My husband cheated on me for the third time should i forgive him?

im 4 months pregnant and i just found out that my husband cheated on me over the internet for the third time.. i dont know if i should forgive him of file for divorce immediately. he is not showing any signs of embarrasment and he says he doesnt know wut he wants to do .. can someone help?
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thnks you guys.. and well he's not here with me he's in the army and deployed in germany and he talks to chikx online and see's them naked on cam. and the worst part is that this isnt my first baby this is my second baby with him and my son keeps askin me about his daddy and i dont know wut to say to him. my husband says he loves me but he just doesnt know why he feels the way he does all confused .. and by him tellin me that confuses me more than wat i allready am. this is depressing and frustrating ive been with him for four years since i was 16

Kayla

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Lolaaaaa<3

WOW! that is so stupid of him. honestly i have no idea what you could do because ur pregnant. I think that if he were a real man and if he was someone you could actually love and be with, he wouldnt do that to you especially knowing you are pregnant. I would just let him go, but that is up to you. Anyways good luck sweety and i hope everything works out for u

djadul

Clearly you both need counseling. I normally support marriage. I dislike divorce. I suggest at least separate from him.He's immature and unable to relate to you like an adult. Perhaps with some distance, counseling and time with your best friends, you can come to terms with your emotions on this situation. Then you can rationally decide what is best for you and the baby. I've known some couples who've had terrible beginnings and then ended up happily married afterwards. Then again, I've known the opposite too. When he or she should have left a long time ago.

Happy A

you deserve way better. please file a divorce. it will get worse if you don't. do not forgive him!!!!!!!!!

pileated

In my opinion, when someone in a relationship says they don't know what they want to do, they might as well be saying they are through with the relationship. If he isn't acting embarrassed or sorry, then he probably isn't.
It also depends on what you mean by cheating over the internet. If he's meeting the women in person, then no, I don't think you should forgive him.

Star

THIRD TIME and doesn't sound sorry for it. Probably because he isn't sorry. RUN RUN RUN RUN AWAY FROM HIM FAST. He WILL cheat again. HE HAS PROvEN that to you what more do you want or do you want to be unhappy for the rest of your life????

sophia g

forgive what once a cheater always a cheater he disrespected you 3x take a hint he's going to keep doing it you need to find someone who will respect you and treat you right

jude

if he isn't sorry or showing remorse that's a bad sign. it means he doesn't care one way or the other. maybe u just got married too young as some do. when i was your gae i was married with a child and my husband also cheated on me, and i kept forgiving him, until i finally got fed up and filed for divorce.

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You should break up and move on because he cheated on you 3 times!!!! He's taking advantage of your forgiveness... dont let him win.

Craig c

tannadunlap

how about file for a divorce and kick his sorry cheating *** to the curb? dont you think you deserve someone committed to you and not you and any other woman he may find attractive i mean i could maybe understand if it were once but three times what do you need a slap in the face to realize your marriage means nothing to him he took a vow before God and you and when he decided to cheat that sh*t went out the window i would throw his sh*t out on the lawn and file for a divorce first thing but thats me i know i would deserve so much better then a cheating spouse

Thankful3

Only you can decide... but if you forgive him, expect him to do it again. He obviously doesn't give a hoot about you or your relationship.

rob

he cheated on you... over the internet. the physics of that one are a bit beyond me. according to jesus you should forgive him seven times seven. and since seven was the highest number they counted back then that basically means unlimited forgiveness. but if you want to take it more literally you can just forgive him 49 times then leave.

Ellie

Honestly , if hes done it 3 times .
Idk to me thats not worth it,
i understand completely that if you love him it will be hard to do that and a child makes it even worse
if he "doesnt know" that shows that he doesnt care about your guys future and i dont think you derserve someone like that, expecially with a child.

Marrs G

Might as well face the fact you are married to a cheater and get used to it.

vgarciav

Damn I understand what ur going through I'm in the same shit..but honestly I'm thinking of moving on .cuz like the saying says once a cheater always a cheateder...this men don't change once u forgive them they go back and do it again....

vgarciav

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