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Janet A
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Sounds like he had an affair.
I hope the two of you didn't have any children. That would be a shame!
Don't worry, he will end up dumping her in 2 to 5 years for someone else.
Time for you to move on. It will be hard and it will hurt for a while, but you seem to be a good person and you deserve to be with someone that will appreciate and honor you.
*Edit*
Get an attorney now! Make sure that you get child support and if you don't have a job that you get alimony. He will try to talk you out of an attorney saying that he will do right by you, but he hasn't so far, and won't continue to. He will get upset about the child support and alimony claiming that you are nothing but a gold digger, but you have a legal right and a responsibility to your child to receive this (unless you don't plan on having the child).
Be careful, things can start getting ugly now. He may even turn violent and try to bully you. Remember, he started this. You did nothing wrong and you have certain rights. Stand your ground. And when you can start to trust again, find the right man for you and your child. It will take time.
Good luck (and sorry.. ) |
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Olga
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What an a* hole... |
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Heather
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wtf dump the loser and take half of what he has and marry a new guy!!! |
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Tsunami
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well that is the roll of things and dice. you just got a man that is not up to his honesty with you and hes now found another love interest and there is nothing you can do. well i would get a goodlawyer and divide the stuf up you have and move on and find someone that is good to you only take care. |
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cupidgirl
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let him go- if he doesnt appreciate you then he doesnt deserve you. you can do better. NEVER try to keep a man who would pull this sh*t on you. good luck |
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abc
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unfortunately you can't make someone love you...what does greater than 30 and less than 18 mean??????
hang in there, it was nothing you did or didn't do |
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Rainfly435
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Wow. So sorry to hear that! But unfortunately you can't force someone to stay. Don't let this change how you feel about yourself! It will be hard for a while, yes, but you'll get past this and hopefully find someone amazing who loves you and realizes what they have! Take advantage of being single!! ITS AWESOME :) |
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Jennifer
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Im so very sorry for you
and Why is he doing this????
because He,s an AAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS... thats why
I will pray for you Hun I really feel for you |
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Rose
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I'M SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO... SORRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... |
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King J
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I have no idea but I would suggest not to show him that you are vulnerable, he's moving on and maybe it's time for you to move on. |
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BeautifulTrouble
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Hun....its all his fault.You did nothing wrong.Let him go.He is not worth the pain.Its going to be hard.I'm so sorry.He is not worth fighting for. |
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nicole
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Oh I am so sorry! I don't really know your personal situation but it sounds like he maybe just is infatuated with this girl. If he was away from you for awhile he probably forgot how good you two are together. |
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Dean and Heather
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i really dont know why he is doing this. he must of fell more in love with this other woman. im really sorry to hear this. it breaks my heart. the only reason i can think of why he would do this is the other girl must be more special to him, or maybe cause she is in the army with him, and their both going through the same thing. once again im very sorry to hear this. best of luck |
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J
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He obviously isn't worth the trouble of worrying so much. Find someone else. Try to go and do a girls night out to talk to them about it. |
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Figment 58
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Because distance doesn't make the heart grow fonder. People do change. Be greatful that he is breaking up and not cheating on your for years to come. Be strong and move on. |
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Mom to be 8/09
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I am so sorry to hear about this. Did you really have no idea? I want to say that you shouldn't want anyone who doesn't love you, but as a married person I know it isn't that easy. Men are so crazy sometimes. I will pray for you as you should pray for yourself. He will realize one day what a mistake he made but it will be soooooooo late!!! |
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sanoe2lake
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this kind of thing happens a lot in the military... the divorce rate of the military is somewhere near 75%.
Theres nothing you can really do... just accept it and move on. if hes leaving you for another women then he obviously has been cheating and sneaking around...
and that is someone you dont want to be with...
so take half of his **** |
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warmspirited
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Children? |
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45 auto
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If he is in the Army contact his CO and make sure he pays for the child> |
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audriana.beck
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dont look at it as something you did...you did nothing. just cry about it one good night, pull yourself together,and find someone better! =] |
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lourdes r
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accept to yourself that nothing is really permanent. everything will simply pass and leave us all the memories-good or bad. it is trully hard to let go because i was in your situation once but i gave it my best shot though letting go is so hard and hurting to do. if both of you cannot save the marriage, time to take a breather and give yourselves space wherein you can both realize what is it that you really want of your togetherness. if your husband cannot give up that other woman,
plan for yourself, what you want to do and what you want to be without your husband. from there, you can start moving on alone. you can show him how good and happy life is, even without him. be strong
and put in your mind that life is still worthwhile in spite of all the odds. |
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ronald g
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I have just went through the same thing but different sounds like you tried to be good to this guy but my thought is the better you are to them the worest they are ot you if you treat someone good now days they dont respect you. |
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L'amour, N'est Rien
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why are you on yahoo answers? |
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thetruth
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WTF? *** holeee. we all make mistakes. marrying that A hole was yours. Don't try to get him back. Because he WILL do this to you again, no matter what you wanna believe. He has commitment problems. No guys is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry. This guy isn't worth your time. You're still young, now what are you waiting for? Go find a guy who will look at only you and love only you and stare at you like you are everything, and when he says he loves you, his heart is so filled with love he can hardly bear it. ( wow that was really deep for me = )
And i'm so sorry that it happened, but it did. Theres nothing you can do about it. Now it's time to move on.
GOOD LUCK! :) |
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T T
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Your husband found someone else. it is hard to accept, and you won't for awhile. only you can help yourself. He didn't drain the accounts did he? you might be in shock right now but you need to act now, cry later.http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/protect.php
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Shine Cloud
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You have the right to freak out. But try and be strong and hold it together. He is the weak one, he is leaving. Obviously he isn't a good husband if he is leaving and has been obviously unfaithful to you if just now he is telling you he is leaving for another woman. Go and see a friend, family and talk this through. What an a.sshole! |
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kelly
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try to talk to him. try to understand why he is leaving you. may be you guys might need to work on something or may be the girl he is dating want him to divorce you before they get serious |
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