My ladyfriend was in LDR and went to India to meet her bf...?

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My ladyfriend was in LDR and went to India to meet her bf...?
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She paid thousands $ for ticket(even if she lives on disability welfare). The boy married with Indian girl soon later.
And she was broken. Now, she speaks with Pakistani guys who tell you again how much they love her and want to marry.
I am not against long distance relationships but she seems too credulous.
What do you think?

Buri

@comyab: Lobicito Marino isn't being possessive. He's a friend and obviously wants the best for her.

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I think she really has to start paying attention to who she's talking to. There are tons of fake people out there who will simply want her money. If I were you, I'd tell her to try to look for a closer relationship where she won't have to pay for a ticket to see the guy. Another thing, why is she visiting him? Shouldn't it be the other way around? If they really love her, they should visit her first.

Honestly, I think distance relationships aren't good. Its hard enough deciding whether someone loves you in person and at a large distance, it's probably even harder.

cherryberry

sounds like she has low self esteem.

comyab

please let her life in her own way .
what she does is her right .
don't be possessive, my dear .

Logana

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