My husband threatened me..?

Jasper+Edward Dazzle Me

That's really tricky, because your conscience always wants to give him one more chance, but you can't keep taking this crap!

Give him ONE last chance to prove himself, and if he can't, try to get him to address his alcohol problem (alcoholics anonymous?) and then figure out whether you're going to support him or leave him. If he's turning violent, respect yours and your children's safety and go with your head held high!

:-) Good Luck! x x x

Suprise

I suggest you leave until he makes a decision, you and the kids or the alcohol..

justforlife

NO!!! dont lower your standards... dump that loser like a sack of potatoes... can someone say divorce??

Jennifer W

say bye

PrettyMe â™¥

Divorce

Hope my face gives you hell

Divorce the hell out of him. Call the po pos!

#1 Lucy Fan

Tell him that he needs to get help or you're going to leave. You're putting your safety and the safety of your children at risk.

kody m

fuc that ******

cestone

have an intervention. tell him he needs to get sober or youre gone. one threat is enough.

Brittain!

Divorce his drunk ***.

simplylovelrykae

get out of there now baby

you should tell him to go to rehab and if he doesnt then leave him and take him to court and file charges!!

Chris Angel

try to ask him to go for counsiling it works. Also tell him do it for the kids they love you and i do to so please listen.

Diablo

it depends on ur feelings but my opinion is seperation.

fenxder

Get him psychiatric help. Next time call the police if he threatens you

Aaron

Divorce.

Ravenberri

Ask him to go to AA, to save your relationship, for his health, and possibly go to couples councelling.

Tell him you can't live with his behavior.

If he says he won't, then leave, and tell him if he starts going to AA or councelling with you, then you will consider comming back only after 6 months or so.

FOLLOW THROUGH if you tell him anything though, otherwise you just make empty threats.

Gnurse

1) He may not even remember the incident if he was that drunk
2) Is an apology going to fix the problem?
3) He will not stop drinking unless HE wants to. It will most likely not happen until he hits rock bottom, if it ever does happen.
4) Remember that he is your children's male role model, and his behavior is shaping the way that they will see a normal adult male. You daughters will think it is normal to live with a man who drinks till he vomits, and stays out all night. Your sons will think that is how they are supposed to act as men.

POO

no, you should not put up with this.
you need to show him you're serious, he's your husband, he's meant to be looking after you

as harsh as this sounds, the kids seeing their father like this will have a major impact too.

nip this in the bud fast
give him a fright and leave for a couple of days.

there's only so much you can take but you need to think of your children.

you both deserve more.
offer him your help and support but you can't make him cut back or stop the alcohol on your own. he needs to.

good luck!

pinkish

Hi, I say get out now. Most alcoholics never change. My mother has been married to my step father for 20 years. She will leave & he will stop drinking & a few months later is is drinking again. Please since your kids are way younger than me get them out. I had a awful childhood b/c of this man. Please be stronger than my mother.

bubphat84

if he keeps drinking dont put up with it! or try to get him to go to rehab or you could ask him why hes been drinking depreshion?

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* GET rid of him , Tell his kids mother ! Tell the police it isnt right to hit a oman and ALSO rEMEMBEr there are KIDs involved !!!

I would draw the line NOW !!! *

bob glaub

Lifes is to short...GO

Smileâ™¥

Get him help.
If that doesn't work, divorce.
What kind of idiot puts up with this for 2 years?

Queen of HB

Unfortunately he is the only one that can decide to quite drinking. Leaving him may be the catalyst he needs to change his behavior, but it may not, it depends on what is most important to him. Please don't stay in this abusive situation, leave now before he hurts or kills you or the kids.

oh lala

You should talked to him..and don't put your kids in danger.

imarockstar

well, first of all it sounds that he needs help at this point. you need to intervene & let him know if he doesn't get help for his drinking that he will need to find a new place to live, that you can't take anymore of this. Tell him to get treatment, or you're gone, and it would be good if you meant it.

matrixneo37

You need to put his *** into check. "Don't ever F*** try to hit me like that ever again." make it clear that if he does it's over. Trust me he will think twice next time, and put down your foot on the drinking.

BusyOldBag

Yes, you are right. You should have stayed away until he decided to change. The road he is going is long and hard. The life he is leading will take you under with him. I pray he will straighten up.
Good Luck!

lovergal143

no you shouldn't divorce him. when he is sober. and not busy during the day. sit down and have a quiet chat with him. it will be hard for him to stop drinking but he should at least try and cut down. tell him that there are kids in the house and he shouldn't have acted that way. i can only tell you more depending on how he reacts. maybe he has friends that you can talk to to try and stop him acting like this. i can only tell you more depending on how he reacts. i hope i help x

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