My spouse leaves the toilet seat up all the time what should i tell him?

mrpoet03

Don't stress it

darkblue

well u leave it down all the time ...maybe he has the same problem with you!.........so give it a break already, how hard is it for u guys to adjust the seat for youselfs??

Winter Glory

oh, hell, just put the seat down yourself, it's really not that difficult.

denveremail

I think women should put the seat up when they are done, why should the men keep having to put it down!!!

Kitty

Tell him you love him.

leonard s

Honey. put the seat down please(smile)

Emily Dew

Marriage, like parenting, is definitely one place where you have to learn to choose your battles wisely. If it REALLY bothers you a lot ... to the point where you seethe with anger at home for hours afterward ... definitely say something. Does he know that you find it annoying? Otherwise, I would just let it go. You probably have a habit or two that he finds annoying as well, so be prepared that if you open this can of worms, it might blow up in your face.

slushpile reader

In my house, sometimes I have to put the seat down. Then my partner will come in the bathroom, and he has to put it up. We decided WTFC, and its pretty much a non-issue. Now, lets talk about wet towels left on my side of the bed - thats a fight I'll pick!

kryptronyx

hey...at least he lifts the lid

anoldmick

Nothing. Put the seat down yourself; are your arms broken? Men need it up, women need it down. Do you put it up for him when you're done? I thought not. Adults don't get their knickers in a twist over something so inconsequential.

Nancy Kay

tell him you love him, then put the seat down yourself...what a petty thing to remain upset over...if he's ever gone from your life (or this earth) you will be missing that damned left-up toilet seat with all your heart...remember that about all daily irritations...there may come a day when you would trade your soul for just one more day of his irritating little habits

musicfreak_music

just tell him and if he keeps on doing so, dont stress it, whats so hard to putting it down?

StephyBaby

my boyfriend does it all the time and I refuse to touch the toilet seat with my hands, so whenever its up I kinda kick it down with my foot which causes a really loud noise. I do it when hes sleeping or trying to concentrate on something so it annoys him and then I just tell him its his fault because he left it up and he knows how I am with touching the toilet. If he's not going to ever listen and just put it down I get satisfaction in waking him up at 4am.

Colleen O

Thank him for pissing IN the toilet rather than the floor AROUND the toilet.

ANGEL1

say nothing - just make sure you "go" during the night and when you put it down let it bang lol they soon get fed up being wakened by the clatter and losing sleep lol - Not too hard a bang tho or you may have to buy a new one x

shawn_getrdone

try to talk to him about it but just hint around thats not rite

pennypoolblue

if u are bothered by something as little as leaving the toilet seat up then u have issues. i mean life is waaaaaaaaay 2 short to worry about the small things in life. so take a chill pill.

gloria b

I'd worry if mine didn't! lol

awommack

tell him

chuck

Tell him that you're willing to compromise. One week you leave the seat up and the next it is left down. If that doesn't work for you or him just tell him he will not be getting any until he starts leaving the seat down. That should do the trick. Also for every week he leaves the seat down you reward him with some.

Jane Marple

Put up a note on the wall he sees when he uses the toilet.

sky

tell him you love him...how fortunate you are to have a significant other...

groundhog

do you leave the seat down after you use it?

ABBABABE

Nothing. Why does this annoy people, I haven't a clue. Makes no odds to me if the seat is up or down, and I'm a female and I'm the only person who cleans it in my home. I just don't get the reason why it annoys so many women.

Arthur W

go to Home Depot or wherever and get one of the toilet seats with the partially open fron end and the super glue it to the bowl and that should solve your problem

Ouchie

Tell him it takes more steps for you than him to pee. You have to undo your pants, pull them down, sit down, wipe, flush. And all he has to do is drop his pants (unless he's wearing boxers he doesn't even have to do that, just use the hole), go, and flush. So the least he can do is put the seat back down for ya. :-D.

latj

I've been married almost 20 years. Mine kept doing it after I begged and pleaded. I also put up signs to embarass him and he paid no mind.
I found this underwater sticker that you put in the bottom of the toliet bowl and it says ~ Please flush the toliet ~
It stopped him. He has actually begged me to remove them but I won't until he is totally seat trained!!!

Annie

ask him politely and logically to please put the toilet seat down for your sake. Just kindly explain to him how much it bothers you and why. If he cares about you he will listen to you and try to stop because he loves you.

MAB

well u leave it down the whole time

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