My husband is not romantic at all, so i asked him whether he is happy he married me? and?

wish I were

How would you rate it? Geezzzz I would think 5 would be OK so you are above average, what do you want???

Manda J

I think if he cant even answer the question there is a problem regardless of a 7 or not! Good Luck!

Bill

70 is a C. Congrats, you passed.

Happy enough. Around 3-4 is where the "separation" or "cheat" starts showing up, I think.

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mafiosu

7 means there is room for improvement.

Lisa*LiSa

I would say Seven is Good !!! SAying a 10 Would be theres nothing wrong in the relationship. He answered right !

Brutally Honest

I rate a 7 as satisfied, content, and yes - even happy. 10 (which in my opinion is impossible because NOTHING is perfect) would be absolutely euphoric. While it wouldn't hurt to discuss what it would take to get you BOTH to say an 8 or 9, I wouldn't necessarily be dissatisfied knowing he ranks it as a 7....remember 5 is average.

baserunner316

sometimes people just aren't natural givers but it doesn't necessarily mean your not loved. since guys have the role of provider put on us we tend to show it by being faithful, going to work every day and working around the house. the question should be are YOU happy with HIM???

umannjo

Well... it's not a 9 or 10.

I think you two need to talk. Find out what's going on. Something is bugging him, and he's not telling you what it is.

oracleofohio

I would say a 7 is "I'd be happier if you weren't asking me this question right now". My husband was totally romantic while dating me and before we got married. Once we got married that all pretty much stopped. I let him know about it but what I learned was that it had more to do with me than him. Men enjoy the chase. He was chasing me until he got me! Once he had me there was no need to chase. What I found out was that instead of nagging him about his lack in the romance department, I spent that time working on myself. Something nice happened. He started chasing and romancing me again. It took me changing myself for him to feel that need. It's been great! We all know that some men aren't the best at communicating how they feel. Work on yourself and keep your eyes open for how he communicates in his own way. Don't ask him those 1-10 questions, I can't imagine anything that would make a man cringe more than that! Instead of wasting time on questions like that, ask him to take a walk in the park or go out at night and look at the stars. You might get more out of him if you set up some romantic time. Good luck :)

Phantiger

My husband is worse. He hasn't shown any affection to me since we were married. He puts on like we are such the happy couple in public, but in private, we don't even talk to each other. At least your husband gave you a seven. If I had to guess, I would say mine would give me a 2. I will let you know.

Haidee

I wouldn't like it if my husband said that, unless I can give him a 7 as well... I like being in the same page...

Jitter_Beard

I guess a 7 is pretty happy.....But I mean 8 would be better.

sugarBear

he said 7? you should be worried. If he really loves you, he would have said 10. Obviously, there's a problem. Find out what it is & resolve it.

bizkit_

well I can say that he might be happy, for a guy that don't care so much or is indecisive... but then how did you fall in love with him?

Ricardo R

How long have you been married? A number seven to me is just not good. He should have said at least an 8. Aren't you newlyweds?

lonewolf

blueocean,Sweety some guys just don"t know how ,or feel that it is unmanly to get mushy ! So talk with him and teach him what you would like. Be totaly honest and perhaps he will comply ! I will pray for you !

Spring

You asked for it.
Why do women ask questions like this?
Be happy he said 7; it means happy.

What's good?

okay is probably like a 5 so, he feels more than just okay... I would say a 7 is happy... 10 would be like extremely happy. I think 10's only exist in fairy tales. Some men are just not romantic, they're more robotic!

Crypt

I'm sure he sensed a trap... I would say that he's happy he married you, or I guess perhaps I should use the word satisfied. Obviously only he knows what he's thinking, but as a guy that has been asked that question before I can say that it definitely feels like a loaded trap.

If he answers too high then you'll accuse him of lying, questions him as to why he could love you so much yet not show it, or any number of other scenarios that will simply lead to stress, and argument, and most likely you being pissy and him being wrong.

On the other hand he could answer low... Then you think he doesn't love you, get all depressed, and it's his fault for not caring enough. Then he gets to deal with you questioning the relationship for the next 3 months... Or at least until you come up with another question that doesn't have a simple answer.

FBI(female body inspector)

your not sure of yourself or him you better get some counseling quick

junkman

7 is not bad, better than saying "2" 7 is happy, I guess you want him to be more romantic ? work on him, when you are alone, be barely dressed, maybe just a unbuttoned shirt only, do not make any move toward him, you know what he likes, sit where he can "see" you, do something simple like file your nails, I bet in a few minutes you will see him glancing at you, be just a little hard to get, just a little. Guys like that. Do this once a month + I bet he will rate your marriage 8 or a 9 !!!!

ilovelilPhof

happy, it's better than a 5 which is in the middle of happy and unhappy, just tlak to him.

Pretty Lady

You are only asking for trouble when you ask questions like that. If he gave you a 7 then you need to work on a few things because your apparnetly not doing something right, or your asking to many dumb questions. You should be happy he gave you a 7! This means he's not planning on leaving you anytime soon.

lordmisrule2004

Well, he needs to be a little bit more specific. You need to follow up with more specific questions. Like, what in our marriage makes you happy? What in our marriage makes you unhappy. What would you change. Usually, men are horrible when it comes to feelings. So, you'll have to ask him leading questions to get some answers.

RedRabbit

Bad thing to put him on the spot.

I don't want to give you a bad answer but my question is for him to explain the other three numbers in your rating system. In other words what is a 10 and why would he NOT think of his own wife at a 10!

Danielle

First.
My English is not very good.

Second.

You need to sit down with him and explain your wants and needs. Be very specific.

Tell him that you really need more of romance, candles, flowers, kisses, slow music, date-night. I don't know what you want.

Be romantic yourself and find out what he needs from you.

Take care, bye.

Missy154

I don't know is one the happiest or is 10??? Might want to ask. If 10 is the happiest I wouldn't worry about it, but if its not you two need to talk!

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