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Roy H
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It's over. Move on.
Get Checked for HIV/STDs.
Don't sleep with the next guy until AFTER six months, a year, or wedding bells. |
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It's me!
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leave him. cheatings wrong and you deserve a guy who completely loves you and only you |
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?? yaddajean ??
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If he cheated you need to let him go. If he cheated once shame on him, if he cheats twice shame on you |
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tandkalexander
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Go. |
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Angie
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Once a cheater always a cheater. |
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to_sassy4_u
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Nope he won't change....he's not sorry for what he did...he's sorry he got caught. LOOSE THE LOOSER |
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ozperu
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Just leave him. Without trust, there is no relationship. |
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jmiller
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Just leave and save yourself the heartache. You've only been together for 6 months and he already cheated. You take him back now then he'll think he can just do it again and you'll take him back again. |
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Jessica C
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No, he's not even over the honey moon period and he cheats on you? Leave, now. |
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J☼E
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Don't stay dude, he's going to do it again and again, you can't trust cheaters! |
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KNOCK OUT*
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dumpp his asssss. once a cheater always a cheater.. dont trust that, it will only get you more hurt in the end when you realize that.. |
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covergirl23
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im sorry honey but you gotta GO. i just wen thru the same thing girlie, we were dating for 6 months when he cheated also, but foolishly i took him back because he treated me good spoiled me and we also had alot in common, but guess what babe..... HE CHEATED ON ME AGAIN. i know it hurts but hes not going to change, save yourself the heartache get out of this NOW. |
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Bill
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Here's the thing...he had 6 months worth of trust, and lost it. He's back at square one. Do you want him to progress again? I wouldn't.
Drinking doesn't excuse bad choices. No pass. |
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irish_indian_fantasy
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Angela is right...once a cheat, always a cheat. I was in a 6 year relationship and he cheated on me within the first 3 months with his ex-wife! I got the I'm sorry's and the promises too. Well six years later, I'm rid of him, and he continued to mess around. A leopard NEVER changes their spots. Move on and find a new one honey. Don't put yourself through it all. It isn't worth it! |
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Kenshin
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I send him flying out the door. True it might have been a one time thing with someone else, but how can you be sure? I wouldn't trust him. Who hasn't heard the I'm truly soory I loove you line. It just means that they are sorry you caught them but do they mean it? No. Just think if you hadn't found out how long would he have been seing her? He probably never would have told you either. I think you should send him packing and find someone better who deserves you and wouldn't cheat. Just because you don't find him now doesn't mean Mr. Right isn't there |
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miss_cris101
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GO GO GO!!! First of all, it is FAR worse that he knows the woman, that means there has been an attraction there the whole time you've been with him. If he is friends with her or sees her frequently this will constantly reaer its ugly head. Secondly If you have been together less than a month then at least you could argue that he might not know where you stood in the relationship, and lastly 20-30 messages a day??? That isn't love that's a stalker! Don't get drawn back n to what you've just gotten out of. I've seen alot of friends think they could get over it and a year or two down the line the same thing is what has ultimately what has broken them up. |
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Sarah<3
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Be strong and independant.don't go crawling back to a guy that had feelings for someone else. I was watching cheaters today..dont ask...and guys are pigs. Be strong. |
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ponniefloyd
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GOOOOOO RUNNNNN RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!
Seriously this guy is a loser....and texting you 20 or 30 times a day proves it even more.....he will not change,save your self the heartache....after the cheating....then the hitting...cmon girl....growup do yourself a favor and find someone else.... |
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WoW WoW Wubbzy
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leave him! aint worth stayin |
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alejandro f
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my mother forgave my father once because of something like that....we have been a happy family since then.(it was ten years ago).......my parents are truly in love and I thank God for that. My point is, everyone of us can change, he can change too. |
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kaylasmommyrocks
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dump that fool! i love the "i was drunk line" that's so original! |
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Kandi
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of course you leave he's gonna definetly cheat again u only been 2gether six months you should leave trust me it aint gonna last.4 SURE! |
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mysterious 101
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he cheated once so he may cheat again...dont follow ur heart...follow what ur brain says so u dont get hurt...try to end the relationship and be strong.. |
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If the situation were reversed and you had cheated he would be gone. Youve only invested 6 months in this and now you know what he is like. You can waste another 6 months to 5 years only to find out hes done it again or you can count yourself lucky you found out early on.
If you decide to stay with him you should put conditions that he doesnt drink or go to bars since thats his excuse for how it happened.
You can do better then this guy. |
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SisterSue
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Cheating is never a good thing. I can see trying to work it out if you have been together for years and years....but if you have only been together for six months and you let him get away with it this time, there will most likely be another.
If he can't control himself with the booze and goes out, you will always wonder, even many years from now.
If it were me, and I have been divorced too, I would cut my losses now and find another guy who is equally as great who won't cheat on you a whopping six months into the relationship.
I am sorry that he was such a wonderful @sshole. |
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snowman
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you two need to go to counseling.if not move on |
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Tam Tam
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My mother always said:
"One time is a mistake. Everyone makes mistakes.
Twice? They like it or they don't care. " |
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Aussiemum
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I have been in this situation.
My guy cheated on me 12 months in.
I was devastated to say the least,but I forgave him, because he was truly remorseful, and I could tell he was deeply sorry for what he did, and he was in just as much pain as I was.
It takes a long time to get over something like that, but I do believe that everyone deserves a second chance.
I still have 'bad days' if it pops into my head. But my partner has done everything in his power to give me the reassurance I need. |
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