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My husband said......?

When I asked my husband how he felt about me he answer was

"I don't know how to put it into words and you know that"

I asked him to just try and he responded by saying

"you feel like home to me"

I took it as a good thing but them after awhile I started think about it and now I am not so sure if it is a good thing or not. What do you think?

Men --- Is this a good answer?
Women --- Would you want your husband to say that about you?


    




attheworldsend0
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I don't think you should try and find an interpretation of your husbands words from complete strangers on the internet.

Rather, I would suggest going back to your husband and asking him to elaborate. And perhaps have a deep conversation on whatever topic it is that is causing you to seek strangers opinions on your husbands words.

What he said can be taken a number of ways by a number of people. It is how *you* take it that makes the difference.


marypoppins
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sounds romantic.

like they say: there's no place like home.


Anthony G
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It means he feels comfortable and secure with you.

Not everybody has a way with words, so don't pressure him because you're feeling insecure.


Magic 8 Ball: The Witch is In
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I'd be completely okay with that answer and very satisfied.


littleevilzombiegirl
It is a very good response =)

and very sweet of him to say.


Salty but Sweet
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Home is where the heart is...so yea, I would take it as a compliment. He's comfortable with you. You are his friend and his partner in crime! :o)


Beatngu
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Home is where the heart is honey! I'd say is was a pretty sweet answer... But, if you have to question it... how do you feel about him... I mean how would you describe it?!


sirmarshall7
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I think it's a great/sincere answer. My husband feels like home to me-- you know, the place you feel most comfortable. The place where you can be yourself without any reservations. The place you can't wait to get to when you've had a bad day or when you've had an extremely good day. You are that place for him. I would DEFINITELY want my husband to say that about me. I consider that a HUGE compliment!! Kudos to your husband!


JC
This is incredibly sweet.

That said, stop trying to analyze your marriage into oblivion. Some men simply dont have the capacity to verbalize themselves emotionally.


Lizbeth
I have had a man say this to me. When I questioned him later, it so happens he meant it as a high compliment. I took it that way and didn't question is any further.


Stephen L
I think it's a very charming answer, and you should feel very happy about it. Let me guess: you're the kind of person who has a tendency to over-think things, aren't you?


ndnqt1966
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I would take it as a compliment....He feels at ease with you and you are his safe place to land when he is not having a good day...


Its Me!
i think i wouldn't care if my husband said that to me, it means that he is comfortable with you, that your the only place he wants to be.
good luck


Jenny B
I would say that it was meant as a very nice answer. Home is where we feel happy, safe, and secure.


Scott R
Sure that's a good answer. That's very sweet and romantic, in my opinion.


Quasimodo
"Home" equals security and comfort.

You can take it from there. Good or bad.


Megg
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I'd take that as a good thing. You feel safe and comfortable to him like home does. Home is where is the heart is. :) Give your guy a break and stop over thinking things. Remember a guy always returns to 'home' at the end of the day.


catsangel_707
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Think about what home means; strength, security, foundation, comfort, peace, inner calm, familiar, love, family.
There`s your answer.
Quite a compliment.


i aint sick...
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home is a place where a person can be "him", act the way he wishes to , no restrictions no putting up of faces !!
it's a universal symbol for security, the place where one would love to come when he has faced all the wrath from the world outside !

that was a HUGE compliment, don't be silly and try and find flaws into this phrase..
he adores you!

best of luck darlin.


˚hɑяd çɑηdʮ˚
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That's really sweet <3


Shlane
yes i do! think about it, how does home feel like? when you're at work and it's almost 5 o'clock where do you want to go? where do you feel most comfortable.

Yes i would!


Cherri
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Only your husband can explain his answer.


applesnapple2008
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Definitely a good answer. You make him feel comfortable and happy and loved. I think thats a great answer for him to have given you.


GA Girl
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Awww, I like it. I think it sounds like he values his time spent with you. Like you are his rock, and he values you. I would definitely take it as a compliment.


lovejudy76
yes becouse thire is no place like home, he is saying he feels at homy home is a happy place, it is a good thing


I&#39;m sorry Dave.♥
Aw. That's cute. :] That's a good answer!


Kara
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at the end of the day, i want nothing more then the safety and comfort of my home. I crave it. It's my favorite place to be. it's my sanctuary. I spend alot of time there and would prefer to be no where else. I's familiar, known, comfy and mose importantly mine..

I think it's a good thing.

unless he said it sarcasticly, or in a tone// But i'm sure he looked you in your eye adn said it not just with his lips but his heart.

we as women tend to think to much. Men are I mean what i say as what i say. women are i mean what i say as something else. take him for what he said not what you want it to mean because when he first said it, it was good. keep it as something good. if you go after him to elaborate, that will be another reason for him to not say anything again cause he dont want to come back to this as a conversation that you thought to death and picked apart.

I know. i use to do it all the time.

it's a good thing


Guys POV
I understand that.. similar feeling...

Freud would have a different version...


chinamigarden
He probably means that you are as big as a house.

Just kidding. Comfort and belonging somewhere is what I think of when I hear the word home. He must feel like he belongs with you and is comfortable being with you. For a guy who is not good at putting it into words, I would say he did a good job.

Just one guys opinion.


Packersgrrl0923
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Being a wife myself, I would be flattered with that answer. I work 50 hours a week, have a toddler, and go to school. But I always try to make dinner 5 nights a week, and have his laundry done. For him to tell me that I feel like home would make me happy.

However, I would never feel the need to ask my husband how he feels about me. I worry a little that you need to ask. Maybe you should evaluate where that question is coming from and why you need to ask??





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