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mykrodot
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I would be concerned. He needs to understand the fantasy is NEVER the reality, and beware of opening doors in his marriage that he is bound to regret. I would tell him it's not an option, and if that is what he wants out of his marriage, he picked the wrong girl. Personally, an "open marriage" would be a deal breaker. |
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LIPPIE
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No, he just wants to sleep with other woman, and what better way to do that, then to have you with other men. Of course, that could only happen if you went along with it. |
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â?¥BELLAâ?¥
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Well this is the voice of experience tellling you to get to the bottom of it!! My husband came up and told me the same thing and when I started putting the screws to him, I found out that he had been sleeping with 2 other women and "thought it would be fair if I did the same thing." No he was guilty and figured if I did it, then when I sued him for divorce on grounds of adultery, then he could come back on me with the same thing and not have to pay alimony or keep the house up that I was going to still live in. My advise is do some homework even if it means hiring a private eye to watch him. But first you ned to see which of his habits change--time he is coming home, saying he is going out with friends, etc. Has he changed his clothing at all--underwear, cologne, etc? Do you homework and watch for little signs because no man wants his woman sleeping with another man unless he is spending time in the arms of another woman..Good luck to you and keep us posted. |
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Alrozz
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You should of slapped him Mia. He should not disrespect you like that...what is he crazy?
You tell him if he is going to talk like that he can pack his stuff and move out.
Let him have cold dinner. |
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killerB
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He wants you to do what he's doing but with women, or he may be initiating the swinger lifestyle; sorry you married a freak |
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Sounds like he's looking for you to reciprocate, to tell him it's okay for him to sleep with other women. Run as fast as you can! |
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pdanusis
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If your husband is saying this, he is sleeping with other women. That is wrong for him to suggest that. A marriage is between a husband and his wife, not for both of you to sleep with others. Is that really a marriage? |
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engineer46526
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This would be much easier to answer if you provided more details regarding the conversation you both had. There has to be a reason he just came out and said that. You know what i mean? |
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La La La, Elmo's World Keheh
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Yes you should. If your husband loves you, he would never let you be unfaithful to him.. even if he lets you. That's weird. |
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Rachel
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maybe he cheated on you with another girl and felt really guitly and wanted you guys to be even so you felt less guilty
idk ask him why none of us really know the right answer. but i'm guessing we probably have the right suggestions |
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kt
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Sounds to me like he wants to sleep with other women or already has. Don't ignore this. Talk to him about it and ask him exactly why he said that. Most men would not say this to their wife. |
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Ellie
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Well, if this was his idea of a joke...it was VERY offensive. What husband that loves and respects his wife would ever suggest such a thing? I don't know your situation, but in no way should you let this comment slip by. Ask him what he meant EXACTLY and WHY? You have the right to know and stand up for your self-respect. If he in fact meant this, then you don't need to be with someone like him. Go ahead, stand up for yourself. |
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Spindrift
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Your husband is cheating or considering cheating and he said that to assuage his guilt by doing an even-Steven. That is obvious. Now you need to tell him one, you have no intention of being with other guys and if that was what you wanted you would not have married him in the first place and two, if he is thinking of cheating or cheating he needs to tell you right now because you will find out one way or the other and if he is then you need to kick him out and separate for a few months until he makes his mind up whether he wants to be married or divorced. |
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Mz_P
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He either wants to or has been sleeping with other woman, OR he wants a threesome... OR, he has a fantasy of you being banged by another guy, while he watches... |
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Mystical Fire Mom 83
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oh idk, ask him why he said that. if he doesnt and hes quiet then yeah be worried |
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SameTime
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well you did good not to say anything digest it which you are doing and then figure out why he said that. |
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lil_babygirl_210
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what i think is that he asked u because he wants to be able to sleep with other people as well |
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Nakenzie 08
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I would have to consider whether or not he is already doing just the very same thing. Perhaps this is his way of not feeling guilty for what he may be already doing. You are supposed to be his only. Why would he want to share that precious part of you that is supposed to be for him only, with other men? |
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rose25
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uhmmm...he probably said that because he probably want you to do say the same thing=[..uhmm talk to him girl asap!! |
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♥Kristy H♥
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I do not think that is appropiate to say to you. Unless that was something that you both were discussing. I would have to talk to him and see why he feels that way... maybe he wants to sleep with someone else, or he thinks he is not satisfying you in some ways and maybe that would help. |
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Jim C
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Of course you should be concerned. There is no way this is an "innocent" statment. Men don't offer up something like this without some hidden agenda. At least, in my opinion... |
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the lady in red
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even he done lost his mind or he gone off the deep end. he might be involve with someone else an feel guilty about it are he may turn gay. either way u need to be worry. |
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damffool
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He wants space that you are not in. |
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student of life
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You say, "Wow, that's really awesome, but there's no way in Hell that I'll ever be okay with you sleeping around, but do you have anyone special in mind for me to be unfaithful with while you sit at home and picture our lovemaking?!"
Then see how he reacts.
Oh, I'm male and in most marriages he'd be crazy. |
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always b natural
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Fear is not going to help you. You have to get to the bottom of this comment and talk about it. Don't do something you don't want to, just to please someone else. If he wants to do it, he is already gone in his heart, his body just has not left your bed. |
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Yoshi
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Well, my fiance has told me that before but it was as a joke. Ask him what he really meant by that and why he would just randomly mention it. Also, ask him what goes through his mind and if he would ever think about cheating. Dont put it on him too hard though, or put him in the spot. Be calm and speak to him as if itwere a normal conversation. Dont show anger what so ever.
Good luck |
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trigger
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I would sleep with anyone I wanted to because he wouldn't be there any longer. |
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yaktur
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He wants an easy out of the marriage. It's a warning signal.
You should divorce him unless he takes back what he said. |
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hamdy
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is that really true well i did that with a girl on visual relationship and the reason is simple , it was missed up first when we get together she ignored me so i thought she is back to her ex bf so i keep going and i did somethings with other girls because i thought she left , i could not bring my self to tell her the truth so i explain to her that we better have open relationship it worked out u know , but i still told her the hole truth in the end , but well let me say that i never try that in reality because simple i can't do that fk it if someone put a hand on my wife i would kill him , but here some guys like to see there wife sleeping with other they think it is more sexual and stuff but they ignoring some part that they are dealing with a human have feelings some women do not like that some other like that so i think he ask u the question with wrong way he could just say it like that he would enjoy seen u sleeping with other man and he think that he would like it if u be more naughty because that turns him on u more , but will just ask him if he is sleeping with other women or not he will say no , he will can't bring him self to tell u that , well u be smart tell him that u did sleep with other guys without doing it , and be smart and ask him if u have sex with other guys u will have it with other girls if he say yes then that is the reason and it is easy for u to know if he is with other women or not spy on his calls see his mail his text phone messages who is his friends thats how u can know and if he do that just break the married up and see someone else take care |
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