My husband convicted of a drug offense and was sentenced to 33 months in prison. Affair?

Kelly G

Just remember what goes around comes around!

KJ jr

33 months really means six. they're running out of room in prison.

i hope he walks in on you when he gets out and shows up unexpected.

Mean Carleen

Not affair...how about DIVORCE

Just that One

What some wife you are.

I would stick through anything with my husband.

Your trash.

JTR2b

Then you probably don't really love him.

mandeelouroberts

I can say as someone who has been in jail that it hurts it really hurts to find out that the one person you love and have thought about constantly while being in jail that if you really love him and have intentions of wanting to stay married after he get's out I would strongly advise against it.

Valerie X Account #18....YES!

Quitter.

the misses

you should not do this to him and you should learn how to control you emotions, this is not right!

It proves just how much of a coward you really are. you wait until he can do you no bodily harm to cheat. If you are that bold do when he is out.

Conflicted

If you can't stand by him, divorce him. And, there's such a thing as conjugal visits for married people.

Mrs. Heather Schabby

Clearly, your marriage doesn't mean much to either of you.

If your marriage was important to him, he wouldn't have been doing illegal things which could jeopardize your marriage, your lives, and the time you spend together.

If your marriage was important to you, you wouldn't even be considering straying on him while he's away.

The two of you should either grow up PDQ, or divorce.

A wife

Geez...the answer is no.

Tryna-Hyde

"I have someone in mind who would keep quiet about it."

got it all worked out, huh? wow! what a wonderful wife he's got there! check it - i'm sure it's no surprise to you that he's in jail for a drug offense...you're probably very aware of the drug thing, indeed. now you want to justify your cheating with his being locked up.

wow - wonder if you'd mind if he did the same while he's in there for 33 months???

Kimmy

you could stay and just use a toy? for better or worse right?!

John Hightower

Serving time in jail or prison puts a big strain on marriages. A lot of married people going into incarceration end up divorced when they come out.

Federal Truth in Sentencing laws, require that the person serves 85% of the time they are given. So you are really talking about 28 months.

People tend to talk and tell secrets. Even the best of friends sometimes will be "bursting" to tell something they know.

If you decide to go with your friend, don't expect him not to tell some of the boys about it - and don't expect your husband never to find out.

FlingerShock

Since he's your husband you have no choice. To even be thinking about an affair shows what your love for him amounts to. Do you love him? If you do then that means you will care for him the best you can, pray for him, and tell him encouraging things throughout the 33 months. If you don't do this and or if you commit an affair, you are NOT loving your husband. It's like dropping one of your kids off on a random street and running away because you don't want to take care of him anymore.

Just Me

One question....was your husband letting you use what drugs he got busted for?? Because you've been smoking something if you think you don't sound high and out of your damn mind!!!

Do him a favor and DIVORCE HIM!!!!

mdass41

Sick is as Sick does, and we wonder why society is screwed!

ronjon4u2

absolutely, do it.......why would you wanna be married to a LOSER anyway?

Beausmom

Doesn't your neighborhood prison offer conjugal visits?

Quasimodo

Thinking of screwing around and the person says "I won't say anything"?

Here's a little saying that all should live by:

"Two can keep a secret if one is dead".

Courtesy of the Hell's Angels for that one.

Kendra420

All you need to do is answer one question. Would he wait 33 months for you?

Good Luck girl!

My best friend is in the same situation. Her man is jail for 14 years!

Julie H

When two people have a secret, most times one can't keep a secret. You can get blackmailed by this guy so you keep sleeping with him. Just divorce your husband if he's in prison. After all, what kind of job do you think he can get when he's released? None.

Vef & Jcg

lol...too funny.
Well to tell you the truth, I wouldn't do it... but I know he would. So if you have someone in mind that who'll keep it quite,then-use protection- you don't want a std or a baby from some body that's not ur husband,maybe he ur husband would've be more careful and would've take care of his thing-if u kno wat I mean- this wouldn't be happening,right?

P.S: keep it casual,and be a victim,I know this girl that is a convicts-wife and she play a victim roll so good,and at the end of the day,she's not faithful to her men in prison...

mEn7aL

Write him a letter and tell him.Is over and I can't do the whole drama of prison and relationship and save him from the sanity of your faithfulliness.

Plus,you can post on craiglist wanted someone who is drug free and willing to travel.

Oh...affairs are not cool because when they come out of prison they might kill you.

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