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My husband seems to lie a lot... help its important?
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So i got married and as soon as i moved in all sorts of details in our conversations became obviously untrue. First i don't drink a lot, major understatement. went to jail on night because he previously had a dui and no tolerance. oops im horribly against drinking and driving and he continually does it. He had a surgery for a hernia and at the same time thought at age 40 he'd have a vasectomy, going into a new marriage he went back and forth on it. After the surgery he said he didn't know if he got the vasectomy. Duh... not doctor is gonna touch him without him knowing. So to recover from this BS he went and had some testing done to include Doing his thing in a cup and was told one side didn't take??? Im not good at monthly let downs and I'm thinking this is horribly cruel to tell anyone. What should i do?
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one side of the vasectomy. there is still a 25% chance of conceiving. I've known the family for years, just a little overwhelmed with what i've learned 4 months into a new marrige.
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Sue C
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IF he did have a vasectomy & "one side" took, the other side didn't, I sure would go back to that Dr. & tell him to "do the job rite"!!! I never heard of such a thing! You as his wife can very easily find out from the Dr. yourself. This is exactly what I would do anyway. HOW could a vasectomy only "work" on one side but not the other?! Something is just not rite w/this whole story. But, IF I did NOT want children, I would for SURE call the Dr. office & find out for myself just what IS the truth & what is NOT the truth. I would take NO chances. IF he DID have this operation, you too surely would have known it. My ex husband had it done too, & believe me, YOU would be well aware of it. Just from the swelling & the bruising that they are left w/after the surgery is certainly a "dead giveaway" of just what was done. But, I would certainly hope the Dr. would be responsible to make sure it DID WORK & if not, he would make sure he did it again so it did in fact work. I would get to the bottom of it myself so I'd know for sure. IF he is a "pathological liar", you're going to have to make up your mind IF you want to live w/this kind of a person for the rest of your life or if it's honestly worth it all in the long run. Only you can decide on that. I do wish you the best...:) |
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• Leo •
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Don't trust him...you need to find another, man. |
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DILLON
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He is either a chronic liar or thinks that you are incredibly stupid. If you don't like that then dump him and move on. |
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Clementine
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stay if you want to spend the rest of your life with a compulsive liar. who knows what else he lies about |
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Al B
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there are several things that come to mind. First, you didn't know him well enough before getting married. You can try counseling to see if that helps but I suspect that eventually you will end up with a divorce The best thing to do now is to do things which will raise your own self esteem by doing things which make you feel better about yourself. Hope things work out better with the next guy once you dump this loser!! |
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Lane
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What a storyteller! You will spend the rest of your relationship checking up on these and other lies and stories - and when you call him on them he will add more lies and stories and so on and so on. It will be really emotionally draining. Especially when you can't trust him. I wish you luck and hope things really get better. |
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yup
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Hes a liar stay or divorce only thing you can do! |
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unsung hero
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weird...i wouldn't stay in a relationship like that. He sounds like a compulsive liar. |
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ah-ight
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when you get tired of asking yourself these types of questions, pondering over the "what if"s and the "maybe he's...", you'll know what to do. |
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redhead27
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I'm a bit confused on what you wrote... what does it mean one side didn't take?? |
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its likely i will say douche bag
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Screen your husband better during the interview process next time..
Now all you can do is learn to tell when he is lying and call him on it. |
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