My husband..?

baby g21

My husband and I are like 15yrs a part so I know how you feel but think of it this way if you were with some guy that is your age, there is a good chance that he would not be doing what your husband already does for you I'm 22 my husband is 37 this Friday, I see alot of my friends with guys around our age and they don't or can't hold down a job, sometimes do drugs,don't know what they want or even have for that matter. I have always liked older guys because they are mature and have experienced all the adolescent crap, and know what they want out of life. I'm not say all men are like this but a lot are at least from what I have seen. Just be happy you have someone that loves you dearly.

need to forget about the age gap-you got yourself a great bloke!

Danielle UK

If you loved him you wouldn't care

Tano A

age is just a number... if you're happy and he is happy be happy :D

iiidontknowdoyou

I think you should have thought about the age gap BEFORE YOU GOT MARRIED!!!

pura_rosa

What? You have a good man! Love him, cherish him and forget about the age difference, why is it that we are never truly satisfied?

kathyw

Don't even think about it. He sounds like a marvelous husband.

kitykatt09

Age doesn't matter - what matters is love.....and it seems like he loves you alot!

acia

I think you knew there was an age difference before you got married? Why do u think about it now, now that you brought a baby into this world? Are u just bored? Love is love, u said u love him sooooooooo much, then what's the problem? Age is just a number, remember that.

~NIKKI~

If the age gap bothered you than why did you marry him in the first place?

I am willing to bet that when you married you were the same age gap that you are now

Brother Otter

Doesn't matter a fig to me. He's your husband. And apparently he's grown up enough to be willing to be your partner.

greyskymourning82

Well I think the age gap doesn't matter anymore. At least it shouldn't, you started a family with him and thats really all that matters.

Ina

Age is irrelevant. You really shouldn't have this thought if you truly loved him. He sounds fab - be thankful and love him with all your heart. Sounds like a diamond of a guy, and there's not many of them about these days.

shirley v

me and my husband has a age gap and it does not matter he is disable and i take care of him now instead of the other way round

just me

Stop thinking about it it does not matter.

justwondering

You need to get over it and concentrate on your baby and your marriage. You've left yourself an "out" before you've even fully committed.

There's no age gap limit on love.

big d

big age difference but love is love and he sounds like a great husband.

oldtomato

dirty old man

Coco32

Nothing wrong with an age gap as long as you genuinely love him!!

MICHELLE W

I think you are very lucky keep hold of him. Age shouldn't come into it, you loved him when you married and still do and that's all that matters. Stop doubting anything about this relationship it sounds solid. Be happy and Cherish this man.

Lulu

Age doesn't matter. Thank God you have someone who treats you like that.

Nevy

the only time age matters is if your a minor. it's illegal for an 18 year old or older to date someone under 18. But hey i think you found a rare diamond. if you are in love and it's obvious he's deeply in love with you than age shouldn't matter at all. It's rare to find a man like the one you have, he sounds like a real keeper and he knows how to treat a lady.

simm101

This guy turns out to be a saint and you are worried about age,or is it what your friends think. Either way count your blessings men like him are a rare breed.

splashdesign238

What's to think about? You've already summed up your life and marriage relationship: It's good.

Who cares what anyone else thinks. It's your marriage and relationship, and only you and your husband should be forming the opinions that count and matter.

Good for you!

:: You've Made it work! ::

laplandfan

If you are so happy why are you wasting time worrying about the age gap???? If you both are happy then it's fine. Nothing wrong with the age gap.

Glenn T

I have no issue withthe age gap but Kind of late to worry about the age gap after you married him and had his child dont you think ?

just me

Better get over it. It ain't going away. But, the difference will get smaller over the years.

ironlipz

well love comes first doesnt it?
i can see that he's perfect in every way.age is just a number.
anyway why didnt you realize about the age gap before u got married to him? cmon! u already have a kid now.
dont make a mistake and divorcing him just bcoz he's older than you.
you should have given it all a taugh before you indulge.

Been There Done That

You need to get over It......A good man is hard to come by. Besides you should have dealt with this issue long before you married him.

koanda42

As long as you can laugh together, get along, share responsibility, I wouldn't worry. I am 26 and seeing a wonderful 49 year old. So far it's been great! I dated a 53 year old before that and it ended mostly because she was very immature and irresponsible.
Remember - wisdom does not come with age. It comes with experience and the lessons you take from them.

x2000

It's a wide age gap, but you already married and have a kid. No point in thinking about it at this point. The decision has been made, don't worry about what others think.

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