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Tam
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My ex husband was that way - He didn't want me getting my driver's license because he was scared to death I'd figure out there was life out there (and be able to check up on him, I later realized). I didn't get my license till I was 21, and had to do that as a "surprise". My best advice is : Try explaining he has nothing to worry about, you love him - BUT that driving is a MUST. If he still doesn't like it, dump him... Thats being too controlling, and is holding you back. |
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Butterflycry
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He is controlling you! He is also keeping you from seeing what he is doing! IS HE WORTH IT? |
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rainyday
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DUMP him...at best he's laying a guilt trip on you...at worst he's just plain scary. you'll NEVER be able to convince him about cheating once he gets that thought in your head. RUN!!! |
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Tater Salad
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Wow....doesn't he know you can cheat right at home? Yeah, UPS guy, Fed Ex guy, Mailman, Culligan Man..you name it. The problem is with his insecurities. Not you. He needs to trust more or get out of the relationship. Can you imagine him in 20 years being like that? |
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Stacie♫ fan
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Tell him you can get a car if you want to. Tell him that if he really trusts you he'll give you some more space!! |
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booktender
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He is worried about you cheating and you don't get to go anywhere without him? If he is trying to keep you at home and control your movements, please look at this. If not, please ignore!
Economic or financial abuse includes:
withholding economic resources such as money or credit cards
stealing from or defrauding a partner of money or assets
exploiting the intimate partner’s resources for personal gain
withholding physical resources such as food, clothes, necessary medications, or shelter from a partner
preventing the spouse or intimate partner from working or choosing an occupation
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/domestic_violence_abuse_types_signs_causes_effects.htm |
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LOL
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You know what to do but you won't. You'll stay where you're at and take the abuse because you're mentally incapacitated and weak!
Or you can't afford to leave and you're stuck in the relatuionaship.
Plain stupid is my guess for even having to ask. |
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DeltaQueen
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Sounds like you have a control freak on your hands, and please realize that that is a classic sign of abuse. Not letting you have a car is ridiculous, i bet if you examined your relationship you would find other signs of a controlling mate. Stand up for yourself before it's too late. |
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Press288
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Get the car, and if he still thinks your cheating on him, when your clearly not, why don't you let him check the milage and the distance it takes to go from your location to destination and back. just for the first few times, so he will know that you are faithful.
also, u must be really hot if your man worries that much :] take it as a compliment too :]] |
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Cat
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Girl you need to gooooooo, nooowwwwwww! |
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kjay
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I would get out of this relationship ASAP. He sounds extremly possesive and controling |
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southernlisa37
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Oh man he must be a real control freak!!!! Maybe he is cheating and thinks you can catch him if you have a ride???? |
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peskygnats
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Uh...get out now. If he is this possessive and insecure, it will only worsen as more freedoms become available to you. The next thing you know it will be your job or your friends. In the end, mine became physically abusive, so watch for signs. If he shows them, get out as soon as safely possible. |
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kentata
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Your "man" is a control freak. Dump him and run as fast as you can in the other direction. |
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MelC
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ya leave that guy thats only the start of many worse things to come |
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butterfly55freedom
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If you are going to cheat you will cheat car or no car. If you love him make him feel secure if you don`t finish with him now and then look for someone else but do not cheat. |
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SAD
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I actually was worrying about my boyfriend, when he gets his car that he will cheat on me. I realized that it's unhealthy for me to have to worry about him..I can't babysit him 24/7, he has to have his freedom and I have to let him be free. If he chooses to cheat on me..that's on him..KARMA..so I made a decision to let go. I'm still having trouble letting go, but you can't control people..they have to live their lives and if they screw up they pay the consequences. I kinda understand your boyfriend and I'm sure it won't stop at the car, because my mind was full of suspicions..it was driving me crazy and I had to make myself stop. |
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rose r
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he donot trust you or wont say that sorry msut do things make him trust you |
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cuteebony29
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im sorry but if i was you alarm bells would ringing out loud!,you wanna get rid girl,what does he expect you to do tied to him 24 7,you need to have 1 serios chat with him as he has serious issues he needs to deal with,either that or u really need to get away from him hun you really do. |
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Boredstiff
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Get your car and get out! He is a controling person, next it will be your bank account, next it will be your friends.
Check this out:
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Ruigrok5.html |
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starting over
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He is controlling and it is only time until he gets abusive.
Make like a hockey play...get the puck out! |
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gary36330
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Come see me when you get your car and we can, ummm talk about it ;) |
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thearthound
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RUN!!!
If you let him control you like that, it will only get worse as time passes.
By the way...Do the Gerbil thing to him before you...RUN! |
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Blurblur
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It only get worse if you keep being with him. He will try to control eveything over you. |
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majasim1
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He is insecure. He needs to grow up. You are young and you can go where ever you want and do what ever you want. It is non of his business b/c you are not married to him. You are just dating. If he can't handle you having a car, then you need to move on, and find someone more mature. |
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dr_flavor03
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Maybe he is afraid that you will find out that he is cheating on you... if you have never cheat on him he should not have a reason to doubt you. He should be happy for you and support you 100%. |
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honeyangel
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hes just insecure..once u get a car and he sees he can trust u, he'll hopefully shut up. he should know that u can cheat on him even without a car and the fact u havent so far should be proof. |
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keri gee
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A good relationship is built on trust. His lack of trust in you is not your problem. You have a right to independence. You need to tell him that if he cannot trust you, then you can't stay in the relationship. Sometimes men like that get more distrustful and controlling, so you should use this as a warning signal that you all need to work on these issues in your relationship. |
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silvereagle1125
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hun if you got a man who has you that tied down then you dont need him you are a human being yourself you are your own person live a life dont be tied down that isnt the right way to be.. enjoy your life if he dont want you to have a life then you dont need him |
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crazychick ♥
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ur man is wayy too controlling u need to leave him |
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