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Klondike
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go, but make sure your kids still have a relationship with him |
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yummy mummy
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STAY and keep your kids with you ~ kick his sorry *** out!! |
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Chica
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GO!!! Sounds like you'd be much better off without him. |
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MotherOfTwo08
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If hes lazy, and cheating on you. Hes not worth any of your time.
Leave him. |
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tealamarie24
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GO! You don't need the heartache, or any STDs he could bring him. |
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trouble_sum81
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GO. Better yet, you stay and have him GO. |
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Bear
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Go & don't look back! Think of your kids....you don't want them growing up with him as a role model. |
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aplatel87
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GGGGOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
It is CHILD ABUSE to stay in that situation!!!!!! |
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Beauti iz her name
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If you love his lazy cheating ways then Stay but if you value yourself and your children then maybe you should go |
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Gwen H
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I know it may not seem like a good idea but get out. Yur kids don't need to be around him epecially if he is cheating. I know u don't want yur children having a broken home but leave |
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kiya
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If you catch somehing you can't get rid of from him cheating like (AIDS) who's gonna take care the your kids. You need to go. |
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>>Jamie<<
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GOGOGOGOGOGOGOGO!!!!!! Dont be like me and stay for 15 years, then regret it forever! |
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jedidoughboy
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the idiot is as worthless as a three dollar bill. dump his cheating a** and make him pay for it. |
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:)
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Make him go
lol |
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Jaime Rose
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Some one like him, You should leave him and let him do what he wants. by the time you know he is gone and you left alone.
You may find some one that realy care for you even with his kids in your hands. |
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Lalana
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I lived with a man like that. I left. Has my life been easier? No. But, I have three kids who love me and will do anything for me. I work 2 jobs, a part time and a full time. Meanwhile, he has had three ex wives and 7 kids and now is fighting in Iraq for his country because it's the only thing that finally satisfies him. I am so glad he finally found what satifies him.
I hope and pray you do too because only you can decide if you are going to be a victim or take charge of your life. |
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babygreeneyes1976
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ok if you stay you are teaching your children it is alright to let your mate cheat on you and not be a productive member of the relationship.
You are hurting not only your children but yourself. Get out and move on baby girl. |
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candygirl_302003
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R-U-N fast there is great guys out there i had a lazy cheating s-o-b and i have been happily married for 8 years and he loves my child and me and dont cheat and guess what he has a job .. 4 real dont let your kids she you in that hotmess kids are like sponges they see when your not happy .. |
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gengen
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i say go and live him with the kids ..so he can understand .that raising children can become very demanding..leave him with the kids and find you a place to life ...without the lazy bum...after that you cant go get your kids .i say leave his bummy a&& their.. |
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DarkSeid
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I say rack up your proof that he's cheating......then Confront him.....he might change for the better, for the sake of the kids give him a final chance......there is still a chance he will not cheat and maybe not lazy.
If he does not change and is still cheating and lazy then leave him |
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StarryEyedSurprise
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well im 15 and although i have never been in this situation, i have many friends who have been in the child part of the situation. One of my friends' father cheated on her mother and they decided to stay together-i dont think she is really happy. However, my other friends father cheated on her mother and she left him and they are one of the happiest families ive met. I have to say that in making the final decision you need to think about your kids because if they have a lying cheating father who doesnt treat there mother right they might end up with trust issues. |
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Stephanie V
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LEAVE HIM- RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN -YOU WILL SURVIVE WITHOUT HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Shelonda C
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If married God says infidelity gives Biblical reason to leave. If not married leave, Kids need to have good example either way they need to see you respect and love yourself so they know how they should treat or be treated when they grow up. |
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Have a GREAT day!
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Do you really need to ask? |
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xandres103
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Does he have a job? Do you work?
If he doesn't have a job - kick him to the curb.
If you don't have a job- wait until you have one, save your money then get out.
If you're both working- why are you still sticking around?!
Kids can tell when parents don't love each other. If you stay together "for the kids" they won't know what a good functioning loving adult relationship is like when they are older. |
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spazzy
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get him out |
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oscar a
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Dude i thick you should leave you say he's lazy and he cheated on you, the lazy part is OK but then he's cheated on you, haven't you thought he might do it again.
Your Advisor, Oscar Avalos. |
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T-Man
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So I take it you are not marrried for you would have said your husband, so take one step at a time, go to child support agency and get started there, kick him out! DO NOT stay in the relationship if he is cheating, once a cheater always a cheater, he does not respect you nor the kids! tell him to kiss this! and not your rosey red lips! think about yourself and your kids, |
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marleyfu
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I can't believe you are asking this question. Your children are the most important thing and they need a stable house. If it is not stable with him, then make a life for the 3 of you together, assuming that you get support.
Are you married? Then why did you get pregnant with a lazy cheating dog?
Be smarter in your future choices and MARRY the man who will be a husband to you and a father to the children. |
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Lynda
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Don't have any more children with him. If he refuses to change, improve your own future and that of your children. If that involves leaving then that's what you need to do. |
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Sandra T
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Do you want to constantly deal with STD's or even worse, wake up one day and find out you're HIV positive? If not, then leave and take the kids with you. You don't want him as a role model for them, do you? |
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