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My husband just informed me that he was married once before, but he doesn't know if it was annulled.?
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My husband just informed me that he was married once before, but he doesn't know if it was annulled.?

I tried several sites online, but they all want to charge 29 to 119 dollars for the search. I want an answer now....for free.


    




Kitty
It's not important enough for you to pay for the information? Hmmm.


Dani D
you just found this out?!


Dick Tater
nothing like getting it out before the wedding...jeez..pay the money..no matter who much it costs..

what a weiner..what else is he hiding?


abc
nice.....he failed to remember that he was married once before BEFORE he married you......lovely....what a catch! When do you get to find out how many kids he has, on your anniversary?


mjackie345
I think it's pretty important. I would shell out the $119.


Flower Girl
He may not be your husband if the first marriage was never annuled. How does he not know?


Kristi
If he says that he doesnt know, thats a lie, You know if your marriage was annuled or not


boomboom
First I'd kill him then he would not have to worry. Are you kidding me. He does not know?


bribri8785
The answer is...your husband's a liar. How the hell does he not know if it was anulled or not.? He better find out. Or risk going to jail for polygamy.


Riverman
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Does he know the county it was annulled. They will tell you. Good luck to you lady.


darkblue
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let ur husband pay for the search ...and charge him extra so you can treat urself after the shock!


kokopelli
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Well, well if he does not know then that probably means he is still married to somebody else, too. That makes you wife number two. There might be more. better do some fast research. You might turn up a dozen other wives.


Spring
Uh..... Tomorrow call the court house of the county he was living in, that's all I can think of.

Bad news is, if it wasn't you're not really married.


onegoodboy222
I would call an investigator who specializes in marital issues. He or she will guarantee their work and show you their source. Mind you it will be expensive.

But if you love your hubby and don't want to be a part of a bigamy issue, I would pay for it. And don't bother with a net search either. The guarantees are dubious, and you need good information!

Good luck


SweetBaby
Strange situation, but if it is important pay the money and find out!


Exotic Pink
i would be shelling out the money to find out. you need to get that stuff taken care of.


hopetohelpyou
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I would call the courthouse in whatever city/state he was married and ask them...actually he would probably have to be the one to do the calling. They will probably not talk to you about it.


mykitty61
Your husband is lying to you. Bull**** he doesn't know whether it was annulled or not. If he won't tell you the truth, let HIM pay the money to find out.


Cinnamon
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Your husband should pay for it out of his mad money. I would say you had better find out. Why should he/you not pay to find out just like we would have to. This is not a PI forum my dear. If it was not annulled, or a divorce granted...Your not married dear...


Mrs. CT
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How could he not tell you? I would be more concerned about that!! Can't you just call the county court house or county clerk where he was married and ask? Wouldn't they keep stuff like that on record? And how the heck do you not know if your previous marriage was annulled or not? He's a liar!


n3utr0n
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Call the county clerk in the county he was married in. Then while you're on hold.. BREAK YOUR FOOT OFF IN HIS IGNORANT INCONSIDERATE WORTHLESS A**!

You can do much better!


Jamilah W
Have your husband pay for the charges of the search. Since he fell to mention that he maybe still married (if not annulled). Hope you hear good news and can laugh about this in the future.


ShaypY
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ring his ex


A friend of Bill W
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Call the county clerk in the county he was married in. They should be able to tell you if an annulment has been granted to him and his previous bride. If not, Ricky is trouble, Lucy, and your marriage is void. Good luck and God bless.


rockstar mama
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apparently it doesnt bother you too much or you would be such a cheap skate and just pay the money. how does he NOT know? sounds to me it wasnt and he is just lying... uh... just like he never told you he was married before!


hrgirl1701
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Find out what county and state he was married/divorced in. You can check with the court house and they will usually only charge you about five dollars for the cost of mailing you a copy of the divorce decree since it is public record.

But I think the biggest issue is that...HEY! Your husband just NOW informed you he was married and doesn't know if it was annuled or not?!!!

A: What kind of a MORON doesn't know if his marriage is annulled or not? Didn't he go through legal channels and get a final decree as confirmation?! That would seem to be a logical first step, especially if he wanted to get married again.

B: WHY is he just telling you NOW?! As his wife, don't you think he should have shared that with you BEFORE he got married to you? That would seem to be on the list of 'Things I should know about you before we get married'.

I would be wary of this kind of man. He could be polygamist or something! Make SURE it is annulled. If you have to pay the money at these websites, then save up and pay it! In your position I would be super pissed, and if he is still legally married to this woman, I would seriously question whether or not you want to go through the trouble of becoming legally bound to a man who kept this information from you in the first place.


Simply Lovely
How much is it worth to you to find out.


fuzzykitty
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So find out where he got married the firsrt time , they normally file things either in a town hall or the County buildings.


Steve C
So he doesn't know if he's committing bigamy?

Hmmm indeed....


Grey Person
I'll bet you could call the court place that holds the records for wherever it was that he thinks he might have gotten married. Or divorced. Or call his wife! She'll tell you for free.





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