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JAMES BOND 007
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Rethink about continuing with ur girlfriend. |
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mrs. anonymous
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When you marry you start your own life.. Your girlfriend is right to want to have a place that is just yours.. When you marry her, she'll be your first priority, not your family. If you're not willing to put her first, then you shouldn't be getting married. |
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*Cara*
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I don't know how old you are or what country you are from, but in this one, generally when people get married they leave their parent's homes and make a new one TOGETHER. Its time to grow up little man. If you're old enough to get married, you're old enough to live on your own. |
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~Smoochies~
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The Bible says a man shall leave his family for his wife. No woman on this earth would want (I mean WANT, some WOULD) to live with your family. A woman wants a life with her husband in THEIR house. Being too close to family/in-laws is always a bad idea. If you ever want to get married, leave your family's house! It doesn't mean you don't love them or won't see them! |
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Bethany
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Seriously - what married couple wants to live with their parents? Grow up and be independent. |
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dramaqueen062011
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I can’t blame her. I would not have wanted to live with my husband’s family, either. I guarantee our marriage would not have lasted a year! Being newlyweds is hard enough without the added pressure of moving in with the in-laws!
You don’t have to break up with her, but postpone getting married until you two can afford a place of your own.
If the idea of moving out of your family’s home has you that upset, you are definitely not ready for marriage.
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fox_maple
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hmmm....something tells me you are a troll, but just in case - Get a job and buy a house! Your an adult now. It's fine to love your family, but it's time to grow up. Your girlfriend is well justified in not wanting to live with your family. |
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WÛ°Û«IÛ°Û«NÛ°Û«NÛ°ÛªIÛªÛ°Û«E
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Find a place to live her. Time to move out and leave your family and make your own.
Not leave your family 100%. Yea talk on the phone and stuff, visit but let go now. Yea, if ur are talkingabout geting married, chances are your are grown up and can look after your self so leave your family alone for some time
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Right Wing Extremist
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Your wife is your family when you get married. She comes before all your other family. If you can not do that then you should not marry her.
Linda |
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gOOdgOOd
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Okay I do not know if you are religious or not, but if you are listen to this. The list goes God, Your WIFE, Your children, Your family, Your friends. You are an adult, you don't need to live under your parents' roof anymore. You and your soon to be wife can make a home of your own. If not a home yet, just start out with an apartment. Get one close to your parents so that you can go see them whenever you want, but for the sake of your marriage and relationship, do not live with your parents!! You can care about them and all that, that doesn't mean you have to live with them forever. Please take my advice if you want to keep your girl, if not by all means go and live with the fambam and see what happens to your marriage, I would not be suprised if she left you for this... |
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thatartistwin
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Given the state of your grammar and spelling, living with your parents is probably going to be your only option. Further, if you are basing a marriage on whether you should cut the apron strings and leave your parents home, you have no idea what it takes to be in a loving marriage. Stay home and get an education. |
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domo79
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Sounds like you are way to immature to get married! Stay with your family & live on the couch.......how attractive that is! lol |
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black rose
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at the end every member of your family will take their own path and have a life with a loveone who is non related, and you, you'll looked to your side and will see no one, you'll end up alone and a waist.
Its understandable to love your family , but you have to let go sometimes, thats the way the 'cookie crumbles', you need a life too.
and if your girlfriend seems replaceable and unimportant , dump her!
but if she is your one true love , the one person who completes you in every way, go for her!!
I live in Mexico and my boy lives in italy so if we must lead a normal relation i must move to italy to be with him , It will be dificult to ever see my family again, but true love takes you palces you'd never thought to be.
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daisy322_98
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Grow up, cut the cord and act like a man. Real men do not live with mommy and daddy! |
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BabeHeart
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If you two can't afford to live on your own, then you're not ready for marriage.
If you aren't ready to cut the apron strings, then you aren't ready for marriage.
If you are trolling here because you're bored, you're violating CGs, and not mature enough for dating...much less marriage. |
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Have a GREAT day!
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You are an adult, moron. Live with your wife in your OWN house and make a life together |
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mike666
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FAMILY ......
