My husbands best friend sent me flowers at work . should i tell him or not?

rockstar

PLEASE tell your husband, just think what if he was keeping something like that from you? You need to tell him about everything and anything that was said. There should be NO secrets in a marriage. Plus some "BEST FRIEND" your ol' man has. He is showing no respect towards your husband, and if you dont tell your husband whats going on your not showing him much respect either. What business does he have sending HIS "bestfriend's" WIFE flowers and then wanting YOU to tell YOUR HUSBAND that HE'S going to COVENT his best friends wife. If thats some SH!T i've ever heard. YOU shouldn't even have to ask wether or not to tell your husband what is going on. OR are you taking this situation like some kind of joke?His wife also should be notified of the situation. You think she will appreciate her husband sending his best friends wife flowers?

JAZY

u NEED to tell ur husabnd NOW

lyndsey

you should tell him to be honest.

tuttavar

you shd definetely tell him.... no secret b/w husband and wife...

dxb

u need to tell your husband and the two of you'll need to get this guy face to face and give him a piece of your mind . he's way across the border and totally psyching you out.

lucypinksun

That's weird. I'd tell.

Slick

no it didnt hurt anybody

pumkin

Does not really seem like a friend to me... Man Law: Never hit on best friends, girlfriend, wife, sister, mother. I would tell him, you are married and you should share everything. What if a women sent him a gift would you want to be left in the dark? I don't think so.

Ashley D

YES TELL HIM !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

caribbeangal

tell ur husband. Why would he send you flowers something else is coming up after that.

stillshyneing

You need to tell your boyfriend because he has a right to know. What kind of best friend is this guy, seriously...

fiery_purpose

dnt keep the peace, thats the worst you can do, explain to ur husband calmly wat happened and discuss it with him and find a solution together. the worst thing you can do is hide this frm him

danieldegracia1

well if no attraction there from u.tell him to buzz off

sxyjjust4u

If you do not tell him it is going to come back to bite you in the @$$!!! Believe me when I tell you!!!
The fact that you didn't tell him already is going to be suspect. The longer you wait the more at fault you're going to be. Your husband's BEST friend has no business sending you flowers (What type of **** is that?!) Your husband knows this.
So when you go to him do it in a saddened, calm, worried, loving manner. Explain to him that there was no easy way to tell him this but no matter had ugly it's going to get you just had to tell him. Tell him word for word moment by moment what happened.
Then let him speak on how he feels. If he is angry just reassure him that you love only him and that you were saddened and outraged by his friend's behavior. Depending on his reaction:

A. He gets mad and snaps on you Solution - you let it go (he crazy)
B. He gets mad but not at you & wants to talk Solution - listen
C. He wants to go fight his friend Solution - Let him whup his ***
D. He's calm and/or nervous & tries 2 assure u nuthin is goin on Solution -Investigate Somebody's lying

It could very well be that his friend is jealous and just wants some of you. Maybe his girl does like yo man but that doesn't give him ANY right to overstep the boundaries with you as his friend's wife. Tell that ***** to come with some evidence of yo husband doing dirt. Don't take NOBODY'S word for ****!!!

In any event you have to tell your husband. When you tell him post the results so I can further advise. Thank you

Dana K

Tell your husband. I have been married now for 13 years and believe me as long as you love your husband and want to stay with him... tell him and do it asap. If you don't it can only be harmful.

Hanan R

Of course, tell him about his best friend's flowers. Involving him in the problem would make him feel assured that you feel nothing for his friend, and no matter what this so-called friend does, your relation will stay intact!

arya_littlefinger

Definately tell your husband. If you don't tell him this is something that could come around and kick you in the *** in the end. It would be really smart to sit him down and talk to him about it.

Makinnosense

Tell him what happened. You should also tell him if it made you feel good. Maybe all of you should sit down and talk about what kind of friends you COULD be.

okronbon

what if your husband put his friend up to it just to test you?? I would tell him just to keep your behind safe!

Jen

Sounds like your husband's friend is interested in swinging. I would let your husband know about the flowers, it's best to be completely honest.

millitary007

Well would you want him to hide anything from you. Personally I say yes flowers doesn't always have hidin agendas. I think that if it makes you nervous enough to put the question on here then you might be thinking that there is something else going on so your best answer is to come clean. I hide nothing from my wife hell I tell her about every answer I put on here and how most of them I just reflect on how either of us would feel in the situation. So talk to your husband discuss the appropriateness of his best friend

damselfly

Tell your husband. Would you want him to tell you that your bf sent him something.

Simply_Renee

Tell your husband. This guy is trying to make his wife mad, most likely and I wouldn't appreciate being dragged into it if I were you. It's not your fault this idiot sent you flowers.

chevy

dam, sounds like you all 4 need to sit down together and shake all this out.

kitkat

The moment they arrived you should have called him. Do it now.......

kma22263

Tell him now, so it doesn't turn into some soap opera b.s.

hardcoco

You need to tell your husband everything, and this friend is not a friend.

bluez

He's obviously trying to mark his territory with his woman and your husband. Yes, tell your husband otherwise it will look like you are hiding things when he finds out.

ta2003

You need to tell your husband, cause eventually he Will find out and **** will hit the fan, you also need to make it clear to your husband;s friend that this is not acceptable and that it can not happen again

Mr. Mister

Get your life in-check through Jesus Christ and you may find the REAL answer to your question.

Sounds like your a real good wife.

There is always need for improvement from us all.

Have a nice week.

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