My husband had an affair with my sister and now she is pregnant, should I divorce him?

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How long have you been married? Do you think you can put this behind you and move forward? Do you still love him?
What is your relationship with your sister, now?
The thing is, if you divorce him, he will probably marry your sister. You and your sister will forever be at odds over this. If you two have children together already, this will make it even harder.
If thtis were me and I still loved my husband I would forgive him and my sister, and fight for what is still yours; your life!
This will bring you and your husband closer and also put your sister in her place, as well.
One never knows what the future holds. I would stick to my guns and maintain my self=respect, regardless. May the Lord be with you, in your decision and your life...:D

Popeye420

Kick him in the balls, slap the hell out of your skanky sister, pack your crap, file for divorce and take everything, then move on.

Your hubby ain't sorry about nailing your sister and getting her knocked up, he is only sorry he got caught. Kick the idiot to the curb.

Move on, enjoy life, and good luck.

Mychale MacBheathain

Well, I'd say good luck and I hope you have a happy life without me. What a male skank.

Heather

dump both of them, if they are capable of this then you dont need them.

sammyjoe

divorce him definatly

Thomas D

DIVORCE HIS @SS NUFF SAID!!!!!

fabulous_girl83

dont forgive him, he lied and cheated on you. and now your sister has their baby...leave his butt!

Bunny

Divorce him. He doesn't deserve you. Once a cheater always a cheater. if you stay with him, he'll do it again.

roh P

Yes yes yes and also cut of ties with sister. Treat her like dead.

Morgan J

Take you and your husband to another state if you want to keep him.if you dont want to keep him wait for your sister to have the baby and then give her a royal *** kicking!!!!! but I really think you should kick your husband to the curb because if he would cheat with your sisster he would cheat with a goat.oh and your sister is a terrible person.!!!!!

Kat

Wow what a mess.... not only did your husband betray you your sister(your blood) did too... Boy I dont envy you... I honestly couldnt be in the same room with either one of them...you have to decide what is best for you??? Could you stay with a man that did that to you?? Will you ever trust either one of them again??I personally couldnt plus seeing their baby will always be a constant reminder of the affair.... going to be hard to be an aunt to that innocent baby.... Good Luck my prayers are with you...

T-tay

why would your husband do such a thing?? that is truly awful i would divorce him you gave this man your love and he just threw it away

golden1

wow this one is hard, no matter what you do you will be reminded of what happened, you will have to look inside yourself for the answer. ask this can you forgive him, will you be able to trust him, does he still love you and willing to work on what you have together.

His mommy

So, are you the husband or the wife?? Because the questions you've asked on Y!A relate to you as both. If you're going to waste peoples' time with fictional questions, can you at least cover your tracks?

Jake P

Get a divorce, let you sister have him, they deserve each other. He is a cheater, and she is your sister, they are both scum, write them off and move on. If you have children this maybe a problem, but the courts will settle that.

Froggie

Other going on the Maury Show or Jerry Springer, divorce him and let them grovel in their own dirt. They both betrayed you. It's not fair to you to live in that situation. I'm sorry for you, I had an ex that cheated on me and it took me a time but the best thing I did was to divirce her, Me and my 2 daughters couldn't've been happier.

sesshie

Divorce him and extract the appropriate alimony that is deserving to you, and keep the sister out of your life. Only maybe one day maybe years from now if she really works things out with you can you even begin to trust her. I wouldn't trust the man again, he's gone.

shelly

Divorce him. Not only did he cheat on you he did it with your sister!! If you fogive him whats to stop him doing it again? Once a cheat always a cheat. As for yor sister she is family so i suggest you see what she has to say for herself, if she seems truly sorry you should try to work things out with her, if she isnt she isnt worth your thoughts darling.

Hope things work out for you xxxx

CupCake

Wow your own blood. What that tells you. She doesn't trueful loves you sis. Sorry to hear what happen, but honestly i have to say, U have to let him go. and well i know u love your sister talk to her to do the something and file child support, Do not keep the guy around. because he will hurt you and u will remember the pain, its better to work it out with your sister knowing u hate her now, but theres going to be a baby in the family now, I say dump your husband is more his fault for cheating on you and not respecting you and talk to your sister to do the same thing. if she stays with him things will get nasty. then u need to move far away from her.
I hope you have luck god bless you,

Leiani

Divorce him, never speak to her again - they are both scum and do not deserve to be in your life. If you can honestly forgive them for this you are a better person than me.

