My soon to be ex wife is sleeping with someone i know and its making me very angry.wgat can i do about it?

HolidayGurl

Possibly the problem is that you are still in love with her and you are feeling hurt that she would do this. Maybe you need to do some soul searching and I think you will come to realize that you are deeply hurt - not angry. They say time heals all wounds but - it is miserable at the time. As hard as this is, think about the future. I'm sure you will find a wonderful gal who will treat you, respect you, and love you the way you deserve. Please -don't do anything that you will regret. Show her respect even if she can't do the same for you. You will be glad down the road that you were the mature person. Good luck!

Henry W

that means you still love her.......
or you just being childish, doesn't want to loose anything

stephenl1950

Don't do anything. You will only end up messing up your life. I know it isn't easy, but just try to ignore it. Go out with some friends and enjoy yourself. Stay away from the booze, it'll only make thing worse.

shyhonney

At this point since she is divorcing you there is nothing you can do. It hink she is doing it to piss you off. if you are really good friends with the person i would go tell him off.

David A

not a damn thing except accept it and move one.

Aubrey's mommy

Nothing. Forget about it. It's your EX WIFE after all. Move on and enjoy your new life.

raininmyshoe

Go on with life. Believe God that He can take you past this horrible time in your life, to joy in the morning...best wishes

SallyC

take solace in the fact that what comes around go around.

there are other fish in the sea

shelly

absolutely nothing. she is your ex.

Bubbi

Nothing... you're almost divorced.

day dreamin baby

nothing, you aren't with her anymore.

Max

Don't do anyhing that will get yourself in trouble. Probably the best thing would be to forget it.

angelofdreams19881

You could sleep with him too, that would probably put a damper on their relationship. If that is simply out of the question, call him up and let him know that you just found out you have herpes, which you must have gotten from her, and since you can't get a hold of her, this was the only way to let her know. That should give them a nice romantic conversation. And you didn't here this from me, but I hear she has to fake it with him. I also heard he has to fake it with her too. Now go find someone who will appreciate you and mend that broken heart. You deserve better.

ilovekenneth1010

Well unfortunately nothing. The best you can do is move on and find someone that can make you happy because it's obviously not this woman. Good luck!

Boo Boo

move on - you did say that she was soon to be your ex wife

riley715

You should talk to her about it. If all else fails, then i guess u do what u have to do and kick her to the curb. Remember, u vowed to stay with her until death do you part. So I think u should try ur hardest to repair what has happened. It only seems lyk the rite thing to do.

Ginnykitty

be glad she will be a "X". find someone else.

Becky

That would be a big fat NOTHING!
Thats is why you call it divorce.

mm W

nothing its soon to be x maybe next time you will find sopme one you make happy

kent chatham

She is your "soon to be ex wife"?

Already you are punishing her as much as possible.

What can you do about it?

Already you are divorcing her. Now, just get on with whatever life you have left. Stop being "very angry"; you will harm yourself.

Country

Stop being angry.... it won't do any good. Forgive for your own stress level to go down, spend some time finding yourself, doing some things you would like to do. Don't just go out seeking revenge, or looking to move on to another right away. Just find yourself, the right things will come along when you leaste expect it.

calgaryguy

Tell them that you do not like it. I really can not see them caring because they are your ex wife but really what do you have to lose by telling them that you not like them sleeping together. I think you may have to get over it and move on with your life.

BadAssGirlINWV

Nothing, move on. Find you a loving and caring lady to sleep with and forget about her. Good luck.

RUNINTLKT

Divorce her. That's all you can and should do. I'm sure there are laws against adultery in your state or part of the world.

kettlechipsdude

If she is soon to be ex already, I am assuming that this wasn't the reason she is becoming the ex. I'd say if you have some proof or can get some proof, may be you can claim infidelity and see if you can get a break on the alimony. Just one more way to stick it back to her.

If it's too late, it's too late but if you have a chance, you can make the best of it for future and may be even get some of your anger out.

** Caution: I am not a lawer. This is just an opinion and can not nor should be held liable if your situation worsens due to this advice. I suggest seeking some legal help - which you should already have if you are getting divorced.

kevin_p0

I don't see how what they're doing matters to you in any way. If you still care for this woman, then maybe you shouldn't be getting divorced!

loveliliekisses

I dont know what u can do about it i just wanted to say i am sympatic towards ur pain and hope one day you will be completely okay and better....................Okay well first try to get over it with out making urself feel worst she wasnt the one for you and you can find somebody better than her she might regret what she is doing one day lokk there will be a bright side to all of this pain one day Sometimes mistakes and hut lead to into the happiest you have ever been

berry

Nothing but to proceed with the divorce.

sweet

It sounds like you are still in denial. In reality you have to realize she will not stop this and will not go back to you. You will find a better wife one day that wont treat you like this. So look forward to meeting your new wife one day. Good luck to you.

Michelle :

quit letting it bother you and move on.

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