My husband has a second cell phone and i found a paper with a phone # with a girls name on it .?

Stick

If you truly love and want him, then you will give him the time to realize that either the grass isn't greener or it is.

1 Love

He has another cell .... w/a girls number... and he moved out... and he needs his "space"....

Sorry to tell you this but it sounds like he's already thinking about moving on .

You should give him his space and as hard as it may be try and live your life.

Remember, the hardest thing to do is to let go of someone you love - but if they come back their yours for life ; if not - they were never your to begin with.

Flying High

Forget about him...he moved out...why do you want someone that doesn't want to be there?

heather s

I AGREE WITH MCLOVIN...BEEN THROUGH THAT WITH MY SOON TO BE EX HUSBAND SORRY GIRL

greeneyehawk

call the number and be honest with the girl on the phone. Just ask for the truth and say you mean no harm, just want the facts.

Mean Mr. Clean

At the heart of cheating is lies.....The cell phone is merely evidence.

It appears you have let your love overule the truth that stands before you.

sublime

When your gut tells you something, you should listen.

kiddkosmic

It sounds like he already hooked up with someone, maybe not - but either way the cell phone story sounds like BS to me. I would focus on yourself right now and not dwell on him. Don't chase after him either. Take some time for yourself and see what happens.

snowman

move on he has another woman

heartsarebad

Call the number, of course and talk to her. Then you will know what ever you want to know.

free_angel

Divorce him and make sure he gets stuck with the cell phone bills.

cope_acetic

He's a liar. Divorce him ASAP.

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Of hes your husband and he moved out then divorce him.

!Y?

...ask him about it? don't play mind games with YOUR self
No body wins...you still lose.

Lunaeclipz

1. He's lying
2. He's cheating
3. Reality check-ask for a divorce/file for a seperation
4. Get yourself a hot new makeover and start going out

pitchingcoach

Well I wouldn't believe that tale. He's bopping the babe on the side. You caught him red handed. I'd file and move on.

Floridagirl

It sounds like he sure needs time, time to sow his oats!! The second phone thing is a bunch of crap!!! If he is out there and getting fleas, let it be. You deserve better!! If you take him back it will be a yo yo thing to where when things don't work he will always come home to momma and leaving your life on hold. You need to do you and sow some new seeds yourself.

Mirch

Ok, do not call anybody. That's beyond retarded. It will only make you look stupid in the end. You don't know who this woman is, whether she is a co-worker, boss, friend with benefits, real estate agent, divorce attorney (hello?), or what? Regardless of title, this woman will let him know you callin!
Why da heck would he need two cell phones? One phone can serve both his home & his hip. That makes no sense to me either, but to each his own. It is obvious he needs space. You might need some air to breathe without him for awhile. Just back up and chill. If you two are meant to stay together, it will happen in due time.

naty Pants

i went through the same thing aND im not with him anymore but i found someone better you will too

Kitty?

What should you do? File for a divorce and move on....good luck in the new year :)

ndnqt1966

A separation is not a free ticket to start dating other people...It suppose to be a time to reflect on your marriage and to determine if you want to work on your marriage....But if your husband has another phone and has other women's phone numbers....He has basically saying that he is ready to move on.....so file those divorce papers and don't worry what he is doing...because if he really wants to work on your marriage he wouldn't lie to you about the phone and be getting other girl's phone numbers....

bmwguy1488

He is cheating.

Good luck tho

codyjo2007

I am very sorry to hear that. My advice would be to not focus on the 2nd phone and phone number. If you want to make the marriage work, try to start counseling with him. If he is open to counseling, it would hopefully come out in sessions.

Homer

Hes nailing her, move on.

kaiceec

prepare for the worst is what i would do if he alredy has a cell phone why couldn't he just use that one as a house phone or better yet just get a land line like most honest normal people don't get your hopes up sweetie

through_the_broken_glass

If you're separated, there isn't much you can do. He has the right to see who he pleases. And, a number doesn't mean much. I have plenty of phone numbers with guy names on them...and none of them are close to me.

I would give him time like you promised. If he leaves, he leaves. There isn't much you can do if one person isn't interested in saving a relationship. And, wouldn't you feel silly chasing down things you have no control over? Just relax. work on the relationship like you agreed to do and see how it goes.

OOO K 611

He is lying. He cheated. Second cell phone that you didn't know about is definite proof!!! All men cheat especially married men. Words are meaningless look at his actions. Is he is home?!?!? If you still love him and want to be with him keep forgiving him. Why!??! Because you might not love the next man, the next man will cheat on you too and maybe worse!!! You obviously haven't learned the facts of life:

1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair

Good luck. Email me if you want to hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike the other answers you will get. You still don't believe me? Check his cell phone records for a few months including his work cell phone. Check all his email addresses including his work email not just the email address he uses with you.

He is lieing to you. Im sorry to say but go file the papers for the divorce and save yourself many more years of hurt. If he loved you he would not need to move out to solve a problem. He wanted to move out so he could do what he wanted. He also hid the fact he got a second cell and the girls numbers he would not be hiding it for no reason. I am really sorry but you deserve better. Dont worry they are all liers or cheaters. Go have a good time with the girls for awhile then find you the one who can make you cry but wont. Hes the one that is worth your time

Nfl S

Dont jump 2 conclusion jus start 2 open ur eyes more and notice stuff. i had a friend and her husband for 3 years died and she found out he was havin a affair for 3 years. so ask questions and sit him down 2 talk about it.

frank61799

Give it time or get a divorce. You are seperated at this point and he might have another girl on the side. What caused him to move out?

glamour04111

call the number. He is lying!! He has a girlfriend.

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