My husband is always gone?

My husband has started being gone all night in the past few months. I do not think he is cheating, but he always has an excuse as to why he has to go stay over at a Friends house. He will come home at 3 4 5 am and it is starting to get bothersome. He told me tonight he was going to stay over at his friends house because he would not be able to sleep tonight and he had an early meeting and he was just going to pull an all nighter so he could make it to his meeting. Mind you we live in the same damn town as his friend. It is not like he is driving a long distance. He lives a mile away.

I told him I did not approve and he said okay, Bye. This is the 4 th night this week he has come up with an excuse to stay at a friends house.

I really do not know what to do. I have talked to him and he is very clear about it. What I think does not matter and he could care less how I feel.

Sophiesmom

Sounds like something is going on....I would take a drive over to the friends house, heck you need a night out also.

Paul&Fran

Maybe hes having a gay affair? There is no logical explanation for this other then him screwing around im sorry.

ndm1958

The next time he spends the night at a friends house wait an hour and either call there to talk to him or better yet just drive by to see if he is there. If not you need to check a couple more times and the confront him about this. This may mean he is not happy in the marriage not to mention he seems not to care what you think.

kim h

He is cheating.

Dan

He is cheating on you
If it is the fourth night this week he is definatley cheating on you .

albrightlesa

Sounds like cheating get a investigator then take him for every dime he has and do not forget to make him pay for your lawyer.

marheather

Wake up by dear- Of course he is cheating.
I think it is time for professional help. If you cannot afford that- go to the friends house in the middle of the night and find out if he is there- He may even be there and be in bed with somebody in the house .So checking on his car won't do it . Check it out. Dont be taken for a fool

happier days

Throw his stuff out onto the front lawn.
Change the locks.
Change your number.
Change your life.

MzTerioz

sounds like he is cheating on you. even if u have proof hes at a friends house, he still could be cheating with the friend, he could be gay or bi for all you know.

lmcd_jsx

HONESTLY WOMAN!!! Divorce his *** and move on. You know that as well as anyone.

Brunette wife

This is ridiculous he has no business staying that late or staying overnight.

If i was you i would call this friends house and see if he is really there.

But it does sound like he is cheating.

debbiesue

he's cheatin. the next time he leaves shortly after follow him park your car far down the street walk by the house don't let anyone see you. check it out but he is cheating

BikerChick

If you know who this friend is, by all means pop on by and visit around what, 10 or 11 at night?

I think you should suggest he just pack his crap and go move in with this friend - why not?

My husband would do this to me ONCE. If he was stupid enough to think I would put up with it again, EVERYTHING he owns would be out on the front lawn and the locks would be changed.

You do not tell me what I feel does not matter and you could care less unless you are willing to live anywhere but under the same roof as me.

Rebecca S

Wow, HELLO!!! He is doing you wrong, he dosn't give a ^&!# about you. Can you not tell? He doesn't care what you think, what you know, what he is doing, he doesn't give a crap about you, not at all.
call CHEATERS!!

Rena

I am not so quick to say cheating. But there are some serious marital issues. And if he is not willing to work them threw, there is no future.

Try getting into marital counseling.

marina L

that is wrong-tell him that and try to talk it out,otherwise maybe its time for a change for you

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