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boo boo
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I THINK YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO |
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Mon Ray
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one-sided love doesn't work sweetie..... |
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Goodspeed
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This not only says volumes about what kind of man and father he is, but 5 times and your asking should I stay...no, your about the only person dumb enough to love such a man, stay with him and let him walk all over you some more. |
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Nancy Kay
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you know what to do...drop kick his triflin' azz right out the front door...I do so hope you two don't have children together. now go find yourself someone worthy of you... |
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cantankerousoldlady
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burn me once, shame on you. burn me twice, shame on me. get the heck out. you wanna catch some kind of bad disease? |
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Jess
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Do you really want to wait for a 6th, 7th, and 8th time? |
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stseukn
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Does it bother you that he cheated? If so, leave him. If you can live with it, then stay, but be warned that he's going to do it again and again. |
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Amanda
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Leave him, he is a loser if he has cheated on you more then five times. It will be hard because you love him, but you could be a lot happier with a man who loves you, and who doesn't cheat on you |
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maven
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This does not take alot of thought and from reading your post you already know it's time for his *** to go. |
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Ron
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Divorce him, and make him pay, for what he has done to you, the creep. |
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Lizzie Ann
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girl, if he has cheated five times he does not love you. it is obvious that he is only using you. as hard as it may be, you need to let him go and stay gone. |
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Jordan H
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You should leave him. Why would u let him cheat on you 5 times and stay with him. He might get an STD or something. My advice is if u really do wanna stay with him then make him pay for cheating on you do something so that he learns his not to do it anymore, but since he has done it 5 times and has a little girl now it might be to late. |
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missas_mom
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If he's cheated on you more than 5 times, and has a baby with someone else, why would you even have to ask if you should leave him? What about him can you possibly love? Or do you love the man you wish he was? |
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shannonlee05@sbcglobal.net
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leave him hes already left you! several times |
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Debra B
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I would have kicked his ... out after the first cheat. |
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drowningvictim13
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The husband is a big boy, he can fend for himself. Time for you to move on and give someone else a shot. He already has multiple times. He knows if he doesnt like the new girl, he can come back home to you. |
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Marianne T
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Let him go unless you would like to work to pay child support for this new baby girl. Also, he will have custody on some weekends. And guess what? You will be the one taking care of his love child. If he has cheated 5 times that you know of you need to get a divorce unless you just want a life of chaos. This is no way to live. And this won't be the first baby you hear about either. Go make a new life for yourself. |
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gi_jane_kicks_***
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Leave him. You don't deserve this. If he's cheated on you so many times, why are you torturing yourself by staying? Don't be dumb. Pull your head out of your @ss and realize your better than this! |
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SillierKimmie!
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Honey he's cheated on you five times...I don't like divorce, but I think this is a justifiable reason for it. Go make a better life for yourself without this scum bag. He just made that girl apart of your lives forever by what he did. Pack up, you can do better. |
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pookiemct07
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How can you love someone who has cheated even once? That, my dear, is a self-esteem problem. Dump him! You cannot cheat on someone you love. He doesn't love you. You are wasting your life! |
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taty
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WHY ARE U EVEN BOTHEHRING WITH THE QUESTION?/??? do u like being treated like garbage, you are a woman and should be very proud of yourelf and know that in this country their are so many ways to support you. The first thing u should do is live him for ur sake and your children's sake. If you stay with him all u will be doing is ruinning ur children's life... DONT DO THAT... there are ways for him to give u daily month checks..but stay strong... u can do this!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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dil7827
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Why are you even asking this? He should have been gone a long time ago. I understand that it's hard to leave someone you love but do you really want to waste your life being with someone who doesn't love you? |
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Blondie
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HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO
WHY DID IT TAKE YOU SO LONG ( more than 5 times)
TO CLUE IN THAT HE IS A CHEATING , LYING BAG OF CRAP ????
Are you SOOOO desperate that you are willing to take his sloppy seconds that he serves up to you?
He obviously made his choice at least 5 times with someone else.. and honey it wasn't YOU...!!!!!!
Are you happy to know that he does to you ... the same things he does with her?
Are you thrilled to live everyday.. wondering if he is with her again.. seeing his baby.. living a lie with you?
What could you possibly LOVE about a man that treats you like you have no brains and that you deserve nothing better than to be used and abused?
HE LIVES A LIE WITH YOU... AND YOU ENABLE HIM TO KEEP THE LIE GOING....
GET THE HECK OUT... good riddents to bad garbage... |
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a_lot_smarter_now
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You should have walked out the 2nd time, Hon. People make mistakes, but if you really learn from them, you don't repeat them. He doesn't really love you. Get that, and move on...because somewhere out there, someone will. Love yourself enough to expect better from somebody that's going to be your life partner. It will hurt, but you will be better off in the end. You will NEVER be able to trust him, and you know it. He's proven he will do this OVER and OVER and OVER again. I'm sorry for you, but the good news is, it's not too late to change your OWN life. |
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super_dooper_dooooper_man
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only you can answer this. some people can live with this. many poeple are in marriages and are fine with there spouses cheating. its your choice. |
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Buffy Summers
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GET out now. |
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huckleberry1
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Please stay with him, with his low character and your low self esteem, you're a match made in heaven. :-) |
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lex
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you say nothing of how sorry he is,,of how he has sworn to never do this again OR what are his plans with regards his new child,,,you cannot make someone stop cheating on you unless they want to and for this you and he need to honestly talk. if he cant do this and you are trying to excuse what he did just because of how you feel about him it will not work between you.cheating is cheating but to not be careful with contraception is terribly complacent on his behalf,without protection there was always a chance a baby could be in the picture and if he didnt think this would matter he isnt going to change now. |
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arkiemom
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Kick him to the curb girlfriend. You deserve better! Once a cheater always a cheater! |
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My thoughts are you should leave. He dosn't respect you. That shows by the fact he keeps on doing it. The fact that he has had one child doesn't mean anything other then it happened with this one. It could have happened with any of them before. He will cheet again. He know he can because he has time and time again. The only question for you, has he hurt you more then you love him. When he has you will know it and at that time you will leave. When a person hurts you more then you love them you walk away and don't look back. |
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the_hedda_lettuce
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What are you hoping to get from this?
Because all you will be getting is some venereal disease or worse.
He already knows he can get away with cheating and you're going to stick with him, so why bother asking us what you should do?
If your self-esteem is that low, you may as well allow him to keep having affairs.............but wait! You already do............ |
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