My girlfriend will not divorce, what can I do?

We have been together for two and a half years and she will not get divorced or stop talking to her husband. We have two children and so did they, and I explained, that I understand that there has to be some communication. The texts of I love yous, want to buy you a house, and sometimes dirty texts bother me. The late night phone calls too, are bothersome and this has all been put out there as to how I feel about it. She says its nothing and they are just friends, and all the do is talk about the kids. Please any advice on what I should do.

Janet W

I'll tell you what you should do...........ah, go find a woman who isn't already taken. Damn this is a lame brainless question. Dumb ***

Casey

Clearly she is not over him and she is playing you

bandaid_46

Well, you shouldn't be dating a married woman. She is having her cake and eating it, too. Stop wasting your time.

Missy

She is using you. Her husband somehow failed her, and now she looks to you for support - whether emotionally or financially.

You are the rebound guy and always will be. You arent a threat to her husband because she allows him to talk to her like that and she likes it. She likes the fact that she has you - willing to do whatever and won't leave - and him - still at her feet begging for her back.

All the late night texts, calls, and offers are serious. She is setting it up for the time to leave your a$$ and go back to your husband.

She is getting what she can out of you and what you have to offer and will return to her husband when she is ready...and he will be waiting.

Then guess what - she will hate it and want you back.

Are you ready for all that? This is your karma - so deal with it the best way you can. Leave her alone and don't stay because of the kids.

It's not worth it...you are looking like a fool and nobody will respect you. Just be there for your kids as much as possible.

I would just tell her point blank - either cut this crap out and get a divorce or tell her you're leaving and will file for custody for your kids. Let her go back to her husband and his "house" and let him take care of her and their two. She's playing you like a fool. Wake up.

Otherwise - you are stuck in this sick dysfunctional cycle - sounds like called Karma to me.

Y

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Wow, what other signs do you need that she isn't over him? She will not get a divorce, and you are basically dating and have children with a married woman. I don't know about you, but I would never want to be played for a fool, get a backbone and leave.

HollyyMarie

wow you really screwed yourself over didnt you

not only that you brought two innocent children into the mix

this is why you dont get involved with married women/men. she's not going to leave her husband and she shouldn't.

as for what you can do, you screwed that up and made it more complicated by adding children.

but fyi YOU'RE just the friend, not the husband, you. he's the one with the ties to her, you have nothing

hollyy

Ruben R

HELLO--HELLO , anyone there, you must really love this married woman to support her and her family, you been doing this for 2 1/2 years. don't you have any friends, or don't you listen to any one. what would you think was going on if it was someone else? HELLO you up yet, thats what we think to!!!!!

ST0MP3R

Should have gotten a single woman without any kids man.THATS WHAT YOU GET

Spring Break Here I come

if she really love u u should seperate and maybe shell turn away her bad habits

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