My husband say he wants to be single again. What do you think he means by that?

hot_tamale962

He wants a divorce.

curmudgeon

sorry to say it means he is interested in someone else.

its ciindy â™¥

maybe he needs more breathing space.
no what I mean?

Romi

One of his frustrations.
Sit back, relax and talk to him. Stop aprehending.
Such stupid remarks dont mean or lead to divorces. These are momentary frustrations unless you have bigger problems in your marriage !
Talk - talk - talk !!
It will be all fine ! Dont worry too much !

Brent Y

Your marriage is over.

ddaniel_dr

Hi,

It's definitely not simple and to say I or any other people trying to answer your question know the answer would be foolish.

I would work on your communication with him and try to find out how this relationship is not meeting his needs.

Most often a partner's needs are not being met (whether those needs are justified or not is a different story). Those needs must be explored and communicated. Working as a team is the only way you will be able to resolve this.

Get professional help if you have to.

Danielle

Ah, everyone gets this at least once in their marriage. It means it's time to shell out the big bucks for couple's counseling, couple's yoga, and a couple's cruise. We're still paying for it, but it was worth it- we now have an adorable baby boy.

jennniferlea

Were you arguing when he said it? If so, he said it to hurt you and probably didn't mean it. If you have been having problems for a long time that you can't resolve, then he may want a divorce.

danisadgrl

Maybe he just misses the feeling (independence) he got from being single. Try letting him take some time away from you and see what happens.

Resident Heretic

He wants to date other women and he can't do that while he's married.

robert w

it means u need to change pass words and close out credit cards, bank accounts etc.....
retain a lawyer. then ask if he wants to go to marraige counseling or talk to ur lawyer.

Quincetella

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flacodf

that means that he wants to get rid of you, he is probably cheating.

whynogo2

he probably means that he misses the kind of life that he had when he was single. it sounds like you need to give him some space and ask him what exactly he needs from you. when you got married, you two were very fulfilled. i'm sure that there are some things he could do differently too. figure out what yalls problems are and then try your best to work them out!!!

rhino

Hate to be the one to tell you this, but its a nice way of saying he no longer loves you and wants a divorce. My prayers and best wishes to you.

eddie9551

Your marriage is over

surreal_survivor

prob that he wants a divorce. ask HIM what he means by that. if he is honest, he will tell you.

misskissme4eva

is this a trick question or a question out of denial...? He's probably already cheating on you ,sorry girl!

natasha

That he wants to be single again. Maybe he's bored. I dont think its good news for you whatever the reason is though.

pistonclash

He wants to get a divorce...maybe?

Erik L

If he said it while you two were fighting, he may have just been mad, and said something he didn't mean. It's kind of scary the things adults say in arguments that go too far that they don't even mean. Sit down with him and talk with him about it. Good luck.

Richard F

He is guilty of the "grass is always greener" problem that attacks all men at one time or another.

Suggest to him that he gets counseling. The grass might "look" greener on the other side of the fence, but once there, same ole weeds, brown spots, etc.

The grass is not greener on the other side. I hope he realizes that before he makes a big mistake.

Best of luck to you.

!~!ASHLEY!~!

Exactly what it sounds like, he wants to be single. If you have your doubts then ask him about it and see what he really means.

***$~!Your Mom!~$***

Ok now if you have kids don't just runaway with them no matter what, Now you know what do? Talking about it. if thats dose"t work then sorry it"s over Widh you luck

valgalallen

you should give more reason as to why he wants to be single....

Hhh H

he wants to go seperate ways for a while to try something that is new. im sorry.

wmanderson6

He needs space. Maybe he was not ready to be married. Give him his space tryitn to make him stay will only make it worse. I know your going to hurt but would you rather for him to leave or cheat on you? Good Luck

Vic

Did you ask him to elaborate? I mean, what is it exactly that he misses about being single? Is it going out? Or going with the guys? Or worse... with other women? If you haven't been married that long, maybe he's still trying to adjust. You need to talk with him more about it. No yelling, no accusations, no tears, crying or pouting. A real heart to heart conversation. Hopefully he just chose the wrong words. Good luck. I hope everything works out.

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