, just to see. And see how fast he divorce his wife and how much he really likes her. She should not go out with a married man, for if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on her.!!! |
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CherrySplendor
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He seems to like her? Of course he likes her or he wouldnt be cheating on his wife with her. Does it make this right? Hell No. He is a cheater. Why do women complain about there are no good men, and cry about being cheated on and so afraid of being cheated on when we go and mess with a married man because he shows some interest. He is having his cake and devouring it too. He has a wife at home, and they probably have a great marriage in her mind. he comes home to her and forgets about your friend. trust me. |
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wedjb
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have them to convert to mormons and move on a compound together like one big happy family. if that is not an option why not make her see the bitter truth if he is going to cheat on his wife what makes her thin he is going to be faithful to her? an honorable man does not go outside his marriage vows if he wants to see another woman the only thing to do is to brea up with her and then start a new life over again. not be decieving and cheat. that just shows what ind of character he is. it also shows how ur friend has such low self esteem she would rather be a home recker then to find a man who is not attached. not putting all the blame on her but reality is no decent person knowingly sees some one who is in a commitment before god. |
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neth062004
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Tell her to keep away from him. He has a wife and would not leave her for your friend. He is just using her for a fling on the side. Let her get her own man and stop being a home wrecker. |
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loverbabyy24
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well tell her to back off and keep away from him..!! it will end badly...!!! |
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