My husband says that a woman's place is in the home specificaly the kitchen?

AsianPersuasion :)

I think your husband is a chauvinistic pig and needs to wake up and get over himself!!!

greeneyes_bjb

Well that's what happens when you willingly marry a moron!

Musica

I think your husband needs to come into the 21st century. A woman's "place" is anywhere she wants it to be!

Ahni

He sounds very old-fashioned. Are you comfortable being a homemaker? Many women are, and there's nothing wrong with that. However, if you're not, you may have to have a little chat with him about how it's 2007, not 1907, and some women want to do other things than cook. Good luck, honey!

sexy joker

i hate men that think like this, if your not old fashioned then you married the wrong guy

farleyboy

You hot? Want a new husband?

Valerie S

He needs a good slap or some kind of wake up call!

Melissa

tell him this is 2007, not 1947

chowderboxallnite

How did you possibly marry a guy without knowing he thought that?

Did he spend the entire dating period lying to you?

Get a divorce if he tries to foce you.

ladydi_1987

If that were true, my husband would have already died of food poisoning.

milepost211

If thats his view, then tell him that you will run the household, and that you expect him to hand over every paycheck to you. And that you will pay the bills, buy the groceries, and give him a moderate allowance if anything is left afterwards.

The Rat

brownbug78

You've put this question in the section "Marriage & Divorce" - I know which one of these I'd go for if I was you!!

jeanimus

Oh lordy lordy what an old fashioned idea! does he in return for this, do all the heavy lifting, carry the shopping, provide all the money, do the garden, fix everything around the house, take over the discipline of the kids, investigate bumps in the night, and give you a darn good rodgering every week like a real man should? I bet not. Rebel, my dear.

mable3691214

If a woman's place is in the home than a man's place is at work. If he is not working at least 80 hrs a week he needs to get another job. Otherwise, tell him to shut his trap.

caliguy_30

Your husband probably criticize Mulsims for treating their wives like crap ... ask him how his opinion differs from theirs.
This is the 21 century your husband needs to evolve.

monkeyface

I think when he approaches you in the bedroom you should remind him that your place is in the kitchen.
He will soon change his mind.

fluke

he has forgotten the bedroom.

Tom M

This guy is a male chauvinist pig, as a man I totally disagree with his attitude.
Whenever I am with my young lady we do everything together including cooking and cleaning.
When we aren't together obviously I have to do it myself.
I think he is a right idiot personally, and before certain members of the male gender start, no I am not under the thumb just have more respect for women than those chauvinistic pigs.
Try talking to him although I don't think you will change his attitude, but I will wish you good luck.

I think he can have his opinion - doesn't mean you have to agree with it, or do it.

He must be older, most men these days know that most women don't cook. And let me tell you, if my husband said that my place was in the kitchen, his bed would be the couch!

Tell your husband to grow up and cook his own damn dinner, and while he's at it he can make something for you, too!! :)

WHO am i?

i agree

Bradley M

Ask what's her name Rodham-Clinton where her place is!
Or Marilyn Albright, Diane Spencer, etc., etc.

the_tent_man36

And where exactly is you husband from, and how old is he?

mopjky

That's his opinion. I'm sure you have yours. Now you both need to get together and discuss it. Hopefully it won't cause too many problems with your relationship,but you owe it to each other to get ti out in the open and not let it grow into a major problem.

Older&Wiser

Walk away; you deserve better. Either he believes it - in which case you're in a hopeless situation or else he is winding you up, in which case he's not nice.

Practically, if you can't/don't want to walk away, be strong - refuse to be the one in the kitchen. Follow your heart and your dreams, into the kitchen only if they lead you there!

KLM

My fiance' calls those kind of people chauvinist's. . . You should tell your husband where his place is! and thats by your side in the kitchen helping!

Good Luck

JAMES A

tell him to get lost babe x

mahi

No, he is absolutely wrong. If a woman makes a determination then she can join any field whichever she want to

â™¥

haha my boyfriend says the same thing. i just tell him that he has to pay for everything and drive me places, cause thats the mans job.

southside

It sounds like he is to lazy to cook meals so he is assigning that job to you. I do disagree with him my wife is the one working and I get to be the stay at home dad for now.

bringmesunshine is back!!!

That's why divorce was invented.

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