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My husband punched me?!?

It was in his sleep but I am 9 months pregnant so it freaked me out. He was snoring so i was trying to push him over on his side and he just sat up and punched me and fell back asleep. I couldn't even wake him up to be like "WHAT THE HELL!!" Has this ever happened to anyone else? What's wrong with him? This isn't the first time he has been violent in his sleep. He's not the type to punch holes in walls or lash out violently while awake no matter how mad he is.

HOW WEIRD!
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i talked to him about it this morning, he felt bad but doesn't remember it. whoever said i made it up, what would be the point?
i just wanted to know if anyone else had experienced something simular

yeah he had been drinking, and i had my baby shower earlier that day. it was a pretty hectic day.


    




My alcoholic Libra wife
My wife hits me if i touch her while she is sleeping

I get horny sometimes in the middle of the night so i poke her in her back side to get her attention and it ticks her off for some odd reason.

HOW WEIRD is that!


..::..Lovin him..::..
wellu need to tell him what happened. my boyfriend punched my in my back while we were sleeping once, he didnt even realize he did it until i told him the next morning. we realized that it was because he had eating something wicked late @ night. might be the same thing with your husband.


soonhellhaveascar
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My girl said I kicked her, (she's not pregnant). When I woke she told me and asked did I have a bad dream, which I id I was fighting in my dream.
It's not his fault and there are Dr's he can see.


Omaha Mall Shooter
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Talk to Rihanna about it, she has experiance


sheloves_dablues
Had he been drinking?

My ex-husband was a heavy drinker and on the occasions I tried to physically roll him over to end the snoring, he lashed out at me, too. He never remembered it.


Courtney C
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i kick and react to some violent dreams with a jolt. i believe its normal but still if anything is harmful you should talk to a pro about it and try to resolve the issue.


Sr20rps13
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DONKEY PUNCH!


Poppy
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Since he was asleep he didn't know what he was doing. Next time just gently nudge him. Some people are prone to outbursts that aren't characteristic of themselves.


Jordan C
AHAHHA that's pretty funny and very weird... Tell him to go to a doctor and ask him, the doctor will most likely give him a sleep aid to keep him more heavily sedated during sleep or send him to a Specialist.


ady
maybe he in battle in his dream...

you should wear boxing equipment..just in case..


Franklin Clarence Mars
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i fight in my sleep. but then, knowing that i tend to sleep alone


Bill C
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My ex brother in law used to wake up violently lashing out. There is a 3 minute window, where you wake him up, he can be violent, and you can't do anything about it. my brother in law was a really great guy when he was awake, but wake him up, and his fists would be flying.

Your husband has what sounds like a mild version of a sleep disorder similar to my ex brother in laws. Seek help, a Doctor is a good start.


Vanessa D
well i would ask hem to go to the doctor it sound's like he has a sleeping disorder good luck


John Hightower
My wife of 24+ years has hit me twice while asleep.

She was married 8 years to a ***-hole; had 2 kids; and then divorced for 8 years before we met.

First hit was after during the first couple of years of our marriage - she just hit me in the face with her fist.

A few years later, she hit me between the legs while asleep.

At times, I can tell she is having bad dreams (about her former husband?) and she has taken those swings. But twice in 24+ years isn't too bad.

It just sounds like your husband was sound asleep and when you pushed him over, he just swung at you. Kinda like how a baby at 2 years will hit you if you try to take a toy away.

As long as he doesn't display any anger issues (like throwing things, verbal & physical abuse of you) while he is awake, I wouldn't worry about that hit. It probably will never happen again.


Marky S
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It looks like he knows the chain of authority


Mrs.Happy
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I have hit my husband in my sleep.My husband has told me I have yelled at him and kicked him out of the bed for no reason, and I have had full conversations with him and I have no memory of, because i was asleep. I would suggest going to the Doctor and he can recommend a sleep clinic to help out.

Oh, and I hope your baby doesn't or isn't going to sleep in your guy's bed, that would be a BAD idea!


needchocolate
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Have him see a therapist and since you're pregnant, I suggest you don't sleep near each other.


