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Satanic Lily
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If you don't tell him...how are you supposed to get child support? At least the kids can have bank accounts if they want to go to college in the future. |
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Karleekinsss
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I think you are putting him in a more difficult situation for the future bynot telling him. And your baby will be in a hard situation as well. I'd say tell him, just because either way you are going to have to deal with hardships. It's basically choosing to deal with them now or put them off until later. |
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New Moon
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Tell him. He is the father and he has the right to know. |
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peaches6
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Tell him and file for child support for your children. At least get the money due you for your kids. He doesn't have to be a part of their life for you to be a good parent. He probably did you all a favor by leaving. Good Luck! |
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thatartistwin
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What do you mean don't tell him? Why is it OK for him to help you get pregnant then merrily skip off to enjoy his new free life while you pay for and raise two kids on your own and will not enjoy freedom from responsibility for the next 20 years? Divorce him and take him to court and get child support for those children. Creating human beings is not a game where you can toss your playing pieces in the center of the game board and go home if you are not enjoying yourself anymore. |
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dawn
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first off he prolly dosent deserve u or your baby take his *** to court and get child support he made them babies now he will have to pay for his babies and yes i do think u should tell him that u are prego with baby number 2 it takes 2 ppl to make a baby 2 ppl to raise a baby im going threw it now so i know good luck and keep me up to date |
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lilmiss90
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tell him... if he says he wants to make it work say F&^K YOU!!... get his @$$ for child support and do the best for your kids... you are all they need |
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George
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Tell him, he will know in a few months anyway. If you are pregnant, it will come out during the divorce. |
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angelbaby
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I would tell him since he is the father and does have the right to know.It still is your decision on what to do after you tell him. But first things first is take his a** to child support and make sure he pays up. You didn't make that child or the one on the way by yourself and he should of thought of being a regular 21 yr old before he decided to let his little swimmers loose. You are better off without him anyway since he doesn't seem mature enough to handle it. |
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juiicy_b
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you both can't turn back time and i think thats really selfish of him to drop you and the kid like that. he has responsibilities now regardless of what he wants.
i think he has a right as the father to know your pregnant with or without him wanting to be around. |
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Mindy B
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Well if he doesn't to be a father then I wouldn't tell him. I would just move on and give my kids a great life they deserve. |
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redhead27
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just let him move on with his life... you have already wasted enough time with this loser. What kind of person decides then don't want to be a father? Parenthood is the greatest thing of all I thought....
What an absolute a**hole!
I say pack his crap for him, and kick him the hell out. Theres no time or need for any man that can't decide whether he wants to be a father or not. Let him go have his fun and live his "life" like a 21 year old.
And in 10 years when he's tired of working at McDonalds and realizes he made a big mistake, make sure you remember what he did today. |
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Ching
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File for a divorce and take him for 1/2 of everthing and get child support to help you raise his children which he doesn't want to do. Dead beat dads make me sick! |
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Ruby
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Tell him. He'll feel betrayed and probably infuriated if you don't tell him. Even if he doesn't want anything to do with your daughter or unborn baby, he needs to know.
Best of luck! |
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Pickleheaded possum
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You will have to tell him anyway to get child support for the children. Sounds like he is just too immature. Some guys leave their wives & kids & think that they automatically will have a hot, red sports car,a cool apt. & lots more money. They wake up to the fact of having to live with Mommy again because they can't afford their child support & lawyer's fees. Birth control would have been a lot cheaper. |
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susie12345
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Well I think you should tell him. He should know that he has another child on the way. He may still want nothing to do with his family. But it's unfair to you and the baby if you don't tell him.
So he wants to be a "normal" 21 year old, even though he will have 2 children. Run if he wants, but that is the reality. This guy needs to wake up. His kids need him.
At least tell him that. Maybe he'll be back in 1 or 2 years, and want to be a part of their life. |
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IDK
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he has a right to know but u dont need to tell him. if he does not want anything to do with it i say dont tell him? but thats hard idk |
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Tenaj
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tell him so when your child is older you can put the blame on him for not being around. |
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