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hey
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it all depends on how you feel about it if ur down do it and if you don't feel comfortable with it let him know what you think and what could happen if he did it its ur decision so good luck to you |
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David J
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Don't do it, there's no going back after you do. Your life will never be the same. You will never see him in the same light. And you will never view yourself in the same way ever again. DON'T DO IT!!!!!! |
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good ol' JR
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NO!!!!! It'll never be the same again |
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no, no, NO!!
what is he thinking? why are you even entertaining it? |
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Mr. Orangekitty
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Most men are too insecure to see their wives doing it with 2 other guys in your own bed. If you're OK with it, go ahead. How generous, he's a keeper. |
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Renn
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first... find out why! |
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zeekandthefam
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Talk to him, that would be your personal choice of course and whatever you two decided. |
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Jai
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I would never do that, but hey go for it if you really want to. |
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sloegin
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No, no and NO!
This is just wrong on so many levels. I suppose many will think it is ok, but it is not. Being with anyone besides your spouse is adultery, whether it is agreed on by both of you or not. Don't even start down this path. |
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josie
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Why?
Just a fantasy of his?
Or does he like the idea of sharing you with other men?
Maybe you should agree just to see if he is serious.
If he is- he is messed up! |
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juanes addicion
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don;'t do it...it will only break you up...relationships are not made for 3...three's company...hello...3 is a crowd...a third wheel.....there are a reason for these sayings.. |
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kim b
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I have done it like 4 times with my husband..... it worked out ok but I did have funny feelings for the next week or so after... if you dont want to, then dont. My husband acutally did it with 2 of them, I dont remember, but it bothered me a bit. |
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Kiki B
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he is asking you to commit adultery. It might be okay with him but it is NEVER okay with God.
In the end, you answer to God, not your spouse. |
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ReCkLeSs&fReE
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people do have them... but im currently in a serious relationship and we are content with each other, a threesome would ruin everything, we love each other and respect each other... i wouldnt...
but you must find out what he is doing! |
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lovinglifeina69
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I say hook him up. Just be cool about it beforehand and make sure he still wants you in the primary role. It will be a lot of fun. |
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revsuzanne
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Sounds like he just wants your permission to swing.
What happens if he gets both you and the other girl pregnant? |
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jean g
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dont do it. its not healthy, plus he might fall in love with the other woman. |
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tagara
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What do 'you' think? It's your call. |
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MaStA M
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1 man for 1 woman.. the law of 2.. if anotha 1 comes in.. doesnt sound rite.. but if u feel the necessity 2 keep up 2 da law of 2 n risk it all for anotha new entry.. go ahead.. but things will neva b da same.. once its done its done.. no turning back.. do it if u wana change da way ur life is goin currently.. |
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luckystar
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it really depend on the couple, but usually the marriage suffer
because of it, it take two strong people who want other in
the marriage. trust me emotions get involved then there
trouble. so i would serious talk to him about why he want
to do this.but if this is something that you both want then
look at the pro and cons. good luck to you. |
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Unsure
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I think that you should just do whatever you think that is right for you. You know him better than anyone and know how he can deal with this kind of thing. I have done it before and I didn't have any feelings change on the party that was there we are closer now. But it is always what you want to do. |
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Michael G
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NO it will only cause trouble. |
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DONT KNOW
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if you do it make sure that you find the other person. but if he has a nother person inmind dont do it . make sure that you want to od this .he will want it more if you do it one time |
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nevit
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I think it's a terrible idea and his asking is a clear indication that your relationship is in trouble.
However, just for fun, ask him if he means you and him and another man? |
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cutiepututie28
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Only you can make that choice |
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MANDI
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i wouldn't. but hun its really up to you. one of my friends did. and after that she got sooo jealous everytime another girl was around. in my opinion...its like cheating...sorta. except your there too. |
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JR
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I think thats Crazy. No man should ever asked their lady for that. Your Love life should be just among the two of you. Unless you not pleasing him anymore...... |
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Sue
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My husband and I have been having 3 sums for a number of years. It's very normal for us now and the trick is to pick the right person to join in. Weve been married for over 30 years and would never think of leaving each other or being unfaithful. I would suggest lots of discussing before trying |
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