My husband told me to die slow?

kangas_29

say die fast

anissia

divorce time

oh my god, thats so heart breaking :(
if he treats you like that you should find someone new...
it may take months or even years to get over him but its for the best

Mr.C

Tell him" I dont want to die alone".
You love him, ask him, if he still loves you. Dont let those 9 and a
half years go by, without, letting him know you still love him.
Call him back and see what he is going to do about you and him.
Get with him and talk this over.

Saila Saccadicâ„¢

Forget that loser..
You can do better.

SmartyPants

Ok, something is fishy about you. I just read some of the other questions that you've asked.

One month ago you wanted to know how to get a boy to like you.You claimed that you walked up to him and told him you liked him because it was "love at first sight".

Two months ago you said that your fiance of 9 years was cheating on you.

Now, your HUSBAND (supposedly) and you have broken up, and he hates you?? Well damn! I think I'd hate you, too, if you were my wife and running around having love at first sight with other BOYS!!

Grow up, lady!

Tree

Be thankful that you've split up. I don't know all the stuff behind your break up. It may not be all his fault, but a real man (or woman) gets milk for his/her daughter when it's needed. You're in for a rough couple years probably, but that's so much better than a rough rest of your life.

~em~

Well he has NO right to treat you this way! Especially when you two share a daughter!

Was he DRUNK?

I understand that you are/were in love with him, but you deserve better... big time!

Shelby N

Divorce his *** and never ask for anything from him. There is always a way to make it on your own.

He sounds like a horrible person that your daughter shouldn't be around.

Deber

He is angry and he said something that would guarantee your feelings will be hurt. It hurt you didn't it? It stuck in your mind and it's bothering you...mission accomplished. Don't call him for milk or anything trivial. Take some time away from the relationship and see how it feels in a few weeks.

Sues

My heart goes out to you.
It's a very hard situation when you first break up emotions are running wild and things are said that really shouldn't be said and most probably not meant.
Try to forget what he has said..I know, easier said than done. He is angry, frustrated and more than likely lonely and lost without you and your daughter.
He was just trying to hurt you and has succeeded - try and not let him know how much.
Are you going to get some form of counselling to try to reconcile?
Sit down with your mom (or good friend) and a cuppa and have a really good heart to heart with her. That way you will be releasing any anger and anxiety that you have and should make you feel better. Even write down your feelings as releasing things can help.
Remember people say things in the 'heat of the moment' and later regret them!
Good luck and keep your chin up.

winnie

Wow, he sounds like a delight. Perhaps instead of pining over someone who obviously doesn't love you, you should be happy that you and your child got away from such a mean person. There are better things out there for you.

Budface

send his a$$ to child support..and the only reason y he is so mean to u is because he is butt hurt...and even with a job its hard to support a kid by yourself, trust me i know i have two kids and i recently left my husband too and im staying at my moms house as well..but as soon as i told him i was gonna put him in child support he got scare and begg me not too but i still did ....good luck

leila

why do you love him exactly? someone who verbally abuses you. That is not anyway to treat the mother of his children. You need some counseling to find out why you would want a man that treats you like this.

smokie

That's truly awful. What could you have possibly done to deserve that?

mrs O

Get all the child support you can get and let him rot alone.

edit: Oh,you're just a sorry Troll...grow up.

Marilyn P

Words hurt worse than a slap, when he is calm have a talk with him, tell him no matter what mood he is in to think first, then talk.
I'm sorry this happened to you. No, you don't divorce for a word or two, how many zillion times men have a bad day and say mean things to their wife, of course he loves you, he needs to mature and you two need to reconcile and get counseling. He is hurt [angry] that you are living at your mom's but he won't admit it. [Probably feels you abandoned your marriage to him so why should he be your errand boy..]

Sue C

You've got to accept the fact this man is cruel & heartless. If he doesn't even care about his own child, he sure isn't going to care about anyone else either. You're suppose to put this man in your past & leave him there. He sure isn't worth you hurting because of what he said to you. You've got to realize he's heartless & isn't capable of loving or caring about anyone. Make up your mind you're going to do your very best to turn your back on him. Don't even give him the chance of hurting you again by not contacting him again. Don't do anything to put yourself in harm's way w/him again. Please don't allow his words to hurt you, if you do, you're allowing him to control your tho'ts. He isn't worth taking up an inch of space in your mind. Just be glad you're not w/him & he'll soon be out of your life for good. At least you have a chance of being happy in the future. Being w/no one is better than being w/him. You're young & do have a chance of at least having being happy again & can be grateful for that. I DO wish you the very best...:)

Kev

i don't understand why would a married couple tell each other to use their OWN money. i mean, that just doesn't make sense to me if they actuall love eachother.

Nel G

Your suppose to be a Person, not his door mat, your suppose to be a mother, forget the nonsence, his doesn't want to help on his own, file for child support" .

Oh he'll cry and yell, but he will Pay for at least the basic needs of "his" growing child.

Advice him that when he sees you to know that You are his child's Mother, first !

Hope this helps

Sheila P

Girl divorce his butt and get want belongs to you.

Linsey

That sux n im sorry for ur loss
first u need to ensure the safety of you and ur child- due to his threats or comments
then if u think you can work things out u should see a counsoler, but if hes already making rude comments like this i say cut ur losses and move on

Kenny

tell him to learn how to use the english language...he should have said die slowly...die is a verb - and you use an adverb to describe a verb...but aside from that - what a total ******...dump him

dreamweaver

I worked for a women's shelter and I still cant believe the women who love these men who would disrespect them like this. You go on with your life and don't look back and try to make a life for you and your daughter and hopefully find someone to love you and your daughter and teach your daughter about how to grow up with love and respect shes counting on you to make the right decisions

Blue Footsâ„¢

You rely on your family or you get a job... and you deal with the fact he is a loser and he's taking his anger out on you for how he feels internally. Hopefully he will change his attitude after you get child support issues resolved. Remember why you left him and move on.

bronzebabekentucky

you need to get child support
he doesn't love you

julieknowsbest

Don't let it bother you to much, I know its impossible but try. Men are funny, maybe he is flying off the handle because he is really hurt too. Men show their emotions differently than woman (obviously you know that if you've been married) Try setting up a time when your mother can watch your daughter and catch up with him. Tell him you want to talk as two adults, and try to figure things out, especially if you still love him! you have to tell him how you honestly feel.

guru

tell him that you dont keed to be talked to that way no matter what and tell him that you still like him and you dont want to through 91/2 years down the drain and that you want to try to make it work but i would not forgive him for saying what he said to you god bless

from:guru friend

alrozz

Show him that your a winner and you will prevail regarldess of his actions. Divorce him and his pay check will die slow every support payment he makes.

gunner721

Get a lawyer make him pay through the nose. guys like this give all men a bad name. A father who will not go out on the limb for his kids is not a father but, a man who makes babies and does not care.I know I do care.

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