U R AN ADULT ..... U SHOULD LEAVE YOUR PARENTS AND SET UP A HOME OF YOUR OWN AND HAVE A FAMILY...... NOT STAY WITH PARENTS |
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god is great
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better you both live with there own familly but u both enjoy at weekeend one day |
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Blessed Rain
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if you can't leave your parents door then DON'T get married
I have had to live with my family and my husbands at low points in our 6 years of marriage and I would only recommend living with family when its an emergency.
On our own again and very happy. |
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♥
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once you get married your wife should
come first in your life. and you should
respect that she doesn't want to live
with your family. |
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Loner
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i think u live in india n being an indian i can pretty much understand wat dilemma u r facing!
i juzz wanna point out sumthin here..y is ur gf so insistent?i mean no one lives with one's parents lyk a parasite..you two'd obviously get ur space wid tym..i dont think she should insist so much..if she is being so dominating before marriage n forcing u to choose lyk this i dont think she really loves or she wudnt put u thru this or maybe u havent yet explained to her how torn u r feeling!or even if u choose to b wid her n leave ur parents she'll get all heated up wenever u try n get close to dem...
i think instead of asking us strangers over here its better to sit wid ones u love, be it ur parents or ur gf n try n talk things out instead of being so desparate n trying to choose one option n leave the other. |
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JustaThought
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Do u mean live like live in the same house as ur family... or live with your family like accept them in her life. Anyway.... when you want to do adult things like get married and have children.... u should expect to leave the nest. Maybe she wants to build her own family and home with u..... |
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Adviser
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If you're an adult leave , and get a place of you're own. Hey you could still visit you're family whenever right. |
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Rishi
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In indian culture when a man or woman marry its not between these
two persons only but its like u marry each others family too.
The girl u r talking about is don't wanna stay with your family is not a
homely girl if u r family kind of guy she is not suitable for u any body
answering your question here most of them r from out of india including
me don't like to stay with family after the marriage thats why they r telling u to grow up etc people outside india have no culture.
Just answer a simple question u know how much your family love u
and raised u nicely after u get marry and u have son he don't wants
to stay with u how will u feel.
You can have hundered of girl friends but your family is your blood so
think with cool mind. |
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Sophiesmom
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You should stay with your family and set the girlfriend free to find a man who will make her his family. Or get your own place and visit your family. |
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pattidomingue1
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I can understand her not wanting to live with your family after your married. I wouldnt want to either. When you get married you begin a new life with your wife in your own home, not in your parents home. The only reason I could say living with your parents would be if you lost your home to a fire or natural distaster. You can still love your family and not live with them. You can always visit your family. I think its time to cut the apron strings.. |
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ambi
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if you want to get married then you make her your priority not your family and if you think your family is more important than give her up but just remember the longer you live at home with your mommy the harder it will be for you to get married or have a serious relationship
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☼God lover☼
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u decide!she is clever and she told u what she wants!
do one thing...say her u r not fully grown to man and ask her to wait till u r a man from'boy'
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TJ's Wifey
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Sweetie, it's time to grow up and be a man. I'm sure your girlfriend loves your family, but, in my opinion, living with the in-laws is miserable. There's nothing worse than being stuck with people you can't be yourself around. Now, don't get me wrong... I'm not saying she can't be herself around your parents, but I'm sure there will be days that both of you want to just lay around and have some privacy. Living with your parents will not only be stressful for you and her, but it disables you from learning life's lessons. You'll never learn how to support yourself (and your girlfriend!!!) living with your family. I know you love 'em, but it's time to fly the coop! |
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RB
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i think u r indian it is always difficult for indian man to decide between wife and family. but what if u leave this girl and marry someone else and after that there are daily conflicts in ur family and then for peace u have to leave ur family . atleast now she is honest and u love her . but for ur family u can visit them often with ur wife . may be she like them and take care of them . it is always good to live seperatly with love than living together always fighting. |
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Mona-mon
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Are you serious you can love your family and not live with them when you get married it is far past time to be out of your parents home you have got to be joking. |
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