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My sisters husband is paying me to not to tell my sister! Is this a good idea?

Today I just caught my older sister's husband with another women! When I came up to them, I started yelling and telling him I'm going to tell my sister on him. He then beg me not to say anything! He said he will pay me to not tell my sister, and he will tell his wife when he is ready. He then gave me 500 bucks to not to say a word!

I did took the money, but yet i don't feel right of him hurting my older sister. ...But yet I did need the money. Do you think I should just give the money back and tell my sister or just not say anything?? I'm 16 by the way


    




Betty M
Is $500 all your sister's relationship to you is worth? No amount of money should be worth more to you then your own sister.

What possible reason would a 16 year old need $500? Is your rent over due, did you get behind in your credit card payments or your car payments? Come on, what gives?

Your sister is going to be very upset when she finds out her husband is cheating on her. How upset do you think she is going to be when she finds out her own sister knew about it, but willingly accepted money to keep her mouth shut?

Do the right thing. Give your sister the money and tell her what her husband did.


Cthulhu Fhtagn
You sold out your sister for $500....

How much would it cost me to rent you for the night? 100 bucks should cover it right?


~♥_♥~
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Give the money back! How could you betray your flesh and blood for a chunk of change?! How would you feel if she did this to you?


Klogg
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Tell your sister and give her the money. Tell her that he paid you off to keep quiet.


DaylightsDarkness
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Rat the scumbag out. Whether or not you give back the money is up to you.


Anana A
keep the cash and tell ur sis anyway


Joel R
I would keep the money and then tell my sister.


Rachel
keep the money as proof to tell your sister, then keep the money


♥SEVEN♥
Girl do not do this to your sister over money...that money will be gone in NO TIME AT ALL. I know to a 16 yearl old, that is a lot of money but it is not worth hurting your sister over.

Tell your sister and show her the money, she just may let you keep it. Or give you half, who knows.

Whatever you do, do not hurt your sister.


Ludog
Tell your sister give back the money. Would you want this to happen to you.


drewxjacobs
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By taking money for your silence, that makes you a party to his misdeeds. You must know he has no plans of telling his wife of his indiscretions. How would you feel if it was your sister that took the money and kept information from her about her husband's infidelity? I don't know that it is your place to tell her, but I wouldn't align myself with her cheating husband either.


Gib's Girl
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As a married woman I would be furious if my sister did not tell me. That's just me.


Smartperson
No, it is not a good idea. You should:

Tell your sister PLUS either give back the money, or maybe give the money to your sister.


Mary M
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You should give the money back. However, I would not say anything to your sister. Eventually, she will find out if she does not already know. Saying something to your sister may strain the relationship that you have with her--especially if she decides to stay with him.


Punk Chik
Wow, of course u don't feel right. Do u rely need ppl on YA to tell u the difference between right and wrong.
Okay, keep the money, but tell ur sister. Win-Win situation!


jude
keeping the money he gave u could destroy your relationship u have with your sister. but telling her she could turn on u and not believe u. if your sister later finds out u knew and did not tell her it will hurt her. money isn't everything, i would give the lying cheating sneak his money back, and since its your sister i would tell her the truth. but i would ask my parents first.


mochabiznswmn
Ok never sell your sister out for money, keep the money show her and tell her and you ae only 16 so it is not too many things that you are in need of other than the teenage trips to the mall..tell her and don't look back ALWAYS protect her first..


My Son Is My ♥™
YES!
tell ur sister...she deserves to kno!
FAMILY is MORE important
im sure u would want her to tell u


elle'
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Go to your sister and tell her


Michael P
keep the money and tell your sister. otherwise you are betraying your sister and placing yourself on the same level as her husband.
whats worth more to you your sisters happiness and trust in you or 500 dollars and your word?


scrapmetalgirl
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Tell your mum and dad and ask them for help. would you want your sister to tell you.


Bunni
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Tell your sister. Do not dishonor your family! It will be bad for your image if people know they can easily bribe you. Not to mention, how will your sister feel when she eventually finds out he's cheating, and when she finds out you knew?

If you love your sister, tell her. I would want my little sisters to tell me if anything like that ever happened.

If you need money, all you need to do is get a job for a little while, save up, and then quit. ...and you can keep the money you already have.


Sab
tell your sister. put yourself in her situation, and im sure u wouldnt want to be betrayed by your sister or cheated on by your husband. Their is no value to a relationship with her sister.I hope u do not regret your decision, good luck.


abluefuzz
Dhu tell how would you feel in that situation and dont give back the money :) ,,,,,,unless you want too


transcendhate
You should definitely give the money back and tell your sister. If you need the money that bad, then I'm sure you could find another way to make some.

If your sister finds out later, she will be mad, and she will be very mad at you for not telling her. She deserves to know.

If your relationship with her is worth more than money, tell her. You can give him his money back afterward.


Kathleen O
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i agree with rachel


salivate16
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He is not going to tell your sister anytime soon. That takes balls, and he clearly doesn't have any.

I don't care what you do with the money, but tell your sister immediately.


alpha & omega
You enter into a contract to be quiet once you took the money. Tell your sister when she gets old. By then, she will not care.


moocow
Give the money back, apoligize to your sister, tell her, and then ask her if she can lend you some money.


fallen angel
Tell your sister .do whatever you want with the money





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