My heart is broken. How do I deal with this?
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My heart is broken. How do I deal with this?
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I met this guy 2 years ago and we just clicked. I soon knew that he was "The One" and we were both so happy! We made plans together and bought a place of our own so we moved in together 10 months ago. What I didn't know was that he has a slight issue with alcohol. Now, I grew up with an alcoholic father and that marked me a lot, so much so that it created a lot of problems between us.
But that wasn't the BIG problem. He has always felt guilty for walking out his home and has not been able to forgive himself for doing it, although there was no love between them, so that also created a big whole between us.
Two weeks ago he told me that his wife was asking for second chance, and since he felt so guilty, he felt it was the right thing to do. And so do I, because we were both miserable because of that.
Now that he left, I feel so meaningless, with no purpose and living in the place we both put together, and it is very difficult, since I still believe he is the love of my life.
I know in my heart that he needs to make things work at "home", so he can find inner piece, but my chest is painful, and my heart feels like it wants to stop.
How can I get through this?
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euqor
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unfortunately as painful as it is to accept...he is not "the one" for you if he left. maybe in the future, things will work out but for now, you need to move on.
i find that taking each day as it comes is the best thing to do. do what you feel like doing. if you feel like crying, go ahead. if you feel like doing nothing, do nothing. important thing is for you to look out for yourself at this tough time and also relying on your faith, family and friends helps out a lot.
the old adage works...time heals ALL wounds.
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rooney
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Don't date a man AND buy a home with him til he is divorced!!! |
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Scouse
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Time is the only healer. Cut him out, get on with your own life. Do things for yourself, make your life full with fun things, friends, friends, friends.... and time, let your heart mend and heal before you embark on another relationship.... and stay away from men with baggage. |
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Amanda
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So you moved in with a man who wasn't divorced and now you're upset because he left you and went back to his wife? Did you not see this coming?
My only advice is to cut all contact. Stay busy. And next time - don't date a man who is married. |
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Candy Floss
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Oh you poor thing. If things just weren't working out between the two of you then it sounds like the split is for the best, not just so he can find inner peace but for you to move on.
I understand that you feel he is the love of your life and no one will ever compare but trust me you will find someone else i promise you that. I know you don't want to hear it but time is a fantastic healer. Ive had my heart broken once or twice and its not easy.
As for your home, im not sure if you are in the UK or not but if you are i would say given the current market selling isn't the best option. Re decorate and buy some new pictures, a rug and some cushions make it YOUR home.
All the best sweetheart |
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chelsea19622000
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Can't understand why he would go back to an ex if it wasn't working out between them. Why does he think it will work out second time around. Leave him be and when it all goes pear shape for him don't take him back cos he could do it all over again. |
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MzTerioz
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grab your girlfriends, go to a bar and ask for tequila. pick up a nice looking bloke and...........well u figure out the rest |
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