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UppityBroad68
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If YOU were in prison, would it be okay with you if HE slept with someone else?
And where will your daughters be? In the house while you're with someone new (thus getting very confused by the presence of a guy they can't mention to their dad) or with a babysitter (who has to be paid to watch your kids while you screw around on their dad)? |
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Quasimodo
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..and it probably won't be the last either. "Very lonely of you-know-what". It appears you both have some serius growing up to do. |
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DatDrMaHeLuvs
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NO cheating is NEVER acceptable...NO EXCUSES... rememeber your vows... in sickness and in health... not only does that mean just in a medical reason... but also in life.. the good times and the bad times... |
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Becci
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What would you say to him, if you were the one in prison and he asked you the same question? |
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sarah W
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so however misguided he was he went to jail to help you and now you are wondering if its okay to cheat on him. No its not he showed a level of dedication to your family (again terribley misguided) you should stay loyal to him.... |
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ann s
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reverse the situation... how would you feel?
no it's not ok FFS |
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Answerer Of Questions
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What about your commitment to this man? And then he went and committed a crime to help you(which was stupid yes, but he did it for you)and ends up in prison and now you wanna cheat on him? That's messed up. If you can't handle it, then you need to talk to him about it and resolve it one way or another. |
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new mel
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Wow aren't you a nice wife???! You sure don't love him so why don't you just divorce him instead of cheating...cheating is never ok!!! even if he is in jail...you chose to marry him so don't cheat on him!!! |
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Dan M
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you took a vow "in good times and bad " and im sure you ended it with an "i do" the reason people get married is because they believe they have found there soul mate .
in saying that Prison's do offer congical visits
if they dont is he in there for life then you would have to look into getting a divorce if your that lonely .
how do you think woman feel having there husbands in Iraq for years on end |
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sweetie
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NO it's not ok. Cheating is cheating no matter how you put it. If you can't wait for him then get a divorce and move on with your life. |
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ndnqt1966
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You are still married to the dumb*ss? Get a divorce from the loser...
He has been to prison more than once.... No way would I stay with a man that has been to the BIG HOUSE that often
I am not justifying committing a crime such as your husband did...but you want to show your appreciation to him for committing crime to pay your bills....by cheating on him?? You are just as messed as he is ....... |
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*KiM*
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yeah, don't you remember in your vows were it said love, honor, cherish, obey and only cheat if he's in the slammer?
don't hurt him that way, i understand that you're lonely, but that would just break his heart, and would only leave you feeling guilty afterwards. |
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Jus Me
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I understand that your lonely...
But if your gona continue..
On with your life..
You should be honest with him!
That is a really long time to wait...
But cheating is still wrong! |
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10tolife
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i think this is where the test of your love come in
you can see someone else but it will always be in the back of your mind he might ask and you can lie but you might have a tell that he know about and it's all mess up.
but he needs you now as much as he need you
stay strong at least he can hold his head up and say i got a women that love me enought to wait for me and not stray which will empower his love for you.
on that note being he's in jail should he cheat and not tell you
dont sound so good flip does it
you have to put your self in the position other than the one your living and know what your other would feel. |
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Bill
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In my opinion yes//Truth is I looked at your 360..Loose your husband,You can do better |
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Katie
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Why don't you just get a divorce? He's obviously incapable of supporting you & your children while locked up. You're already doing it on your own. Why not make it official & then you can go out & no one will look at you sideways? Personally, I wouldn't stick with some guy who's locked up, especially for that long. What's the point in it? |
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sharp p
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NO! your still married, geta divorce 1st... |
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logey03
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maybe just let him know what you are feeling, he may even give you the go ahead..........at least then he would know about it and then it wouldn't really be cheating |
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kyshaun04
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MY HUSBAND IS IN PRISON AND HAS BEEN THERE FOR 3 yrs GIRL AT FIRST IT WAS EASY BUT AS TIME GOES BY U GET LONELY AND U HAVE NEEDS SO I HAVE BEEN CHEATING ON HIM BUT NOW THAT IT'S ALMOST TIME 4 HIM 2 COME I'VE BEEN GOOD BUT U HAVE 2 THINK LIKE THIS IF U WERE LOCKED UP WOULD HE WAIT HELL NO SO GIRL DO YOUR THING U AI NT WRONG AND WHAT HE DOESN'T KNOW WONT HURT HIM BUT WHEN HIS TIME STARTS WINDING DOWN U GOT 2 GET IT TOGETHER |
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juan r
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Cheating is wrong anyway you look at it.I would tell him how this makes you feel and that if he gets out just to go right back to jail that you will leave him.Its not a healthy relationship for you or the kids. |
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gasguy695
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yes its time to move on and meet someone else. i would get a divorce and try your best to take care of your kids the best way you know how |
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Tray
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2012 is a long time, you are putting your life on hold until 2012. What he does know, won't hurt. but get with somebody who understands the rules and the conclusion before the game starts...know what I mean. |
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Sweet
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Of course it's ok. What's he going to do to you? He should have been thinking about you before he did something dumb enough to go to jail. Go have yourself a good time, and don't worry about what anyone has to say about it. Good Luck, and Have Fun |
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loriloriloriloriv
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just cuz he is in prison, you are still married. so yes it would be cheating...why are you still with him? get a divorce and move on...when or if he gets out in 2012, do you think that would be the last time he will go back? and remember when he finds out when he gets out, what's gonna happen? he's gonna either kick your *** or your boyfriends *** and then there he goes back to prison...3rd strike? 25-life!
get a B.O.B. and take care of yourself... |
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jemark
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I would divorce my Husband. Your girls deserve a better role model for a Father. |
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c j 10"
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mail me and I will answere you there |
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cindra
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I think it would be OKAY for you to check yourself into a mental health care facility. You need to explore reasons why you would want to wait around for a criminal to get out of prison and why you would want to expose your innocent children to that. |
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