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My husband wants to share me with another .... a the same time. I enjoy what we have together in bed.?

but, I don't want the day to come where I have to share him. is this selfish? I have told him something like that could break our marriage up. I'm not comforable with showing my body. do people really do these things.?


    




Space Cadet #5
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my wife won't even do it with me. a "kinky" night means there is a wrinkle in the mattress pad.


Wildflower
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Some couples do make that choice.. and while each of us has our own moral beliefs as to if that is a wise choice or not... it's each couple's choice to make... having said that.. BOTH people should agree to it, or it shouldn't happen.


Laura
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geeze yes people do this stuff.. and to me its sick... he sounds like he wants to make you happy or he is just bored. who knows... then they want to know why people get divorced or cheat on each other..


O2BQuiteRite
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Ok, dear, do you have an ego? Freakin' share him with somebody else? That means he's sharing you with someone else. Tell him to go screw the wall, that's about his speed. And, see a divorce lawyer pronto!


Kevin
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Don't bring anyone else into your marriage that is wrong. Sorry if I'm preaching but you know it would only cause problems as you said and you are right.


couriouscouple486
yes people really do these things. my husband asked me to have a 3 some, with him and another woman, and then again with him and another male...its was hurt full and depressing. we still haven't done it, but after 4 months of openly talking about everything including my fears and worries i'm finally okay with it! if you dont want to do it, and you've openly discussed it then dont. because it will destroy your marriage!


HollyyMarie
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no way its the opposite of selfish
thats my personal opinion

some people like these things
i dont

i will never share my fiance, i dont care if that does indeed come out selfish, but he's mine and no one elses. damn proud of it haha

hollyy


Paul
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There is no way you should do this. This kind of things escalates. You'll try it once, then he'll want to do it again with some bizarre new twist. Draw your line in the sand now.


.Bambi.<3
People do that but honey I would not do it either. I don't think you should share your body with 2 people at once and your husband is being dumb trying to get you to share him with another person.


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Sharing is caring.


♥♥ LINDA ♥♥
If your not comfortable then say NO! If he dosent like that then you need to question the marrage....


shy2008
I hear people really do those things. Personally...I wouldn't want to share. If this is something you do not want to do, then don't. Don't let him talk you into it either. he should just accept your answer, and drop it. If he persists, then maybe there's more going on then he's telling you. And no...in no way are you being selfish. Hope this helps....


moonstruck ★ prefers her lips
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We've done it. We enjoy it but everyone is different.


Clementine
poor Space Cadet. I always thought that being married is that you can get laid any time you want by the same person! lol Start ripping her clothes off when she gets home! lol


Ûž
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don't you ever think of monogamy as a beautiful thing?

plus think of all the little nasty diseases on earth?

experiment other ways never bring another person into the equation....





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