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My husband is accusing me of having an affair with our cleaning woman...?

How can I keep our little indiscretions more discreet? He's on to us. She's from Brazil, and she's gorgeous. Couldn't pass it up.


    




Digz
lol...good for you! He's only waiting for you to admit it so that he can join in on the fun...lol...just admit it and let him watch..it'll spice up your marriage.


Danger Switz
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Keep doing it... If all else fails just offer him a 3-way :)


Kristen
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Well obviously you weren't be to discreet about it so if he already knows. . .what is the point in hiding it?
If you are willing to cheat and lie (all the while knowing the repercussions) then what is the point of being in such a serious commitment in the first place. You obviously don't love him enough if you can't be open and share something like that with him before you acted on your lustful tendencies.
He might have been a little more open to the situation if you had asked if he was okay with the idea of a threesome and depending on the answer see how far he was willing to go with the scenario from there.
I don't know what you are expecting for an answer other than people telling you to get a divorce, be honest with him, or move away and dirty up some of the houses she cleans . . .


kd_lifer
Next time you have her in let her do some cleaning!


MamaCat
Call it off until he isn't suspicious anymore and start back up at a more discreet time and location.


Burnt toast :D
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WTF


Janet W
dumb ***


Say it Like it Is :)
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That's awesome. Maybe he is jealous you bagged the cleaning before he did :)


Jesus Christ
ask him to join in


Finaille
o_o What do you want us to say? I mean, if you cheated on him, then that's your problem and he has the right to be angry.

Go to counseling. You aren't being fair to him.


Grampa Hann
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wow! if i were your husband, i would be in shock (for just a while). but then, if you think your husband is understanding enough, you could open up to him (that's what being married is for) and see if you could come up with a compromise such as he providing your needs that you found with the cleaning woman, a 3-some, etc. just talk it out.


OhWhatAWorld
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Howsabout you suggest a threesome?


Chris
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How about not cheating on your husband with the cleaning lady? Or have him join you for a threesome he might not object to that.


JUJUBABE
You can stop ******* around. Otherwise, I hope he catches you.


Bumble Bee702
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Tell her to look for a new job


Say What?
Let him have an affair with the pool boy and you can call it square!


Sally
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uh...lol...well, apparently you're not being too discreet are you now? I'd say divorce your husband, and run away to brazil with this woman. You don't deserve your husband.





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