My husband is in prison for 4 years. , find myself looking at other men. Is that normal?

cool_honeybabe

For what reason he is in prison i am unware, either than adultery do whatever you want.And if you want to do something bold, divorce him.Do not hang on with someone you are not sure of and let go someone who is hanging on to you.Feelings re just temporary but your future is permanent.

ramni222

If you are healthy, four years is a very long time.

When I go away on a trip, about two days after I am away, I start to feel the need (mentally and physically) in a way that I cant explain.

My limit is about one week before I start to check to the scenery and possibilities.

I havent done anything but the gun is always ready.

playboyblonde11

its normal for you to look just be careful, hes gone for 4 years, u need to talk to him and tell him thats a long time and u have needs too, but just dont do it behind his back, he will NEVER let your forget it.

brian n

Hun your husband is in prison for a reason. You should dump the loser and find yourself a real man that will work and take care of a family

Bethy4

Four years, you are a better woman than I. We all have our commitments to uphold, that one seems kind of steep. I would imagine that it is normal to look, hell you are just married and human - not dead.

CARL P

AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU ARE ONLY HUMAN YOU GOT NEEDS,EMOTIONS,URGES,TO LOCK THESE UP IN A BOX FOR 4 THATS A THOUGH ONE BUT I THINK IT IS NORMAL FOR YOU TO LOOK, THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT ITS LIKE THE STEREOPHONICS SONG GOES, IM JUST LOOKING, IM NOT BUYING BUT IF YOU BUY IT TOTALLY YOUR DECISION, ITS YOUR LIFE, AT THE END OF THE DAY THAT IS

rose

That is perfectly normal, but my i suggest that you really look at your relationship, if he is in prison he must have done something really bad, do you want a man like that?

johnny n

Go with your heart; four years for him not you!

beenie 21

Yes it is. But as of right now you say that you are loyal but honestly why would you want to wait for a person that has committed a crime I mean how is he going to treat you when he gets out of prison did you think about this.

Blissfulness....

heck yeah! lol you aren't getting the attention you need and I am sure that you are probably lonely... I wish you the best...good luck

Yvonne Mystic

It's perfectly normal.

dizon1211

I think you already know the answer to this one you just want someone to tell you its ok to cheat . Well it isn't!
If you are toying with the idea of another man then its time to divorce and get on with your life. Don't waste years on someone you dont love anymore.

dbuitt22

Yep Dump him now!

Quicksilver

Good grief ! Unless you truly feel that he is innocent of the charges that sent him to prison, divorce the man !! Who needs a convict for a husband ? Not you !

kathyw

That is natural. Would you ever advise anyone to become involved with someone they couldn't live with for 4 years? Would you advise a daughter of yours to marry someone who would be going to college in Alaska while she lived in Florida? Even that would be better because you know they would have vacations together - you don't even have that. Yet it is something no one in their right mind would advise for another person. You have it tough but you say you have been loyal. Try to keep that loyalty and stay far from temptation. Tell your husband about how successful you have been staying loyal - he needs to hear it. Then sign up for some project that has some deadlines you can anticipate: it will help the time pass faster to have other time frames to deal with besides the 4 years you have to wait for him to get out of prison.

Adorable

u should wait for him

Julie

of cource not....you should stay loyal

Snowman

I did 3 years in Oklahoma For assault with a deadly weapon .When I went down .I knew it wasn't right to make her wait and I wouldn't ask her. I was guilty as hell and it was time for me to think about where my life was going.I am a better person now but 99 % of people who do time walk away worse than before.
If I were you I would go do my own thing.Do whats best for your future find a man who has one.

DAWIT E

I think it it too dificult to judje but according to my opeinion you should keep your promices and waiting for your hasband.keep also your clarity and pesence.I belive that jesus understand what the distress you are in, so that he will help you

junkman

#1 do you want to stay married to your husband ?
Yes ? control your thoughts, do not ever put yourself in any situation with a man that might lead into something else. I mean phone calls, lunch, dinner, e-mails, repairing the lawn mower, nothing. Stay away from bars, female friends that might encourage you to do anything. This will mean the world to your husband when he gets out.

abonoyah

yes it is normal.

Robert C

That's weired. Not normal at all. Get yourself checked into a hospital.

steinerrw

Prison, sounds just like somenody I'd like to wake up next to each morning, NOT. This can't be healthy for you and your needs. File for a divorce and pick up and start again.
"There go those 'BAD" boy types just making you melt in their hands."

iddybiddy_1962

I don't mean to sound so cruel but, if he is in prison-
he will only give you a miserable life.
It doesn't matter why he is in there, the fact is he did some-
thing wrong and I'm sure you deserve better.

Just Me

Yes, it's normal.

josephmaja

If your man has been faithfully honest with you,you must committ yourselves to him,through ups and down of your marriage life,Right now he needed you most.But its natural for you to look for someone else,I suggest you pray hard and sincere and ask GOD to show HIS WAYS and wills for your marriage life

Ann L

yes it is normal. You need to take some time and reevaluate your relationship, and see if it is really worth waiting for him, and see if your truely in love with him. If you have good comunication with him, talk to him about your feelings. Good Luck

Go GO Ressa

I think this is normal. What counts is your integrity. Just because you look and wonder, does not mean that you have to act on the feelings. It will help if you start to feel this way, write your husband a letter, that will make you feel closer to him. Never ever tell him of these feelings, because when he get out, you will never hear the end of it or he could accuse you of doing things you did not do.

Tony M

tell him to be good perhaps he can be out on paroll. yes its normal. but try to stay loyal. the good things are tougher. i wish you and him the best.

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