My gf left me because she needs space, does she will come back to me or what can I do to get her back?

Fantom Doughnut Eater

If what you were doing was wrong then wait for her and let her know that things are going to change. You should also say sorry for the things you have done

If the things you were doing were not wrong then she is being selfish and you should let her go.

TwinkaTee

The best idea that I can give you is to give her some space for at least a month. No calls, no emails, no NOTHING! If you call her trying to talk or beg her back, it will make her even more upset. Let her be alone for a while. If she realizes that she made a mistake, she will call you. If not, this is not the girl for you. This may seem like the end of the world, but really it isn't. Remember, for every closed door there is another one that opens. Don't miss out on your TRUE LOVE trying to make something work that isn't meant to be.

6848323

i had the same problem, but in my case i made a big mistake of believing her when she said she did not want to see me anymore. She really had feallings for me. What you should do, if you think she still loves you, you should do some very romantic gesture and she will most likely come back to you. I fshe is mad at you for something show her that you are a really good guy and that u love her and she will forget about the fight.

Truth Hurts

Give her her space and if it's love she'll be back. Be sure to get to the root of the problem though so you won't have another episode like this one.

VK1960

Forget it!!!! She is giving you the boot nomatter what she says. When a women says "I need Space" that is a nice way of telling you she wants to explore. Find someone else.

r_u_redday

The fat lady has already sung, dude. It's over.

Dude, grow a pair. Get 5 of your friends and hit the local strip club. Women are awful, get used to it.

MISTY

She`s made her decisions. Give her the space she`s asking for. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. maybe she`ll realize she needs you too!

Patc

It seems to me that she is really frustrated and stressed out. If I were you, I would send her a nice card explaining that you didn't realize that you were making her mad and sad and that you apologize for that and wished she would've have told you.

I would also tell her that if she needs some time away, it would be fine and that you would always be there for her whenever she is ready and that you will always still love her.

NQS

try to be mature.
what is yours will not be taken away by others.
leave it totime the healer of all ills.
never beg for anything in life including for life.

lilFerret

Ok, either she wants you to chase her, or to literally give her some space to figure things out. Ask to meet her for dinner at a nice, but not extravagant restraunt. Over dinner give her a nice necklace. This will show her you still do care about her. Give her hints of how much you love her. However don't push her too much. Also apologize for anything that you did to upset her. Name specifics so that she's knows you're not bs ing her. Once the night is over, tell her that you really would like getting back with her, but that you'll give her more space. Don't push her to move in with you again. Just tell her you want to date her again. If that doesn't work then I don't think your relationship is going to be back on track. But I honestly am hoping it works. Please Let me know!!!

carriegreen13

Take my advice, let her go, if she comes back to you, she is yours, if not then she never was in the first place.

Just do everything you can do to keep yourself busy, go out with friends, and meet new and exciting people, get involved in activities, go out for a walk, talk to people, do anything and everything you can to keep busy!

And take it day by day! You never know what can happen the next day, everyday you wake up is a new day and a new opportunity to make your life exciting!!!!!

hotlady40

the same is true with my husband and i, sometimes we fight and everything comes out, things i didnt even know he got mad about, it sounds like you both need time for some space to see how you really feel about each other, sometimes it takes a good fight to let each other appreciate the other, when we fight i start to realize things i have done but did not realixe it because us women always think its the guys fault, if you truly believe she loves you, hold on!!! take it easy and give her space!!

dee

give her time to think things over... if you are really wlling for that another chance with her, assess how you did or how were you like as her bf? ask yourself if you were too bossy ot overprotective or boring, etc. then wait, wait till she's ready. if not, give yourself the time to be with yourself... so that next time around, you won't be messing up your's or someone else's life... gud luck!

kimmethia27

yes just give her time to think about it

forlove

SHE SAID, she needs space. Chances are the reason why she was fighting over every little thing is because the idea has been brewing in her head. No ofense, but I'm willing to bet she's smarter than you, and if she packed her bags and split, she had a plan.
What you can do if it doesn't hurt too much is to call her JUST TO ASK how she's doing and don't get too sentimental. You should want to know and maybe she'll drop some hints your way.
Hope for the best, man! But don't bet your life on chances.