Blondie
Sleep in another room!!! You need to get him to his doctor! If he SAT up, it sounds like he could have been awake. How do you know he was not awake? Did he have any memory of these events? He might be in denial of his hostile feelings toward you. This could be a Passive-Aggressive Personality disorder. Being "asleep" is a good excuse and has been used as a defense in the past by murderers. You do not want to be strangled or murdered "in his sleep" so you need to get professional help right away. You did not say where you were punched but I hope the baby is okay. I suggest sleeping in a separate room and just blame it on his snoring. Get him to the doctor for the snoring and alleged "sleep waking" dangerous type behavior. His hostile feelings are being repressed and coming out in his dreams and light sleep-wake period....He could use some therapy. Find out what he is dreaming about...I'll bet he will deny any memory. Get help before it is too late. It is not normal or alright for a man to punch you at any time. The physical act of punching someone would be enough to wake him up if he was not already awake. I would be wary of him. Pay more attention to how he is doing & feeling. He may be having negative and stressful thoughts about becoming a father. Still waters run deep.


Pessimistic09
My girlfriend was asleep with her back to me, so I laid in bed next to her and wrapped my arm around her. The second I did, I saw her wind her head forward which kind of confused me for a second. I did not have time to react before she launched her head back and slammed me in the face. She did not wake up at all. Unlike you though I woke her up and was like "WHAT THE HELL". Turned out she was having a nightmare about someone chasing her, and the second I put my arm around her she said someone was wrapping there arms trying to grab her in her dream. So I suppose its more common then one would think.

P.S I hope he did not hurt you.


jenni p
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wow that's bad.. He's probably too stressed or tired may be.. and no.. never happened! you should probably take to a Doc.! they might be able to do something about it...


Amy W
my husband had a VERY frequent habit of punching me on top of the head and pulling my hair. I would be in a dead sleep when I would get nailed.He says he is asleep and not aware he is doing it but it happens way too often. So i started punching him back. After he got punched 2 or 3 times it all stopped. He has never done it again. So you tell me if he was doing it on purpose. I wouldn't think so but it seems like it.


unschoolymomma
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My Husband punches and kicks in his sleep. I kicked him right out of bed after he rolled over and hit my arm. He felt so very bad. I still said I couldn't have that.

What happens if he had hit your tummy or something. He is probably just have nightmares or dreams. I would suggest putting something between you two. Maybe one of those large body pillows. He may be having stress over the baby coming? Could be causing him to have dreams.

My Husband is a very gentle sweet guy, but he has horrible dreams at night.


plieswfey239
sometimes people do things in their sleep they dont even noe there doing its called night terrors its a bad dream only you dont remember it....during night terrors u can experience getting up out of the bed, screaming kicking, or even eating while sleeping but majority of the time its children who experience night terrors...or mayb hes jus a rough sleeper i dont know..but if he has no re collection of doing it, it wuz probably one...im sure he didnt mean it
good luck wit ur pregnacy


Jazlyn J
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HE WAS PROBABLY HALF A SLEEP AT THE TIME AND HE DIDN'T KNOW WAT THE HELL HE WAS DOING I DON'T THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE IT PERSONAL


missmojo78
Most likely he suffers from a sleep disorder. My husband still has night terrors and lashes outin his sleep from time to time. Maybe you should have separate beds until the baby comes just to be careful.


Just_amazing_11
Tell him what he is doing in is sleep. He might be having nightmares. Ask a specialist and see what they think of it.


thashana
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Am not married but this is so strange and unlikely to happen.Did you confront him about it or no if i were you i would have to let him know what he did to me.


Keely Rae
mannn.
are you kidding?

hahahahahahaha.

uhm, have you talked to him or is he still asleep?!

hahahaha.


Emma
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he has inner issues that he is not talking about, my fiancee grinded his teeth because of issues after we talked about it, he stopped, so maybe sit down and talk about something that might be bothering him inside.


prankishmelody
My fiance started to choke me in his sleep one time. Thankfully, I woke him up before he really got started! It was really scary though.





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