little miss seashell

Wow, this is a tough situation. I'm sorry that you had to go through this. I can't imagine how I'd feel having to be reminded of his mistake over and over. The decision is up to you. If you still love him and are willing to forgive him, then I'd say give him another chance. I believe that we're all human and capable of making mistakes, great or small. This mistake, however, is going to result in a child that is going to be your neice or nephew, a constant reminder of his betrayal to you. So if you don't think you can handle it, let him go. If you want to work it out and look at it through a different perspective... then you'll know what to do. For me, I know that I'd probably have to wait and see how it makes me feel seeing "my husband" in another child... because it might not be as bad as I think or it could be. I don't know... but you're right, if you leave him - your sister will be there to remind you with her child but you wouldn't be as hurt because you'd have let him go and it wouldn't affect you in the same way it could if you were still married to him. That's a tough call, sister. Good luck...

Zohra K

divorce him and do not believe everything he says coz he might do it again.

Trees

what a nice sister! no decent sister would have done to you, and what a husband!

Tear_Drop

Honestly, I do not give answers to those questions. It's up to you on what you want to do divorce him yes or no. Only your knows what goes on in your kitchen.
It is wrong for what both your husband and sister did. Would you feel comfortable laying next to him? How long have you all been married?
They have a saying once a cheat will always be a cheat, but sometimes people change. How does your husband feel about that. Is he apologetic? Is he sorry, has he changed from since the incident?
All those you have to look at and pray to God and he will guide you through and he has the answers for you.
Protect your self and make sure you love you no matter what. You come first and once you are first everything will come in place.

Always*Live*and*Laugh*and*Love&l

YES! You should immediately! (but this is your decision) Your own husband, the man that is supposed to love, cherish, and support you...BETRAYED you! He slept with another woman, not just any woman your own SISTER (she should be ashamed of herself), and now she's pregnant! Here's what you should do. First, take a deep breath and think. Will you ever be able to trust, love, or want to live with your husband after you know what he did to BETRAY you? Remember this decision is entirely up to you: I would not [personally] stay with him, but you can talk it over and find out if he has any future plans of breaking your heart again. I would personally divorce him, but maybe if your not entirely positive you can live without him, suggest taking a break for a while. Maybe move out, sleep in separate areas, avoid seeing each other, this will test if you/ and or him can even bear to live without each other. As for your sister, has she been a good sister and friend other than this? If she has and you don't want to be "friends" anymore with her but you don't want to lose her. You may still be considered 'civilized' around each other...don't stop going to family functions (I don't know if you do family functions but whatever time you spend with your family), avoiding it completely isn't appropriate. But don't be her 'buddy' either, that's not appropriate either, just be friendly (at least somewhat) and talk among things like 'weather' 'news' or even 'gossip'. Although, still having contact with your sister may be extremely hard, especially since your husband is the father of her baby!: Note: if you do choose to keep some contact with your sister make sure to not see her for a bit until you've calmed down enough so you won't have to restrain yourself from punching her in the face! Here's a phrase my mom taught me, it's actually a short story it has a theme for your problem, it may be a little iffy but I don't know every detail and I'm naming them so you won't get confused: One day two friends named Anne and Sarah were walking along, they were lost. Sarah was frustrated so she slapped Anne. Anne took a stick and wrote :Today Sarah slapped me: in the sand. They continued, Anne 'fell' in some quicksand they had come across and was drowning. Sarah quickly pulled Anne to safety. Anne took another stick and carved :Today Sarah saved my life: into a rock. Sarah looked at Anne and said "I don't understand, yesterday I hurt you and you wrote it in sand today you wrote that I saved you on a rock...why?" "I wrote it in sand so the wind will come and erase it, and I wrote it in the rock so it will always remain." Anne replied. That basically means, decide whether or not you can put what they did to you in 'sand' or 'stone'. Sand meaning you can let it someday heal or stone meaning you will never be able to forget that and you never will forgive for it either. (I would personally carve in stone but it's your decision) Now, it is your turn to decide. It's all up to you, don't let any ones answer control your decision just use them to help you make the right choice. My thoughts are with you, this is extremely hard for you I'm sure. No one ever deserves to have their heart broken by someone, in your case by two people. I hope any of the previous things I said has helped, even just a little bit. I hope everything works out for you!
-Good Luck,
Amanda

iluvhindi

Yes go head.. Dump both of them

PhenomenalWoman_

Ummm...really?

And you should try to make your sister feel as bad as possible. You're the victim here, so don't make any one else make you feel bad about taking care of yourself. Be strong.

GEMINI-1966

Think about this....
How sure are you that your sister is the only one he has cheated on you with ????
You will NEVER be able to forgive him and the constant memory will only be a reminder of his infidelity...
Find someone you are compatitable with...

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