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My huband is having an affair & also used escorts...i hve 2 small kids..wat do i do??
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My huband is having an affair & also used escorts...i hve 2 small kids..wat do i do??



    




nonameblonde
Get yourself tested for STD's and then file for divorce.


The Casual Poster
1) Get tested for STDs

2) Call a good lawyer


crazy8eddie
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Live with it or leave are the only two choices. To make a wise decision, ask where you will be in 10 years and how will you feel and how will the kids feel. Will you be happy going or staying and will they be better children if you go or stay. Tough, heart breaking decision either way. Luck.


claws_4_u
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I agree be tested and get a divorce you deserve better


ecuhottie
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Get all his money and leave!


FaZizzle
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1) Get tested for STDs
2) Address your husband directly. Discuss this with him - basically you two options: have him move out now and get divorced or have him life with you while you divorce.
3) Figure out who gets the house and how to explain it to the kids.

He's a 'great' father - I'm sorry this happened to you.


ohbabby
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uhm DIVORCE!!!!!!
you and your kids deserve better
get checked for sure.
sorry and good luck


all_atikin
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Get tested for HIV, and other STDs right away. Your husband will have to pay for child support at least....if you are not working, he may also be ordered to pay for alimony.

GET A DIVORCE ATTORNEY RIGHT NOW!!!


nickipettis
1 get tested for STD's
2 get proof ( either checks or photos)
3 sue for divorce
using the proof to make sure you get enough child support,
maybe even to pay for you to get a current college degree


kutiepie
divorce that stupid man!!! how dare he??!?!?!


eek the cat
kick him in the... well out of the house. he is very bad, try counsiling for the kids sake, but hes a ****


JERDAWG
divorce


steph1316
Nobody should stay with a cheat for the sake of their children. If there is bad feeling in the house (which i am pressuming there is) then the children--- however small--- will pick up upon it! I think you know what you're gut feeling is.You deserve better. So much better. What would his children think of him as they grow up?! Think of yourself as well. You can do so much better and be so much happier. A split should always be the last option but you can only forgive and forget so many times.


Amy
yeah get tested 4 stds, then get devorsed


allthoughtyour kids may B mad at first, when they get older they will understand


ihaveyouranswer
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Get rid of him and fast- get tested for all STD's including AIDS/HIV and divorce him and file for sole custody because a man like that sure isn't responsible enough to take care of little children. There is someone out there for everyone and I'm sorry to say that a man like this isn't the one for you. Good luck.


Mommy to Lauryn and Sydney
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I agree 100% with the first post!! Get out of there hun, don't be afraid to raise your babies on your own, you can do it no one desreves to put up with that..


prince47
take care of your children and your welfare only.
desert him forever if not changed.


Simply Lovely
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Get a good divorce attorney or stay in your marriage and lose every ounce of self esteem you may have left.


salamander2090
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um.. leave him!!!!! and hope you dont have an STD. quit belittling yourself.


Kari
Chances of this marriage working are slim. Get out of the house with your kids and file for divorce. Oh and get tested for any STD's. That is just gross.


nebula
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You leave his ***. It's what's best for you and your kids... you know that eventually, when they're older, they will realize what kind of man their father is.


♥abigail♥
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Leave your husband and take the kids with you. You shouldn't have to put up with that crap.


TBelle
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Agree....this is more common than you think. ANd usually these types of men don't stop after they are caught, they thrive on it.


sweetheart_in_oz
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leave him and leave ths kids with him let him shoulder the responsibilty of the kids for a few weeks and he will have no time for affairs or escorts

do u have any self respect why r u with him
ask ur family for help but the reason i say leave the kids with him is so that he realises how hard it is for u
ps stds are the least of ur worries get urself tested for aids


CHICKA
Your being cheated and so are your kids.


Raphiela
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file for a divorce then take you and your kids to a faimly members house, get a job and start over


veronika v
devours him leave him get out hurry now





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