My husband had a party while I was away?

John E

Just tell him, then tell him you are going to cheat on him because you and i both know he screwed the nasty stripper.

Hipto

Email them to him off his phone. And to yourself as a CC.

I would like to see his face when he opens it up.

smallcockloooongtongue

i agree he was dumb to leave the pics on there...and he'll learn from that mistake. at least they weren't pics of him banging one of the strippers...i'll bet anything he did though

No Religion

You have to make the decision now..If you want to stay around with this guy who has no respect for you or your marriage in anyway..Or leaving with your head high.. even tho your heart will have sunk to the bottom..
Confronting him will only cause an argument and added stress. He will either deny it all and make light of it or.. get mad that you would have the nerve to search his phone.. (marriage is a partnership- everything is community property even ur friggin underwear) so that said.. I need to be asking a lawyer what your rights are and what you are entitled to? Don't let this schmuck run you into the ground...If you left it up to me.. I would put on my pointed toe stilleto boots and stomp on his groin.. then toss divorce papers on his ***.. see ya..

TMTM

Just the way you brought it up here.... I picked up your phone and saw the pictures.
He should be helping you, not making things harder for you....
Spend all the time you can with your brother, in my opinion it's the only thing that really matters right now.
If your husband doesn't come to his senses, deal with it later and seek the support of true friends and other family members if you have any.
Be strong!

â™¥â˜†Mrs. Roseâ˜†â™¥

Tell him about the pics you found on his phone!!!!!!!

msimmons0708

Personally, that would be the straw that broke the camels back if it were me. First off you cant trust him, he is lying about why he cant go with you to support your brother in his last months of life, second a party in your house?? what do you think went on at that party?? strippers? ....the lies are bad enough but the fact that he is acting like a single man while you're away is more then I would tolerate.

~Willow~

Just bring it up. You are married... he shouldn't be hiding anything from you and you shouldn't be hiding anything from him. If he gets mad about you looking at his phone than thats dumb because you all are married. Me and my husband have the same phone... in the morning... we just grab one and take it not knowing whose is whose... and thats that. We have nothing to hide... Just talk to him about it.

Also.... if it is a house that you both are living in... than you have the right to know what goes on in it.

I hope everything works out with your job and I am sorry to hear about your brother... I'll keep him in my prayers...

Don't stress... Every little thing... is gonna be alright (Bob Marley)

F. Sanford

Call him out directly. Beating around the bush won't save any time. Tell him exactly what you found and how you found it.

Maybe he did have a party; maybe there were strippers...

That said, that doesn't mean he did anything extra-marital nor does it mean he doesn't love you.

Emily C

just tell him that u saw the pictures on his phone and ask him what he was thinking

junkman

Strippers at your house ? not a good thing,

You say, "saw the party pics in your phone... NICE!" and then let him do the talking!

ps: do not feel guilty for looking thru his phone. he is your husband and there should be NO secrets between the 2 of you! those who are guilty of poor behavior will get angy & when they have something to hide. - I don't believe you fall into this category.

Sinead

If it was me id change the locks on the house when he is out!! Say it straight out to him when you see him tonight and don't back down although you could go away this weekend and make a suprise visit home earlier then expected!! Hope it goes well for you

livin the dream

You should not feel guilty by looking at his phone. You are married - not dating. I'm not saying stalk his calls and messages, but you should know what;s going on in you life together. So, yes, absolutely confront him -- you don't need the stress of wondering what is going on when you are not there

str8vallera

You need to email yourself the pictures so that you have your own copies in case he deletes the ones from his phone. Next you need to confront him with the pictures. I don't know what excuse he could possibly dream up because to me he's pretty much busted. I think you should separate from someone like this. Stress will only make you sicker. Good Luck

Hope

If you confront him about this, he is going to lie or he is going to tell the truth. Think about it. What kind of man has a stripper party while his wife is with her twin brother who is dying? If he had time to bump and grind with strippers he has time to be there with you or on the phone with you consoling you.
Sounds like you are going through a lot with a partner that is only looking after himself.
Talk to him about this only if you are ready to add more stress and make some life changing decisions.

naik.bijay

Work it out..talk...with him...there is no better way than this.....

sexi chica

talk it through....if he gets mad he must have did somethin he should'nt have

Jade B

tell him you were going to take a picture of yourself so he had something nice to look at while you are away and that you found these pictures, and see what he says about them.

YaboiLik

Oh noo he was having fun

dagmar

Yikes.

Maybe you could present him with the "Most Insensitive Husband Award"

ok Sorry. Wow that is really just blowing me away. Instead of being there with you to support you and your brother he is busy having strippers at your house?

Obviously with all that you are going through you are going to be extra sensitive right now. You don't want to have a full blow out (I imagine) but this is still really not right of him.

I think you should be honest about finding the pictures. Maybe instead of shouting or getting angry you can calmly tell him how disappointed you are in his behavior. You need his love and support now more than ever, and will only more so in the months ahead. He needs to get his head out of his ***** and wake up. Maybe it's his way of dealing with all this but it is a very poor choice.

Maybe if you express your hurt and disappointment that will be enough to penetrate his mind and he will realize how wrong it was. I sure hope he apologizes and makes up for it big time.

So sorry for all your are going through, I really hope your husband realizes he needs to be there for you, not getting his rocks off partying like a teen.

FriedRice

Probably some friends over, try asking him about the phone and go to a marriage counselor. It'll all get better in time and I wish the best for your brother, and I offer my condolences.

lar_dawg54

Just bring it up and tell him you already saw the pictures. He will be against the wall and need to tell you. He may have had the party to release too. You cannot think he is not catching all the gloom and baggage off of you for your brother. He may have really needed this.

mizzboo2011

Ask him what he does every weekend while you are gone. If he lies then show him the pics in the phone and ask whats this about then

I don't know

awww... just tell him what u say and see what he will say

torr58

You "grabbed his phone and sort of looked through his pictures"? Sounds like you picked up his phone intending to look through the pictures, he shouldn't be having parties while you are going through that sort of stuff but you also shouldn't be investigating through his personal things. It sounds like there are more things than parties, sick relatives, and job security going on here.

kevin h

I would ask and don't be accussing or make him out to be cheating as you don't know the whole story. Find out the facts first and if it doesn't add up then start to really ? him. most things can be explained and if it isn't a really believable story then by all means lay the ax done. He could be missing you and doing this to fill that need to be with you or spend time with him but ask be open and communicate.

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