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My husband keeps making me remake his fruit drinks b/c he is being nit picky?


My husband won't drink store bought fruit drinks so everytime he wants a fruit drink I have to make it but this time he is being so nitpicky about it that I got so frustrated. He wanted bannanas, strawberry, and pineapple so I got all the fruit and then put ice in the blender after washing the fruit and then put it on chop and then he said he didn't like the little ice cubes so I had to liquify and then he said it didn't have enough pineapple so I put more pineapple in it and then it wasn't enough strawberryish for him and so on until finally he said it wasn't cold enough so i finally threw in some new ice cubes and he said it was "okay" after all the work I did!!! How can I get my husband to be more tolerant and understand that homemade drinks don't always taste the same exact way all the time?


    




~Charity~
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Quit making them for him and tell him that if he can do a better job then go ahead. You teach him how to treat you.


MC
Tell the lazy bytch to make his own drink! (you aren't his slave!)


basketcase88
He's an adult, isn't he? Have him make his own da**ed drinks in the future. I would make him 1 drink, and if he didn't like it, I'd show him where the blender, etc., is, and have him do it himself. You're his wife, not his waitress, for crying out loud!!!


Me
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he should be grateful that you're even MAKING him these drinks
D:<


Hai hai hai.
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Tell him to make his own damn drinks :P


♥ † ♠ ♣ MORECOWBELL
tell him to make them himself.. so he can do it RIGHT since he thinks he is so perfect... be nice about it but just say you don't want to make them anymore


paimimor
why dont you tell him to make his own drink? i mean seriously , whats REALLY goin on here???


Brittney Leigh
maybe you should be nice and tell him to do it himself, but be nice about it, you should maybe say, i want you to be happy but idk what you like show me how


Eat me!
tell him to get off his lazy butt and make it himself if he doesn't like the way you make it.


ME
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Well, first of all you're a better wife than I. I would have shoved that blender straight up his... nose.

Anyway, you should start writing down the exact recipe so you'll know what to do next time, and save yourself a lot of guesswork. And make a HUGE BATCH all at once and freeze individual portions in freezer bags. Then simply run it under warm water and pour into a glass when he wants one. Tada!


Eli O
If I were you I would tell him, you don't like it, make it yourself.


Liz
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You're the one who is always asking all those questions about how it's a husband's right to "discipline" his wife, and how a wife owes her husband "obedience" and all that other crap, aren't you.

Either practice what you preach, be your husband's slave and quit whining or grow up and grow a spine. Either way, give it a rest.


Herb
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Stop making his drinks and let him make his own.


littlebighorn
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wow


MD
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You should have made him make it himself



John S
I think you should have him shot, hung, drawn & quartered. Feed his body parts to your dog.



life is short,buy cute shoes ;-)
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Tell him that if you married him he better get off his @$$ and get his own d*** fruit drinks he sounds like a two year old "eh! yuck! i dont wike the big ice coobes! theres not enough pine appwle! iss too warm!! give me my nappy time!!" do you see where this is heading?


thexfilez
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Make the next one, if he doesn't like it, pour it on his head and say, "you lazy F, get off your lazy butt and make your own fruit juice."



ooooohhhhhhhh!!!!!
Stop being a doormat.


Tsunami
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its nice to catter to the man when he acts Like that i would hand him the stuff and say ok there you go go for it and walk away.


Agent T
Yeah, I think he's being nitpicky and in fact, your husband's behavior seems a bit over the top. If I were married, and acting that way toward my wife, I'd hope she would talk some sense into me. Hell, I'd be glad simply to have a wife who cared about me enough to make fruit drinks for me.

Maybe he's just being honest, but really, he needs to toughen up and be satisfied with what you made him, especially considering all the work you put into it. That's just my opinion. I mean, if you're asking him to evaluate the drinks you made him, then I can understand why he would be critical, but it sounds like he's just making a big deal out of this.

In fact, if you're tempted to leave him, I'm available. Just kidding of course.


cupiddimples@sbcglobal.net
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Tell him to do it himself-

Has he even said thanks!

You sound nice and trying to make him happy-
but if he keeps this up- tell him " you know where the store is, you know how to use a knife and a blender- maybe if you show me how you want it done I'll know how then." If he says no then no more you making it for him, if he says he'll show you- make him do all of it so that he can get an understanding of all that you go through because you trying to make him happy. Let him show you every step- I promise he won't make it perfect the first time unless he already works at Jamba Juice. Then once he does make it the way he likes- say "wow, that's going to be hard to remember and with everything else I have to do- laundry, dishes, breakfast, lunch, dinner, cleaning,
etc so and so-forth, maybe it's best if he makes his own fruit drinks for now- since he obviously likes them the way he makes them."


Danielle
first off tell your husband to get a grip, if your not doing the drinks up to his "high stadards" then leave the art of beverage making to him. if you want to get a good recipe then keep adding bits to the drink, and write everything down. when you get a good taste stick with it.
then follow the recipe in future, every drink will taste the same.


Only Mama Knows
I would just say, honey if you want your drink a certain way then you should make it yourself so you'll be happy.


*~*Angelica*~*
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Tell him to make his own juice maybe he won't be so ungrateful.


Perfect Chaos
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I would tell him if he doesn't like it then he can get off his *** and go make it himself. There is absolutely no reason he should treat you like you are his servant. Tell him to come up with a recipe that has the perfect amount for him and then you will make it that way. I would personally not put up with that.


SS
ask him to make his own!.. or.. Demand he makes you a drink and start being picky about it.. give him a tast of his own medicine..and later tell him that's how you feel when he complains about your drinks.


j
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your kidding i hope.. this man needs to start making his on drinks. the sooner the better. if you keep treating him like he is a child than he will act like one . come on who made you his mommy. oops don't know many mommies that would do this. if you cant stop this .. than make a gallon at a time with the same ingredients each time. some people sure take advantage of a nice person.


DarkBloodxxx
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show him how to make them so he can do it himself next time the way he likes them





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