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confusedbrowngirl
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Dont listen to the idiots on here who tell you to divorce or leave him. People give up WAY too easily. This is YOUR husband, YOUR marriage, YOUR life. If you love him, do everything in your power to make it work.
He will drive you crazy, you will feel as if you are doing all the work, and he is oblivious and doesnt care. But KEEP DOING IT.
If he really regretted being married to you since you wed, he wouldnt be with you now. He would cheat or leave, so obviously he has feelings for you.
But some people I find on here, say "leave and divorce, find someone new" First of, its not easy finding someone new, second of all, dont be a wuss and run away....
Be strong and fight for what you beleive in, dont give up. |
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crazyloonynice
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Leave. Then find a nicer man. |
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T <3
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Did he say he regrets it?
Because if my husband said that to me- I would be looong gone. |
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No se
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Leave him. You deserve much better than that. |
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donnabellekc
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As hard as it is, start doing for YOU. Don't try to please him, just gives him more room to walk over you. I'm not saying to be rude or mean to him, but don't cater to his every wish. From how it sounds, you need to start making a life for yourself, and prepare to do it away from him. |
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se
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Well you can always do couples therapy haha i know it sounds corny but why not? just sit down with him and talk it over. |
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highchaparral2006
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Leave him and find someone who loves you. |
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0111450
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Kick him to the curb. No one should treat you like that. |
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texascomet
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dump his I'm sure fat *ss......you don't need to hear that, if he doesn't want to be near you then tell him to leave..and go get yourself a man that really appreciates you. |
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twohalvesofawholeidiot
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Dump his butt and move on.
Better off alone that taking that crap from anyone.
You will find someone who appreciates you and he will be an idiot or at the very least, someone else's problem !! |
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PuntaCorvo 66
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Tell him to get stuffed and find yourself someone who really appreciates you. |
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♥2323vsb
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That's sad. You should consider leaving. If he regrets it.....it's not long before he's acting out on that regret. (cheating) Maybe ask him WHY he regret's it. Ask him to be open and honest and just be ready for anything. If he can't answer, or says that he's not in love, you should probably leave. Sorry......and good luck with this. |
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Anna M
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Regrets being married to you? That statement should say it all. You can't be married to a person that doesn't want to be married.
Marriage takes 2 people to make it work. It might be time to move on......or at least talk about it?
For further advice/mediation/resources or DIY Divorce forms please click on "MY" Yahoo 360 for HELP. I am NOT an attorney. I have filed my own DIY divorce and found it very easy and more affordable than using a lawyer.
Or if you just want to talk? maypop41@yahoo.com
Been there, done that!
Good luck in whatever you decide to do............... |
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Glo★
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Ok Jayne with a Y, Y are you still with someone who speaks to you in such a manner. This is emotional abuse. Next time he tells you something like this I would tell him being married to him is not such a treat. I would get a divorce and find someone with like values and knows how to love and respect a women. God bless**** |
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Kitikat
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Maybe find out why he feels the way he does. There has to be something that has triggered these feelings, how long have you been married? I'm a firm believer that both parties should try to make it work for the kids and if they can't then don't put the kids in the middle |
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M R
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One word...LEAVE!
Why do you want to be around someone that is verbally abusive. If someone constantly lets you know that you are a HUGE regret in his life, why stick around? Your just subjecting yourself to his abuse. |
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Dogbelly
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Maybe this is a possible sign of trouble don't ya think? If i were you, i would regret being married to him! Boy, do i feel like Dr. Phil! |
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Kelsey p.
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divorce... |
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Cute But Evil
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It sounds like the only thing he is good for is for lowering your self esteem and making you feel worthless. You need to leave him and move on. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated and respect you. It is sad that he spends everyday making you feel bad about yourself. I hope you can find a way out of your situation. Nobody should live like that.
Good luck... |
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dhbaby13
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why did he marry you then? |
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Gary
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Nobody on here can give you the magic answer you are looking for, though it sounds like you already know the answer and you are looking for support. I would suggest only you speaing with a professional and helping yourself to stand on your feet emotionally so you can move on with or without him. Unfortunatly true love has to be a 2 way street. A word of advice- stay away from any counselor that gives "advice". They have to be neutral and un bias. The reason is because you have o make you own decissions in life. If you do decide on your own to move on, then talk with an attorney and move on with the next part of your life.
I really do hope things work out for the best with you- either with or without your husband. Been there, done that- and there really is light at the end of the tunnel.
I hope this helped and best wishes! |
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Krissy
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Tell him that there is always someone Else who will say charming things treat you like a princess. |
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stephenl1950
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Divorce him. life's to short to be miserable and tided down to someone that don't appreciate you. |
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Scooter
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When he is calm ask him if he wants a separation and be prepared to leave! No point in living a live with someone who is unhappy, move on if that is what he wants, find someone who wants to share there life with you, then you can be happy! |
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Cheryl
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Dump him, let him wash his own underwear |
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lynn c
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Get marriage counseling with or without him. He is verbally abusive. Have him get help with his problem or leave before he destroys your self esteem.You deserve better. Allow yourself to find someone who will love you and appreciate you for the wonderful person you are.
If he refuses to get help or it doesn't help work out the problems, tell him if he is unhappy to put his money where his mouth is and get out. Hopefully once you fight back and he can't bully you, things will change. |
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GrnApl
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Find out who he is sleeping with and who he has been talking with that he should come to this conclusion so long after the deed was done. |
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Bren
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you do not deserve to be treated like that
i know it is easy to say for me
but
i would ditch him and find a man who will love you and support you no matter what |
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2good4hem
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Start telling him the same thing. He has no reason to be hurting u this way so begin doing the same to him, tell him things that will hurt his feelings as well |
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I know, I know!!!!
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divorce him and find someone who respects and loves you more |
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