luckford2004

I would not hold my breath waiting for her to come back.

kitty_loves_cuddles

I think you have a slim chance of getting her back. Don't hold your breath for her. If she calls you and wants to get back together then go for it. If she doesn't call you then move on.

hononegah1988

To make any relationship work is communication..and honesty..she did not talk to you so how could you fix anything.
You can not fix it if you don't know it's broken..she acted immature by not talking and just walking away..If you get the chance to talk to her tell her...I know I'm not perfect and I do make mistakes but how can I fix them if you don't talk to me..
You make mistake and are not perfect by any ways..but I still love you. Then tell her how pretty she is...
I've been married almost 16 yrs I still make mistake and so does the wife but we work together to correct them.

DuSteDShaDoW

The sad part, she probably has someone else lined up. If she came out of the blue, and started telling you everything you did wrong over the past, like a laundry list of complaints, then it is obvious that communication wasn't a foremost thought in either of your minds.

Any chances of you two being together again? Certainly, college relationships can be "On again, Off again" for sometime.

Is there anything you can do? Sure, let her know that the line of communication is open, and if she wants to talk and discuss anything that you will be willing to do so, but for your sake, give her space, give her room, and consider that maybe it wasn't meant to be a life long commitment.

You're in college, enjoy it, don't let this little bump slow you down!

God Bless America

Give it some space. Most couples can't be around each other all the time and still have a good relationship. If your finding out things now after 10 months into your relationship, then maybe you need to give it longer and see what else you find out. You may find out that you two are really not made for each other. In any case, pick up, move on, and hope for the best. Good luck to you.

sr04model

I think you should move on because...........it just seem that you guys won't make it. I hate when people say "We need to take some time apart" because all that means is, we're breaking up and I don't want to be with you anymore. Don't be a fool. Move on. Don't stay stuck on stupid with her. You can find someone else. If you feel that you just have to absolutely wait on her, know this....she is out doing her thang and will not be worrying about you. You do the same. There is too many fish in the sea to be worrying out just one. ;-)

wongfiehung2003

she just needs some space for a while.

outspokenchick2004

I would allow her some time to simmer down and then talk to her calmly about why she didn't tell you there was something bothering her. Often times when you're in the heat of a newer relationship no one wants to be the bad guy and say anything so they bottle it up until they are so fed up they give up. If you can work through these issues, perhaps you will get back together, but be prepared...once a bottler of feelings, usually they will always do this. You have to get her talking and keep her talking.

Pazzionflower

she's been having an affair. the attack is cover for her own guilt.

kenneth h

She is not coming back !

sugadoot

Yes its possible you guys could get back together but if she broke it off with you without even giving you the opportunity to fix what was wrong, then I'd say move on! If she had a list of reasons at the end but never said anything during the relationship, she obviously didnt want it to work. Give her some space and if she comes back ask her how come she never brought these issues up to you before. You guys may do a lot of arguing but no real communicating.

Go GO Ressa

The only thing you can do is... think about this. Is she worth waiting to see if she will change her heart? That would mean, not contacting her, so she can think and have time to miss you, if she loves you as you say. The other thing is to move on. Chances are... If she walked off this time, she will do it again as long as you keep taking her back. How do you feel about the possibility of hurting over someone that waited to tell you all of your faults in order to break up with you? I know you love her and this will be hard, STAY away from her, let her see what she is missing. It couldn't have been that bad, she stayed 10 months. Tell her she was right to need her space and that you really do need your space and thanks for the time you all shared, but you would have appreciated her telling you all the things that she felt was wrong with you, while you were in the relationship, that way you could have expressed the things about her that was not to your liking. Hold your head up and DO NOT LOOK BACK> one thing she will began to do... think about how she was knocking you down with words and thinking she was so much better. This will allow her to see she has flaws also. AND she can't stick her chest out, with knowing that you had thoughts about things she do that is not to your liken, apparently she think she have no flaws. Sorry you was hurt, but move on.

Trice81

There is another person involved. Clue#1: She broke up with you over the phone.Clue#2: She told you it was over things that she had never mentioned before. There is another dude in her life and though she might still care for you, you need to move on because apparently, she thinks you are stupid.

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