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My husband likes to sleep under his own blankets and doesn't cuddle with me?

I don't get it...I shaved my legs and everything..how do I get him to share his blankets?? I'm cold!!


    




Curious1
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I saw your picture .... I find it unbelievable that he wouldn't want to cuddle with you.


currrlyn
Steal them, woman.


Keeping it Real
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Put your cold feets on his warm legs!!! That'll make him jump!


♥MissLady♥
have u talked to him about it?


cherry babe
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!pull it over you!!!


Aw the man!
lol does he have to?


toocoolringlady
Just steal them, like I do.


lysiamas
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Awwww! Tell him you're cold too and you like to be close to him at night because to you, he's those blankets. Maybe he'll get it


Alyssa Marie's mom
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lol, well, I don't cuddle with my hubby...he makes me hot, and not in the good way...I start to sweat if he hugs on me...damn woman hormones!!


starsson7
dont ever think to make him sleep on the sopha may be that what exactly looking for


sasha
you cant. youll have to look for a more affectionate husband


Life ain't always easy
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get naked and tell him that you need some "real heat"...Im sure he'll share that blanket!


killinhippies
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steal it when he is asleep or just get your own blanket.


Paul
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Tell him to share the blankets or you won't shave your legs anymore.


tomisohere
Something is wrong I went though that with my wife we are no longer together. I hope you can work it out but sounds like there is a problem in your relationship.


RINrin
mine too :-| i usually wait until he falls asleep then snug into his blanket with him. And not to his back tho; snug into his arms and hold him so he couldnt push away..that works sometimes :P


Moxie Crimefighter
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My husband and I each have our own "woobie"...it saves kicking, pulling, and pushing all night and we both sleep well...


sirranksarot
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Sleep in separate beds. Then you'll have your very own set of blankets and won't get cold. Also, a couple of nights of that and he'll cuddle with you.


~jenjen~
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Ha! I have my own favorite blanket and we sleep with separate blankets sometimes. I don't mind.

LMAO!! Thumbs up Munya Carr that made me laugh!!


TireBiter
It's a sleep thing! My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we do snuggle but once we start to fall asleep, we roll our seperate ways. =) For us, we get better sleep if we have our own space.

It may be that you husband needs some quality sleep. Maybe you hog the covers in your sleep? I'm sure if you ask him, he'll talk about it. Either way, stay warm!


faith d
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your husband sounds really selfish.


Say NO! to Shark Fin
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sometimes, People have their own habbis when sleeping...
Personally, I have no trouble sharing Blankets with my wife and so does she....
But She have this special Blankets that she use since forever and that blankets give her confort while sleeping. to bad that blankets are to small to be use for both of us... So I don't want to force her to move in with me... I just let her be...

But if you are rally want to share blankets... you got to talk it to your husbands... do not ever say that he should know this stuff... because he won't until you speak it out...
My suggestion are... talk to him... and if the Blankets are to small... by bigger one...

Happy Shearing


dulce_candygirl
Ask him why he doesn't share. Some couples don't like to cuddle though like for insistence me. I hate cuddling I start to get hot or uncomfortable. I also sometimes have trouble sharing because my hubby sleeps all wild and moves allot so I rather just not bother sometimes and get my own blanket. Either way this doesn't mean he doesn't love you. People are just diffrent.


♥ Trixie ♥
i love my husband but dont share my blankets either... nothing personal or bad, you just cant get all cocoon comfy with two people in the blanket.


Denise J
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Get your own set of blankets. Some people just like to have their own blankets. I don't really like to cuddle at night either. I think it comes from sleeping by myself growing up. I just sleep better that way. Does he cuddle when things are getting romantic?


Garrett N
get more flirty with him or
a bigger blanket ;D


lotus_elise_81
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My partner likes his own space in the bed, but he won't leave me out in the cold. Have you told your husband you're cold? If you have, and he doesn't care, that's a bit, well, cold (no pun intended).


bugsysue2
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Oh this is oh so true..we all have our ways and we like this then we hate this..then we find out we like it OUR way! Buy yourself the most awsome blankey and make it YOURS! When he wants to snuggle...let him get kicked down..maybe he will have for YOU!!!


Sophie
Don't take it personal, some people just like to sleep in their own space! Maybe try cuddling a half hour or more before it's time to sleep.


venistudio
You know sleeping is supposed to be exactly that "sleeping" why would you want to toss and turn and him toss and turn all night and more often be tired and not rested. If the man needs a good nights sleep then so be it. If you on the other hand want some time before "sleep" then you should go for it! Most people don't get enough sleep as it is. And I remember my grandparents used to sleep in separate beds. Your sleep is important.


Amy
My husband and I hadn't slept in the same bed for 45 years and that was our wedding night. That was the last time for sex also. Right after we were married he moved all his stuff down stairs and thats where hes lived all these years.





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