My husband is going to prison and he said he wants a divorce if i go to san diego this weekend. what do i do?

BLULINR

Divorce him then. He's in prison!

Ashley

Wow, so basically its a win win situation for you!!! You get to go to San Diego & lose your husband who will be locked up for who knows how long! I'd go & have a GREAT time.

close_my_eyes2002

i have no idea why your husband is goin to prison. but i do comend him on is honor! i say go with papers, he shall sign, this dosnt meen when he gets out you cant see each other again, but he is offering you your freedom to go on with your life!

middle aged and love it

Wait till he goes to jail then go to San Diego.

manuj

go to san diago do you like to stay with a criminal

krazy-confused

HOLLA!! TELL HIM TO SAY HI TO BUBBA FOR YA!

Fox

Divorce is cheaper if one's in Prison. The state I am in if your spouse is in Jail or prison you can get a divorce for around 50 bucks. But the issue is what are you to do. Ask yourself Do you love him really? Is he worth waiting for? And the biggest question for you is this. Does he respect you? If you answer yes to all these then don't go. But if you answer no to two or more. Start packing. The answer is in your heart not ours. So think about it. Make your decision. And do whats right for you. Good Luck

dmachelles76

He sounds like a loser so grant his wish and be free

wanda w

hell go it is not like he is going to be there for you

blessed_thang

If he didn't cancel the credit cards, have a good time. They don't let you attend divorce court when prison is all u got going on. It's an uncontested divorce anyway.

StueStirling

If he loves you he will set you free. Go to San Diego!

sovereign_carrie

Agree with person who says mail him the signed divorce papers to his prison. Call his bluff.

Tarabul

Girl, go to San Diego, he is not going anywhere, he is going to prison for god sakes. He needs you, you have the upper hand now in the relationship, and just let him know, fine, then give me a divorce, he'll back down. Really, I dont know anything about your situation, like time he is going to be gone? Why he is going? But maybe take this weekend and revaluate your life, is he really worth the wait, and if he is, Great, but the million dollar question is: Would he wait, for you????Have a great weekend in San Diego.

Tejandra B

You should wait into he go to prison and then go.And when he gets out you and him should move to San Diego if you don't
find anyone else.

Thong

Depends on how much u love and trust him..If you trust him to turn a new leaf,then do not go and leave him behind..He needs your support..he needs a woman to be behind him...

If you do not trust him to turn over a new leaf,after jail,just go ahead to san diego...No point staying with dead mud...

Nader

F!ck him he is trash if hes going to prison you really shouldn't be with him anyways! bad people = bad relationship!

Ben R

Do you still love him?
Does he still love you?
Why is he going to prison?
For how long?
Why does he want a divorse if you go to San Diego?
What's in San Diego?

I need more information....

lovelyme

Im not married but he's going to prison...tell him that you want a divorce if he goes to prison...

Kati

Here's a better question: Why is he going to prison?

jplrvflyer

Is there some reason you want to stay with him?

Is he in prison already? Maybe he wants to spend time with you while he can. If you leave for the weekend, that's one less weekend before he won't be able to spend any more time with you.

misydoll

Give him what he wants, give him a divorce. Go have fun in San Diego.

msthinkpositive

Give him his divorce. This will make it easier than waiting until he is in jail to try and request one. Remember, he's asking for it, not you so time is in your favor now.

me1c01ciz

divorce with him

blackknightpictures

don't go to San Diego if you want to stay married, then. If you don't care, go to San Diego.

Jigga

It's entirely up to you. Do you still love him? If the answer is yes, and you didn't hesitate, then you must obey the vows of your marriage and do what he wants you to. Logically, if he's going to prison, it ma be the last time you get to do as he asks you. On the other hand, if you said no, explain to him why

iszzy

why doesnt he want you to go to san diego, if he thinks youll cheat on him, seems like he has some trust issues. and if hes going to prison it might be for the best that you get a divorce