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delanabobana
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You need to start setting some money aside for your future. You will need money to start anew. Consult with a divorce lawyer and tell him/her the situation. Ask what your best course of action is. Make some plans for leaving...be prepared. From here on out, look our for your best interests and those of your children, assuming you have some. He doesn't need to know your intentions. Distance yourself from him emotionally. It will never work out. He isn't even trying. Good luck. |
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shade9901
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omg. leave. jesus christ.
that is the easiest question ive ever answered. |
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pennietrudie
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get a new fella and see how he likes it |
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DKlyde
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Live with it or divorce him |
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marie
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kick his a ss out, that's what you can and should do.
i wonder how he would feel if you suddenly had a boyfriend?
is hurting inside any way to spend your life?
i think not. |
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Angela C
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Call a lawyer!!!!!! |
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whiskeyflirt
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first get a copy of all his financial documents and stash it away for safe keeping, if there are kids involved this may come in handy. anyways if your husband wont stop seeing his girlfriend that is disrespectful, maybe you should leave him and see how he likes it or better get a boyfriend and see how he likes it. |
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Suzy Q
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get good lawyer and leave |
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harleychickfatboy
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End it........ Plain and simple. |
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*Pretty In Pink*
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Think you should leave him |
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Shy Girl S
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Kick his sorry **** out the door! |
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Maybaby
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Stop chasing him. Divorce him and get a real man who will love you and be faithful to you. |
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JRSK007
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Become her best friend... it will certainly put an end to his relationship with her... |
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tragedy16
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divorce him, you do not have to sit and stay in a marry where your husband is unfaithful you do have options.... |
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berry
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A married man should not have a girlfriend!!!!!!!!
Divorce him. |
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melouofs
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DIVORCE! |
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chaskfrazier
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Get a divorce or kill one of them...other than that, there isn't anything you can do if he fancies his girlfriend. |
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snd28
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it doesn't bother you much because you would have been left. you shouldn't have to ask for advice on this. |
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amberlynne_2007
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Divorce him or explain to him that you are his wife and he shouldn't be cheating on you in the first place! I hope this bothers you a lot. |
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Cyn
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If your husband is wealthy and you have it made financially I'd find my own lover. Travel, live your own life at his expense. But get pictures and proof that he has a girlfriend in case he decides on a divorce when he gets treated like he's treating you. |
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navy wife 1996
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Leave him. Don't spend the rest of your life sharing your husband. |
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That Dude
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first of all, why in the world does your husband have a girlfriend, and second of all he married YOU. If he still feels the need to see other women there is no point of you being married to him. Everything he does with his "girlfriend" he should be able to do with you. If he continues after you tell him how you feel, threaten him with divorce or sumthin. some guys get married cause its the right thing to do, and not because there ready. he may not be mentally ready to handle one women his whole life. A lot of men are just like him and it also ends with a women with a broken heart. |
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Annie
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If your husband won't stop seeing the girlfriend, especially if you confronted him... then he's made his choice - let her have the bum. He is no good, he is a liar, cheat, and will probably never be a good husband. Give it time, eventually he will cheat on her too. Kick him out. You WILL find someone who will love and cherish you. Besides, I'd rather be single and content then be miserable in a hurtful marriage. |
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jimmy.parker06
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you can divorce him. |
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Jayna
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Kick him to the curb, woman! |
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clare w
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easy dump him and get a lawyer good luck |
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kp
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LEAVE! |
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bchesire68
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divorce him |
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rightio
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where is your pride? Why are you allowing how your husband is behaving to determine your self worth. If he wont leave his girlfriend alone, then doesnt that tell you somthing? Why are you downgrading yourself like this. You are an important person in your own right and if you think anything differently then your husbands cheating ways have made you feel like you are a second rate citizen. He is still seeing his girlfriend because he knows you wont leave him. He knows you have no self esteem, therefore he can treat you anyway he likes....why? simply because you have shown him how to cheat and still have a loving wife waiting for him. Change your reliability and maybe you will see a change in him. |
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