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One more for the road....hiccup
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It sure sounds like it...sorry |
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Joe P
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Either he is cheating or thinks you are. |
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Buttercup
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Bad sign. Either he doesn't trust you or he doesn't trust himself.
Better get couples' counseling. |
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Anji
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I would be suspicious!
VERY suspicious! |
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hecticme2003
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Maybe maybe not -- maybe he has a symptom of an STD that he has questions about. You know quite a few std's can stay dormant for years. You can have HIV or AIDS for 10 years without symptoms ! Herpies you can have for up to 7 -- don't get scared ask him calmly and sweetly with out freaking out on him why do you feel you need to be checked. Do you think I've been unfaithful ; have you been ; do you have symptoms ; does an ex have symptoms ; whats going on. Keep a level head you are always guarnteed to find out more this way. |
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Lee-OzHair
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not necessarily
there could be a number of reasons why he would do this
some things take years to come out in your system like chlamydia
I think it's odd that he'd openly tell you he's having a check for STD's.
Maybe he's got a medical problem and he's talked it over with a mate and the mate has jumped to the conclusion that it's an std.
Don't lose your head, talk to him, and ask him calmly "Why do you think you need to be checked for an std" |
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Goodie66
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To answer yes or no would be too easy. Think of the silver lining on this possible black cloud. "IF" he is cheating on you or has atleast he's thinking about the saftey issues and is concerned. That fact that he told you may be his guilty way of confessing but in an effort to difuse the situation in his mild mannered way he's telling you "honey I made a mistake but I don't want this to get out of control" Obviously he's concerned about his health and yours for that matter if he has been unfaithful, he's not sure about whom ever he slept with and has serious concerns. Give him time, and let him come out on his own. Take heart that it may be best that you take a test yourself, and let him perhaps give him the comfort of knowing that you have your families best interest at heart by keeping a healthy body, mind and spirit! Choose to difuse and don't "Accuse"! |
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brookiepoo
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just because he is getting an STD check doesnt mean he is cheating has he shown signs of it?
dont go fighting with him because ppl here on Answers are telling you he is cheating!!!
he could think you are because you are getting checked... have you told him that women are suppose to get a PAP once a year and they check for STDs with or with out your premission.. its just procedure.... just chill out and dont start yelling at him... just start paying more close attention and ask for the results.. |
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p e a c e (:
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Yes he is absoloutly cheating on you.... to me there is no need to randomly get an STD check unless you have a reason too
if it comes back positive leave!! |
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Not for sure! He could be curious to see if he has something from before you were married. There are lots of STD's out there that don't have symptoms until they get really bad. It's his body. He's trying to take care of himself. It's better that he gets checked and finds out than if he leaves it and gives it to you or it kills him or something like that.
Ask him why he thinks he needed an STD check. If he can't give you an answer (like getting checked for things that he may have caught before you were married) then he may have cheated on you.
On the good side: I doubt he is still cheating with that person if he's checking himself for diseases because of them. |
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Friend b
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DUH!!!!!!! or he thinks you have and doesn't believe you when you say everything is fine!!! |
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JERDAWG
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fortunately, std's aren't airborne. you hear so much these days about getting checked for std's that some people think it's a part of a regular exam. better safe than sorry! |
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verdugo
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Verdugo: He is insecure of you.. And you are the cheater. |
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~nicole~
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Could be. Either that or he feels you are cheating on him. |
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G.
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I'd say that certainly is not a good sign... why is it only HE is getting checked- he's obviously not worried that you may have any? Have you looked at his "package" recently? everything look alright down there...? |
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goosy719
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Tough call. I would have to say yes unless he is thinking that you have been unfaithful. Maybe he has something going on down there and the only thing that makes any sence is an STD. Being that he was pretty open about it to you in the first place makes me think that he is just getting checked for peace of mind. |
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Jillian
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Why else would he be getting checked for STD's if he's not sleeping with someone else? |
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Callie
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Um...Doh! Do you really need an answer to this? If I were you I would be getting myself checked to make sure he hasn't brought you home anything. |
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Spindrift
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It certainly sounds like it; this sudden need to get checked for that and his reluctance to tell you...I would say yes, he is cheating on you. |
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Minniemuu
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Ohhhh yeah he is cheating on you!!!!!!! If you two are married and you have never cheated then why do he want to go get checked? I would be scared as h*ll. You need to go get checked........ NOW!!!!!! And when he get back you need to kick his a**!!!! And you should of put up a big fuss, I would.
Also he may think that you are cheating on him. You two really need to talk about this. This could be life or death!!!! Good luck! |
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AutieLynn
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Either he is or thinks you might be. That is very suspicious behavior. Keep one eye open! |
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Mrs.Lucero
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He probably is! You should confront him. |
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rkrell
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Unfortunately I would have to say yes. :( |
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